@adrianawongmd: Its not personal. This can be super hard to remember when youre putting your all into medicine and sacrificing so much. Try to zoom out and focus on the bigger goals: caring for the patients. And if an interaction feels off, you can also ask for clarification. Ask if there was any sort of miscommunication or anything you could have done differently - asking for feedback helps you grow. And I do want to be clear that this is not meant to be an excuse for mistreatment which is never ok. Sometimes your chief may be curt or ask for something in a direct way and it might just be because it needs to be done quickly. #medtok #obgyn #residency #medschool #medstudent