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NoSoggyBottoms420 :
There's a weird attitude shift atm where men need to show their emotions but also can't show emotions if other people are having emotions too. It's +
2022-07-21 09:39:58
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🐂 :
"imagine knowing if push comes to shove.. their needs will always matter more than yours" This is,I feel, the default social position of most husbands
2022-07-21 15:12:38
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Christian Bredvig La :
Who is the guy in the beginning?
2022-07-21 16:26:44
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Saffiebromeboy :
easy proof of this is the fact that many men (like myself) feel more seen by a very small handful of people on tiktok, than by our loved ones
2022-07-21 10:07:53
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With-A-Y :
I've experienced, expressing my feelings to a partner, which turns into focusing on how that makes my partner feel. Never addressing my feelings.
2022-07-21 17:54:42
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Lord of The Flies :
My emotions come second to even my mothers. It’s not dating that taught me not to stone up around people - it was family.
2022-07-21 16:28:11
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JT Whitehead :
I stopped talking bc when I expressed how I felt it always ended up with me consoling my partner bc they got upset with how I felt
2022-07-21 16:19:08
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Murphy 🇬🇧🇺🇦 :
One reason for this is that women express their emotions in a more dramatic way. (Crying.) Exception being anger.
2022-07-21 09:22:14
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Hyuxi :
Also worth noting the bias goes both ways. Men, being rational, would 'solve' her problem for her as if she can't do it.
2022-07-21 08:56:52
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AYO :
Yeah, most of the time it's just really not worth the saying anything and then having to have a separate annoying convo about how my feelings made -
2022-07-21 11:42:12
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Bansh33killer :
I think most men are taught to come second. But it’s when they deal with womens feelings and then theirs are ignored or unresolved is the issue
2022-07-21 16:28:49
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Frank Grey :
I don't mind coming 2nd, just want to be made to feel important to them too sometimes.
2022-07-21 12:07:52
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Brice Poutine :
It's unequal, but it goes both ways: women come first and men need to feel supported. As long as we don't overshadow each other...
2022-07-21 13:31:49
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throwawayspam362 :
I get the feeling that people don't work to solve their problem because being validated feels good and it's convenient to always have a problem
2022-07-21 14:16:21
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ATXzman :
been married 18 years to an awesome women. stay stoic gentlemen
2022-07-21 14:04:03
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big eight :
Recent conversation for me and my spouse where I walked on egg shells since i usually was the emotional stability.
2022-07-21 15:39:05
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Shane Walsh :
Should we show emotions more? Why?
2022-07-21 15:06:45
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ReleasePowerOrbs :
2nd? True if there’s no kids involved.
2022-07-21 16:29:56
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DoodooHead 🐥 :
This was taught by many parents, too. I know that my own automatic abandonment if my feelings for those of my partner comes from being taught it
2022-07-21 08:37:13
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Elisha LaCourse :
My wife explicitly told me her feelings matter more than mine, specifically because of our genders. ☹️
2022-07-21 20:56:19
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Pete :
That’s the job 🤷♂️
2022-07-21 14:49:56
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charles :
very true. also if a woman is upset we comfort them. if a man is upset often that upsets their partner and again we end up having to comfort them.
2022-07-21 19:58:52
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cherryevans95 :
We often think an argument needs a winner. This is where one's validation comes before another's. But both can and should be validated.
2022-07-21 15:31:52
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