@notsoerudite: Replying to @jtwhitehead3 In my desperation to be a good person, I couldn't accept responsibility #relationshipgoals #relationships #women #men #coupleschallenge

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crypto.monkton
crypto.monkton :
Loved the message in this but did you film it during The Purge?! what were the noises in the background
2022-09-12 11:36:03
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summerof1863
Godzilla :
“I’m my desperation to be good, I hurt people” is the exact reason “the road to hell is paved with good intentions” exists.
2022-09-12 19:19:47
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dendyjungle
Dendy 🔻 :
Do you think it was ok for me to cut ties with someone bc they are like this? I dont think they’ll ever change
2022-09-12 14:12:37
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pixeldood
pixeldood :
Absolute W realization
2022-09-12 16:41:55
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miltonchom
MiltonChombah :
look up attachment theory or attachment style and specifically 'dismissive avoidant attachment.' Being very defensive about criticism sounds like that
2022-09-12 12:49:57
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tombscythe
Angel :
@trippindelight
2022-09-18 20:48:56
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dandelionrose0
DandelionRose :
I did that too. Overriding that survival mechanism is slow, hard work.
2022-09-14 00:34:06
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willsherman55
Will Sherman680 :
It does real damage. When my feelings weren’t as important as hers it didn’t even feel like a romantic relationship. Felt paternal.
2022-09-13 04:27:54
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chad3604
Chad :
Was that you on the fresh and fit podcast?
2022-09-12 15:21:57
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omnitokage
☠️Θɱɴί𝞣𝞱𝞳𝞪𝙜𝞮💀 :
See in my last relationship, I just shut down because not only my feelings came second. But when I did bring up a problem, two things happened
2022-09-12 14:39:48
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pangeaforever
pangea1now :
One of the biggest reasons I struggle to open up sometimes to my wife.
2022-09-12 14:15:16
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peppermintmisfit
Pepper :
I love when someone takes ownership and corrects things they need to do better. It’s hopeful and a message that needs to be heard by more people.
2022-09-12 20:00:44
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terry_kan
TK :
Glad you figured it out for yourself. Now if only we can figure out why the rest of women do it and make them stop.
2022-09-12 22:17:15
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jamerans
Jamerans :
@jtwhitehead3 What you're experiencing is covered by The Will to Change by Bell Hooks. Highly recommend it.
2022-09-12 14:02:09
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charlesufarley11
Chuck U :
Are you in a warzone?
2022-09-13 22:05:26
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eric_dewhirst
EricDewhirst :
Very insightful
2022-09-12 12:23:49
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h2orocks3001
Dje :
Just try to be GOODISH
2022-09-14 03:07:20
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gymantis
Jim :
It's good that you were able to assess this dynamic and act on it. Most relationships turn stale because this is never rectified.
2022-09-12 11:47:44
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