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samsaralaurier
Sam :
That “prodigal son” mentality is the worst. My family actively hopes I’ll reach rock bottom so I’ll have a reason to come back. Like, how is that a healthy choice?
2024-08-03 03:03:14
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whydotgif
Melissa 🍉 :
My parents just don't know how to have relationships with people who don't share their beliefs. Any conversation with my mom ends with her saying something bizarre that I don't know how to respond to.
2024-08-02 20:41:03
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theresjustsomanythings
There's Just So Many Things :
Something about this finally clicked for me. I hadn't recognized how many Christians don't believe 'once saved, always saved'. Is this a theological shift? Growing up, everyone I knew believed that
2024-08-03 12:29:00
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salad.eyelash
Mak :
Every time I see my mom, first thing she does is sigh and say “it hurts my heart that you wont be able to spend eternity in heaven with me” like, so glad you already decided where I’m going mom, tysm
2024-08-03 14:07:25
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benjamanaman
ArchetypeBoy :
my sister in christ*... 😬 you be slapping me upside the head... as a ery' sunday christian for two decades who deconstructed and just spent three years trying to divorce someone who stayed...
2024-08-03 16:37:28
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winterdreamer12
Winterdreamer :
This. And also the panic of the world ending in that brimfire they fear. I had a kid and my mom immediately tried putting that fear into me that the world would end in the biblical catastrophe while
2024-08-02 20:30:02
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awesomeaf0
🧘‍♀️ :
What always confused me as a kid was how anyone could be happy in heaven if someone they loved wasn’t there. I imagined it like this unsettling hypnosis that made you forget the person was real or
2024-08-03 00:52:20
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stephski29
stephski29 :
My parents are not evangelical, but are Catholic. Hearing my mom say it’s her responsibility to “save my soul” when I came out, was the hardest thing.
2024-08-03 12:16:48
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booksandjilliebeans
💙Jillie Beans💙 :
Car crash,left side crushed was in severe pain and physically could not leave the room and my dad started trying shove religion down my throat and telling me to come back. I’ve never felt so trapped
2024-08-03 00:01:49
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tatiannawalker5
Tatianna Walker :
my inlaws church hasn't had a new member if 30 Years outside the kids brainwashed into it
2024-08-03 01:04:26
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skeptical_heretic
skeptical_heretic :
Gahhh this made me tear up. I feel this every single day. The grief is so hard.
2024-08-02 20:37:40
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kstegall825
Kimberly Young Stega :
I'm 42 and just now discovering for myself who I really am. and it's sad to know that my parents aren't really interested in knowing her
2024-08-03 00:27:12
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canada.killam
Dan ‘canada’ KILLAM :
This is the most painful part of growing out of superstition. Well meaning family that you invariably drift away from
2024-08-02 19:53:15
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bmr198953
bmr198953🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ :
Why I see my Mom 3 times a year, and it gets more awkward each year👀👀👀
2024-08-02 21:24:10
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karmykalwindhorse
kawds1 :
This is how I lost my relationship with my best friend of 20 years. It hurt so bad when she said to me that even my successes were hollow without God
2024-08-02 23:15:14
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joyjoycov
Abbie Joy :
I've had financial trouble the past 2 years, left god a year & a half ago. My granddad took me to lunch about a year ago & instead of helping, which he could, he suggested my $ troubles were because
2024-08-02 23:41:29
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sayhisammie
sayhiSammie :
my mom specifically said she would cross my boundaries and, "hurt your feelings on purpose, because eternity is more important than your feelings."
2024-08-04 15:03:07
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jessbukrahnan
JessBuKrahnan :
Hell theology is the reason I have not told my parents the extent of the change in my beliefs. we have become acquaintances nonetheless because there are fewer points common ground we can relate on
2024-08-06 14:02:40
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aangel20199
Vinnie 🟣 :
After my parents sent me to a fundamental trouble teen school to fix me- when I came back & had to start living on my own at 16, they intentionally sabotaged me at school, going to college& when I
2024-08-03 05:28:43
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kyy__sp
kyys 🏳️‍🌈⃤ :
instead, me turning away from God was bcuz of experiencing such pain after losing 2 pregnancies i tried so hard for, on my knees in the bathroom of the hospital praying for God not to take another
2024-08-02 21:14:41
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astra__2002
Astra :
I cut contact once, hospital unfortunately called them, and due to health complications I'm stuck on their support for now. Plus I doubt I can ever risk it again now that they know what city I'm in
2024-08-03 13:57:11
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bodycommunication
Sadan Yagci :
I got this "you just want to sin" just because I studied the Bible and disagreed with norms. Despite my behavior never being sinful by their definition or mine, regardless of my differing perspectives
2024-08-04 16:27:37
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skylerawatkins
Sky :
Sadly this goes for friendships as well 💔
2024-08-04 22:01:42
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ehopeyful
hopey :
For me I realized that my parents did the best they could with the tools they had, and they were being taught the same thing. My parents evolved and I forgave and I’m so thankful I went down that past
2024-08-06 13:52:12
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ofseekingmore
Bethany [she/her] :
Oof, I feel seen. Thank you for articulating this and validating the bizarre and confusing feelings about my family relationships.
2024-08-02 19:58:51
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