@hightemperance: Putting a name to the behavior helps us recognize what it is & opens up the ability for discernment/communication about it later. I hope this helps a struggling parent or even partner somewhere. You are not alone. #yougotthis #weaponizedincompentence #teachyourkids #beaparent #notafriend #therapy #healing #teaching #awareness #unsolicitedadvice #relatable #parentinghacks #foryou

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shaedyquill
Shaedyquill :
"why dont my kids talk to me anymore?"
2022-08-09 06:56:53
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hightemperance
hightemperance :
Also want to clarify- this isn’t only a men or boys thing. Everyone does it or has done it at some point. The convo just needs to be had regardless.
2022-08-09 02:57:33
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theky_guy
Kylee Savage :
I mean this genuinely, my mom spoke to me like this growing up and that cruel tone is what I hear in my mind when I think of her even now.
2022-08-09 03:54:39
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the.bres.nees
Bre 🪽 :
You don’t have to use that tone with him. You can teach him the lesson WITHOUT the disrespect. That’s what kids remember.
2022-08-09 04:32:21
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momthighsandwitchvibes
MomthighsandWITCHvibes :
Raising a future AMAZING husband and partner.
2022-08-08 23:56:18
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lester42o
Lester420 :
Your choice of words hit my soul. If only my husbands mom did the same when it made a difference
2022-08-08 23:12:07
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lovemomo550
Maia :
He hated that you could see through his game, you could see it in the way that he immediately started doing what you wanted him to do
2022-08-09 02:13:58
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wanders.n
Wanderson :
Retirement home speed run
2022-08-09 04:06:21
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arielmcpartlon
Ariel✨ :
Unpopular opinion here. My parents talked to me in this tone growing up. And I’m trying to reverse that toxic trait in myself thinking this is okay(1)
2022-08-09 07:29:55
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the_green_fern
Em :
THIS is how we as mothers today need to be raising our sons. Weaponized incompetence is no longer tolerated
2022-08-09 01:30:26
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katiahmichelescis
Katiah Michele Scisum :
I get the message you’re trying to get across but when someone talks to me like that I immediately shut down. Use this as a teaching moment for him,
2022-08-09 07:06:53
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slickrick242
🦋Rikki🦋 :
For the people complaining about this video. I’m sure you married men that she’s trying to make sure her son isn’t. 😁
2022-08-11 14:53:50
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user7914075108274
user7914075108274 :
Final food for thought on this: I think children should learn how to identify and communicate their emotions before they learn a complex topic
2022-08-09 05:04:16
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starraelynn
Star Friisvall :
If people knew your whole background and what the kiddos have been through they’d understand WHY you HAVE to have these convos with them
2022-08-08 22:08:39
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raea82219
raerae :
Totally agree with the message but maybe watch the tone. I still resent my mother for how small and irrelevant she made me and my opinions feel. 💜
2022-08-09 04:27:19
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togmom136
Amanda :
My heart. I wish people could understand, when we call a behavior weaponized incompetence we are simply holding them accountable. We learn. We teach.
2022-08-09 00:07:31
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itsliterallysteph
👑 :
“Like I owe you a fun day” love that, my kid always makes me feel bad if we don’t do fun stuff on my days off
2022-08-09 02:16:23
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lavenderl0uise
✨ Lou 🎆✨ :
Good job momma! When they give you a tude don’t approach with sugary sweet. You need to be stern like you did!
2022-08-08 22:18:12
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lovebuggggggggggg
lovebuggggggggggg :
Therapist here you’re doing great ! He’s a big boy nothing wrong with teaching and explaining something to a kid he will understand and grow they only
2022-08-09 04:16:09
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disisrealdisismee
Me :
It’s the lack of respect for me. All you had to do was say “hey I get that you don’t want to but this has to get done”. Parents can still give respect
2022-08-09 04:34:19
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lpjacks13
Lauren ♡ :
To be honest I did this a lot as a child and no one corrected me. Everyone enabled me and now I am 27 just learning how to do things. -
2022-08-09 07:17:49
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mom.farts
momfarts :
I think conversations about concepts like these have to take place outside of the incident.
2022-08-10 14:42:24
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glorpglooplooop
glorpglooplooop :
This feels a little aggressive.
2022-08-08 23:59:10
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paigedulaney
Paige Dulaney :
THIS is what we need. Not all in on gentle parenting. It’s acknowledging, communicating, setting boundaries and teaching real life responsibilities.
2022-08-09 03:39:08
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masterofnone24
Master of None :
Even if he doesn’t thank you his future girlfriend will 😂
2022-08-08 23:48:51
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