He seemed unhinged. I think you handled it correctly.
2024-07-08 02:05:25
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Drea :
First mistake was being nice & neighborly by introducing yourself. Me myself, I don't speak to neighbors & I always have a resting bitch face. Nobody bothers me 🤣
2024-07-09 02:04:00
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1wiseguy :
“I’m sure you’re a nice guy. Please don’t make this weird for me. I am not in that place right now.”
2024-07-07 18:58:26
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Edemome :
I started using this phrase, "You are making me uncomfortable." That's it. No more. They either backpedal or are shocked. 1x he got mad. I said, "now I am frightened. You are yelling at a stranger."
2024-07-08 13:26:19
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Katrina :
Once he got pushy, my nice and kind voice would go away. I have zero tolerance for clingy people.No is a complete sentence.
2024-07-07 20:14:36
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Tom Spencer :
He's going through a divorce (not just divorced). Why is he in a rush to date/get into a new relationship?
2024-07-07 18:30:17
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chisai buddha :
definitely DO NOT get onto the elevator alone with that man again. even if you're with your dog. politely pass or say you forgot something. there's giant red flags all over this guy
2024-07-08 15:24:21
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Jaymo :
I work in a male dominated field and I have learned to just not be friendly and just keep walking because soooo many take a little bit of friendliness as flirting
2024-07-07 21:12:49
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Susie :
Girl I’d make a habit of going either a floor above or below yours and using the stairs. Don’t let this man know what floor you live on. Stay safe. I’m sorry this happened.
2024-07-07 20:43:31
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tbroen 🇩🇰 :
Just wow. Don't think you could have done much differently - people like that just live in a different reality. If they don't recognize a rejection, it's on them - you don't need to explain yourself.
2024-07-07 18:05:50
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Mike McKeown :
Not sure that you could’ve done much different. You were very kind. He eventually got it. Who knows, maybe he would have soon anyhow. Good luck!
2024-07-08 00:26:38
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user1870533163336 :
Girl, you need to quickly run to Amazon and get the book the gift of fear!!!!! you will learn a lot. Listen to your intuition.
2024-07-07 18:53:55
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coach cha cha :
men sometimes see their chance and muster the insane courage to talk to someone like you... he may have done it all wrong... but props to him.
2024-07-30 03:02:47
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Tropical D Pression :
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I really stand by the phrase "you're making me really uncomfortable. please respect my boundaries."
2024-07-07 20:21:49
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aalvarado9643 :
My go to line is "are you trying to make me uncomfortable on purpose or do you not realize you're making me uncomfortable?"
2024-09-01 16:46:01
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Scott Snow :
Yeah, you did nothing wrong. One no should have been enough. If he doesn’t respect you enough to hear that on the first one, he won’t respect you enough ever.
2024-07-07 19:33:33
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NadiaMayl :
If u r kind and polite 2-3 times and they still don’t take no for answer, you then get to be rude and direct.
2024-08-31 07:42:23
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Mayers and Mayers :
Any hint of nice, welcoming, or polite is an invitation....my male colleague taught me this. You have to be serious, firm and cold for them to take you seriously.
2024-09-23 00:59:12
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Scott Braswell :
I really appreciate you being nice and not snobbish. I totally wish there were more women like that but after about three times, it’s time to be stern.
2024-07-10 17:02:01
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🌺🌹🌷 :
You’re too nice.
2024-07-07 22:02:47
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random name here :
my therapist suggested this and it works well for lots of situations where people are not listening.. "are you ok? you seem to not be hearing me"
2024-08-28 15:53:03
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BESTsolutions :
RUN and get a ring camera.
2024-07-07 23:40:09
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