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ADHDville Podcast (Martin) :
Welcome to the ADHD club, the club that few people want to be in! 😂
2024-10-23 22:26:44
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DopeBlackMSW :
I put the questions in ChatGPT and say make it sound nice😂
2024-10-24 13:37:58
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jdubb2184 :
I start with saying something like "For clarification ", "to better my understanding " or "to make sure were thinking the same thing".
2024-10-23 22:13:41
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mindful_mischief :
I ask, "Could you give me a little more context?" I have not had anyone yet get frustrated and they seem happy to give more context.
2024-10-24 03:20:02
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the_rabbit_writes :
A phrase I use, “Can I repeat to you what I think you said to make sure I understand?” Then you repeat it and add your question at the end
2024-10-24 06:13:12
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jad875 :
A lot has to do with tone of voice and facial expressions. There's also choosing the time and place to ask them. It helps to add a compliment/statement about how fascinating you find their topic.
2024-10-25 06:56:33
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cainscr :
Well that explains that. I always wondered why people would get so worked up when I was just asking questions to understand the completely illogical things they say.
2024-10-24 11:29:34
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PilgrimTim7 :
I grew to assume everyone “knows the half of it”….unfortunately, never the half I’m interested in😂😂…
2024-10-24 09:07:25
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Dawn Morrison568 :
I just need to understand the logic…why is that so hard to understand? 😂
2024-10-24 01:53:05
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DauntlessMom :
Yes!!!! They think I’m angry all the time or starting a fight 🥺
2024-10-26 12:42:53
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momdawn9 :
I once had a coworker say he wouldn't answer any more questions without his lawyer present. 🥴
2024-10-24 20:41:45
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JellyBellyLover0 :
Literally ruined my last relationship 😅😅😅
2024-10-24 19:54:57
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Shawna Bivens :
Took me 20 years but yes! I start with “I’m not trying to be difficult my brain is just wired broken can you help me understand…..”
2024-10-24 12:06:37
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Made The Mark :
Oh man! No , I swear I can’t talk about that crap . Friggin frustrating
2024-10-24 02:46:39
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cms :
💯
2024-10-24 02:09:40
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by_the_lake45 :
Shit...this too😳 The clues just keep coming together
2024-10-24 00:41:33
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Astaalio :
Have not learnt in 40 years.. 😂
2024-11-26 14:05:27
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Angie Anders667 :
Yes please. Help a girl out Usually they get butt hurt.
2024-11-02 05:08:45
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Dwayne Jagoda :
no, I havent
2024-10-26 20:49:38
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angryveteran :
I tell them that I'm going to ask a few clarifying questions so I can fully understand. they usually let me.
2024-10-26 19:55:22
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K22Smith :
Yes, “Let me repeat that so I am sure I understand.” then I ask my questions.
2024-10-26 18:42:52
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LoneWalnutWomen :
Nope
2024-10-26 17:17:44
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LogicMonster :
I'm a bad person to ask lol... ASD/ADHD. everyone think a bit of an asshole until they see the results. may not like my methods, can't argue with the results lol.
2024-10-26 16:21:47
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Anya & Ms. Cass :
Well, no. But after I turned 40 I just stopped caring if what they think. 😏
2024-10-26 15:27:00
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Bre Johnson Montoya :
Address their ego first, “that’s brilliant tell me more..” and then we can ask a few fake questions and then our own
2024-10-26 14:28:01
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jobmonkeys18 :
I’ve been attacked at least twice 😆
2024-10-26 13:12:33
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Chief :
Alot said
2024-10-26 13:09:17
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T | Mama | Wifey :
This!
2024-10-26 11:04:36
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mcion3 :
Nope. My wife always asks me why I argue about everything.
2024-10-26 03:15:48
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Reed McClintock :
I use accusation audits. "you're going to think I'm the worst person in the world, that I'm going to ruin your day. can you clarify some specifics?"
2024-10-26 00:37:32
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just_me :
perhaps... "neurotypicals" aren't actually neurotypical
2024-10-25 22:59:45
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Megan Campbell :
OMG I grew up with undiagnosed autism and I got called defensive for trying to explain myself
2024-10-25 22:24:15
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Vicki Poll | Author :
It’s not possible 😁
2024-10-25 20:06:44
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Brenda Lee :
Nope…not yet
2024-10-25 19:37:32
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Ash :
I need more info to form a clearer picture
2024-10-25 18:35:49
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Joe :
Validating emotions with emotional responses is the easier way.
2024-10-25 16:23:16
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caticorn :
Just ask. Let them mask their reaction.
2024-10-25 15:36:32
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mefornow.1973 :
I would love to know🥰
2024-10-25 15:22:36
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LightsOutAndLibrary :
When I was working I would say “to make sure I meet the expectations you are asking for this assignment and make sure I have everything you are looking for, …” or “to make sure we are in complete
2024-10-25 14:54:03
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Beth Granger :
I like saying: Help me understand…
2024-10-25 13:20:51
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andydeal685 :
nope. no one
2024-10-25 11:26:57
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Kyle :
Emojis….to give them context clues 😅
2024-10-25 04:57:58
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sunkenpath4 :
no.
2024-10-25 04:46:20
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Based Troll :
just ask him why they are making it into a competition all of a sudden
2024-10-25 02:29:18
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Corporate Career Coach :
Just say “tell me more”
2024-10-24 22:48:40
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triathalady 🆘🇺🇸♿️🍉 :
I became “The Recap Lady” at my last company. “Just to recap” or “to make sure I understand, you’re saying…” works 90% of the time.
2024-10-24 22:07:10
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eastcoastmama0 :
This!!!
2024-10-24 21:24:31
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CCQuinn :
nope
2024-10-24 21:15:31
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Angela (Pridgen) Reed :
No
2024-10-24 20:45:23
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Acme Baby Co. LLC :
“Can you elaborate?”
2024-10-24 20:22:38
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