@expressyourselfblackman: Replying to @jas.healing A few weeks ago I put up a reel where I gave 3 good questions for dating. A lot of people found value in it, but some people rebutted with, “Nah, these questions won’t work cause people be lying.” This reel is my response to that rebuttal… Unfortunately, people lie and that’s even more of a reason as to why you should ask questions when dating. The questions are for you to get a gauge of who they are as a person NOT for you to make a plan to start a family with them. You need to give them enough time to show you that they mean what they say. Listen to their words, but move off their actions. If their actions don’t match what they say, then you have a decision to make. Looking to start therapy? Join Safe Haven. We have a few more slots for low cost therapy ($50 or less per session). Link in bio. #fyp #blacktiktokcommunity #BlackTikTok #relationshipadvice