Dr. Nicole LePera
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Tuesday 25 February 2025 00:02:41 GMT
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Justice Washington :
Dear Avoidants, think about getting a dog.
2025-02-25 13:13:34
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mo :
why do anxious attachment ppl get sympathy because "they can't help it" but avoidant attachment just gets hate all the time? being suffocating isn't better than self isolation
2025-02-26 09:47:15
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des_3227 :
Did you just get inside my head
2025-09-03 05:25:23
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🌟katherine🌟 :
“Familar strangers”
2025-12-08 22:22:10
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gus :
People love to dog on avoidants but an anxious will verbally abuse you for 3 hours over not meeting an unvoiced expectation that a healthy person wouldn’t have
2025-02-26 02:10:25
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redd :
these comments are… yikes. we don’t choose the conditions of our upbringing. we’re all here learning to be better. give us the grace you’d expect for yourself.
2025-02-26 03:54:23
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HappyWeightAoife :
I’d love if there were more videos helping people with the issue rather than highlighting the signs and then a horrible comment section. As the video said avoidants don’t want to be!
2025-02-25 09:14:18
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Grae :
A quick reminder for everyone here: avoidant and anxious attachment styles are BOTH toxic
2025-02-26 01:59:06
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Garrhet Sampson :
We should teach this in high school. It would save people YEARS of their life.
2025-02-25 05:51:11
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Katie :
just went through this and was discarded by the avoidant.
2025-02-25 00:13:41
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Quin :
Dear comment section, have we ever thought about the possibility of avoidant people actually opening up but then getting those feelings blown back into their face?? Making them avoidant all over again
2025-02-25 18:08:03
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Elly Garcia :
Folks, attachment styles are not identities. They are a result of how you attached to your parents. At the core of every insecure style was a child with unmet needs.
2025-02-26 04:08:45
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marv ( 𝒔𝒖𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒓𝒔’ 𝒃𝒐𝒚) :
me when i feel seen and then all the comments tell me i’m better off alone
2025-02-25 17:38:00
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inja ye game :
no hate to the video creator but i've noticed something about the comments in these videos you make. anxiously attached people get sympathy for their attachment style because "they can't help it" and-
2025-02-25 06:18:53
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user93837378882828 :
I’m an avoidant and it is not an excuse, but just give us some space sometimes, but we should never disappear or push away, it is not acceptable.
2025-02-25 07:10:50
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silverandcoldone :
avoidants getting defensive in the comments immediately jumping into "BUT THE ANXIOUS SHOULD..." is the essence of their problematic behaviour. sit down and listen. this is about you, not the anxious.
2025-02-26 08:01:22
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Kris10 🇵🇸 :
Comment section full of insanely cruel people
2025-02-25 19:47:05
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CurioCuriosa :
The explosive resentment towards Avoidants is always so funny to me because people think they're actually saying something when all they're doing is the exact same behavior that made them an Avoidant.
2025-02-26 07:01:47
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Callum :
I’m so sick and tired of avoidants getting dogpiled on like anxious attachers aren’t just as unhealthy in relationships. But y’all aren’t ready to hear that!
2025-02-26 16:25:34
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bicky Robby :
Hi it’s me avoidant
2025-02-25 00:23:24
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pooptarot :
Avoidants shouldn’t be in relationships at all! Hope this helps 🥰
2025-02-25 21:52:24
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Nunya :
avoidants just seem to want everyone to lessen themselves to make them comfortable without doing anything at all to make their partner comfortable🙄
2025-02-25 11:22:43
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annabel :
i loooooooooooooooooooooovveee avoidant slander 😀 i also love when anxious attachment people don’t realize that they’re just as toxic, just in a different way
2025-02-26 06:51:53
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fortyfivek :
hate that this is me. after my last relationship, i decided dating isn’t for me. nobody ever believes me when i say im single bc i genuinely want to be alone lol. i rather not hurt anybody else
2025-02-25 03:15:43
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peggiejoyce :
Avoidant’s really wreck ppl. Being with an avoidant is pure hell.
2025-02-26 13:21:25
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