alyse parker
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Ashley Balga :
The fact that he was emotionally mature enough to identify this and communicate is rare.
2025-05-28 14:50:38
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🖤Morgan Leigh🖤 :
I feel like I tend to get upset when he’s late (he’s always late). How do you get over that? Because essentially it’s the fact that he’s not following through with what he says that triggers me, not the fact that he’s 15 mins late
2025-05-28 15:43:59
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alohavibe0 :
Omg i think i remember you from youtube long ago i used to watch your videos religiously 🤭 did you used to live in hawaii and have a van ?
2025-07-17 22:44:37
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mady <3 :
okay, i get this but genuine question. how do we bring up those things? like hey, i need more of this/less of this, how can we bring it up without it feeling like we’re always picking at them?
2025-06-05 04:16:05
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Jace 🐹🍟🐰 :
I used to get annoyed at so many things (he leaves his clothes on the floor instead of the hamper, he wouldn’t wipe down the kitchen countertop after cooking something, it took him forever to fold and put away his laundry, etc.) but I wasn’t appreciating enough the fact that he cooks for me, he packs my lunches every day, he feeds our cats every morning and every night, he makes me sleep in so I can rest without worrying or stressing about anything… he does so much to make me happy and make my life easier and at the end of the day those clothes can always be picked up another day and I can always take a Clorox wipe and go over the counter a bit, those things don’t matter in the grand scheme of things. I started being so much less stressed once I let go of those little things and at the end of the day I absolutely have my own flaws and we both do the best we can even if that means sometimes doing things on our own time rather than when the other wishes they were done.
2025-06-09 12:08:12
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🌙camyn🌙 :
girl i love the transparency, sometimes we don't even notice the little things we're doing to nitpick at a person but communication helps all the way
2025-05-27 23:52:24
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Madilyn Wittie :
need help discriminating between nitpicking and communicating standards/boundaries
2025-06-08 01:18:27
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Beth :
Girl, I haven’t seen you in YEARS. What happened to your fruit company/health vegan company?
2025-05-27 23:52:42
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Sierrah & Bo | IN Golden :
I feel like I still need help navigating this. I’m trying but sometimes I get so triggered and overreact and can’t contain my thoughts..
2025-06-13 21:06:29
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Courtney Pleviak :
I think I just had a realization. He’s always told me I’m not his mother and to stop nagging and I never understood that I’m the context he was referring to until this video
2025-05-28 23:38:08
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suchapancake :
Girl I felt that trigger too. My human says the same thing and my first thought is: “my things aren’t ridiculous sir!”
2025-05-28 17:13:59
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⭒ ༺bug༻ ⭒ :
but how can you do this without ignoring those little things that bother you?
2025-06-08 15:08:34
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Patrick Silva :
this ruined my last relationship despite me pointing it out and asking repeatedly for her to stop
2025-05-28 16:28:05
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Gerry :
What if it’s his finances ? But we aren’t married..
2025-06-25 00:12:43
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BabyBreathSG :
I wish he and I had this conversation. Ultimately he broke up with me and said things were uncomfortable. I always wanted to talk.
2025-07-17 16:43:41
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Ariiiiiiii :
Thank you for sharing this. 👏🏼 truly this is something a lot of women do probably unintentionally most of the time or cuz we’ve seen it modeled.
2025-07-13 21:20:37
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Jahmela :
like how can we tell if we are being nit picky or we really need to set a boundary, it's soo grey
2025-06-19 21:56:40
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LysArts :
I realized this a couple days ago, but now I feel like I might be too late, and I don't know what to do. My gf and I will have a conversation about it later next week, so we both have the time to write down everything we're feeling and needing and such. Also we're long distance, which just makes it harder
2025-06-06 12:21:40
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Jakob 🎱 :
Ooof I needed to see this 😅
2025-06-13 19:23:17
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Sharli :
Holy eye opening moment
2025-06-27 04:25:45
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Sascha :
its also ni fair that he's minimizing those things that bother you no matter how small
2025-06-24 05:28:12
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AngelTouch :
But HOW did you do it? I’m curious, I’m guessing a lot of it is habit but how did you build this habit?
2025-06-25 20:56:50
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Melissa Patrick :
Omg you popping on my tik tok a decade later after following your raw vegan journey is crazy
2025-07-12 01:18:47
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camryn :
but what do you do when you feel like you’re the problem no matter what you try and do
2025-06-25 01:22:07
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Nina Marie :
while I get this. what about those things that "aren't a big deal" really are for me?
2025-06-19 16:09:16
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