@gillionair3: Tall poppy syndrome be damned #fyp

Almond. :

Yup. OR when you show any “negative” traits like sadness or anger, you get ripped to shreds bc they were waiting for you to do something “dark sided”

❣️ :

And in my experience if they can’t find something negative, they will literally ✨make it up.✨ 🤦🏽‍♀️🙃

Young Sensei :

BRO THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS!!! ITS BEEN DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!! 😭

blushj1229 :

That’s projection because I used to think people couldn’t be bad and they must be good. That was me projecting my goodness onto them

Crunk_muffin :

but also, if someone dislikes you for no reason, let that be a sign that on the inside, they are not good. no one good is mad at u for being good.

Toni :

My mom has this problem. She’s chipper and helpful and people just don’t like it sometimes. They think she’s so fake and she’s always shocked. I don’t get it either!

Red Mares 💜💙💜 :

As an autistic, I can absolutely whole heartedly attest to this phenomenon 😅

Goddess Sophia :

So true!!💯💯💯

Lena🌻 :

I think it makes other people feel inadequate when they see someone they think is doing better than them but are in the same position as them. They actively try to find things wrong about you so they can make themselves feel at ease about not doing more.

✨💗✨ :

Learned this once I entered the corporate world😵‍💫

Bunnyandbeyond :

They hate us cause they ain’t us

Lindsay :

This is my lifeeee. I be all loving and giving and ppl r like nah ur actually just a sneaky liar. Like wtf bro all I did was love yallll😫

Isaac :

Story of my life!!! I always wondered why people hated me when I was kind to them.

Genene Johnson :

People don't see you as you are, they see you as they are

𝒿𝒶𝓏𝓏 :

it’s actually scary, the way i was treated in certain situations just because i was a genuine and a respectful human being is bizarre.

History, whether u like or not :

yep. mental illness and trauma caused this for me. I've healed a lot & I've learned not to treat ppl too nice bc in return they treat u WORSE. my body/face is all they see and

skippyhey :

This is exactly why I can’t make friends. Literally the only people that can make friends easily are snakes.

syd :

I think it stems from this problem we have in society where most people do things for an outward appearance and to fit in and almost no one has true self awareness, most people can’t even be alone

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Law of power, never appear too good/perfect. Make purposeful mistakes to harbor a sense of relatableness.

Jessica :

That’s me. I’m that person. People love to hate and I don’t even see myself as holier than thou. 🥺

stoneezone :

My ex used to get mad at me for not taking the bait and “always having to be the bigger person” & said that I acted “morally superior.” I was just being kind - took a year to realize it wasn’t abt me

spicybuns :

I see it at my job, it's so weird. I have to play naive and kinda dense just to nerf myself 😅

sилver is an aries. :

they HATE when u dont gossip with them esp.