Jess- Your Boundary Big Sister
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Friday 04 April 2025 13:33:55 GMT
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Shannon76❌️ :
Kira, the way to approach any questions from your kids, is take a clean sheet of paper. This is how your relationship with people can start out, then fold it a few times, show them cntd..
2025-05-04 21:37:17
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MemeNaturenut :
I feel like the family is betraying Cole. If and when he finds out, he’s going to be so hurt. Secrets are never good. Also i think they are better off no contact.
2025-04-04 14:35:56
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genX_Mehndi :
The kids know. Growing up, my paternal grandmother had favoratism towards my Aunt’s children. The kids know this.
2025-04-14 12:57:29
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MaMa M :
are Cole and Stephanie still married?
2025-09-13 02:38:34
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jgdays :
I truly believe that you should tell the children in an age appropriate manner , you do not want to be another person in their life that lied. And I would absolutely absent myself from that family
2025-04-04 14:59:16
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♡jennylynn♡ :
I think Kira should ask Beverly to do counseling again and get everything out in the open so she can fully heal from this instead of keeping it on the back burner. Kira deserves peace.
2025-04-08 08:43:47
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theindoorcat77🇨🇦 :
I have told my kids ‘2 things can be true at once…grandma loves you so much…but she really hurt me and I’m having a really hard time with it’.
2025-04-04 14:57:33
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WV_tattoedNana :
Trust me when I say your children see MIL for who and what she is.I have 2 of my grandchildren asking me why they are no one’s favorite. I was not a favorite and neither was my daughter. I knew what
2025-04-04 19:19:11
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Jackie McIntosh :
Why do people think she should mind her own business?!? That is her family. Of my family was hiding an affair from me, I'd be devastated. I would expect at a minimum, that I would be informed.
2025-05-05 17:53:12
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Ahdree GarSeeyah :
From an only child- Kira sounds like an only child. Your spouses family will never be 100% your family- your opinion may seem wanted but it’s not. Especially when it strikes a nerve. Kira’s priority
2025-04-04 17:20:39
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cindymagee99 :
I think MIL was lovebombing in the beginning. Narcs want everyone to love them. Once MIL found out the Letter writer dodn’t like her anymore she reverted back to lovebombing. As soon as 1/3
2025-04-04 15:15:24
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Jakipedia :
To the kids, “Mommy and grandma have a big feelings that may not be fixable, like when you crumple paper, it doesn’t go back to the way it was. But that doesn’t affect your relationship with her.”
2025-04-04 14:29:45
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Lisa Carroll42 :
I'll bet Kira's kids know more than she thinks. They've definitely experienced unequal treatment among the cousins. I don't think they'll think poorly of their mom for being neutral with Beverly.
2025-04-04 14:09:07
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Aj :
Probably going to be unpopular… if you are worried about what your kids think you should continue to polite yet distant. You can show them that there is forgiveness but actions have consequences….1/1
2025-04-06 14:17:59
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Kick Rocks :
Kids are very forgiving, but they will remember how their nanny treated them & the lack of fairness or justice when they had to call mom. I would be open in telling them that you feel weary.
2025-04-07 03:46:15
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WrenleysLadyB :
I don’t feel like she is the type of person to comprehend what she has done. I’d write a heartfelt email and let her know we are cordial only. We are not family. Hold those boundaries.
2025-04-04 17:42:56
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MandyZigg12567 :
Yeah.. if Cole’s physical safety is being put at risk, he deserved to know
2025-04-05 04:19:14
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✝️Hezz!!✝️ :
Honestly is the best thing! At the child understanding level. But there is no point hiding it
2025-04-05 03:14:09
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Judi :
It’s hard for Kira to go no contact on her own like you all are suggesting. Her husband seems to want a relationship with his mother. Your parents are your parents even when they’ve hurt you.
2025-04-05 01:49:21
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Janet Boice Krusinski :
I would not let a person like Beverly around my kids. Period. She is still being manipulative and just wants what she wants. Nope. She will manipulate those grandkids too!!
2025-04-05 00:46:50
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Kaena Costanzo :
Kira… you respond by going full no contact… SHE HURT YOUR KIDS. Stop putting your kids in this emotional back and forth. They are aware more than they let on. Give them stability. They don’t need her.
2025-04-04 21:19:09
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Laurie :
Sam?
2025-04-04 17:02:56
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Mrs. Sully :
Her husband needs to run interference here. He needs to tell his mother to leave Kira alone. And he needs to tell Kira that she is allowed to be distant and she can explain to the kids why
2025-04-04 21:40:43
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