@notsoerudite: If men put in 20% more effort into their aesthetic they would be ahead of 80% of their competition in dating. #datingadvice #notsoerudite
I already know I'm ugly, at least I'm gonna be comfortable while doing it.
2025-05-28 20:29:29
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Ben Griffin :
I enjoy aesthetic in others but I don’t think about it in myself. I’ m married. Not in the dating scene.
2025-06-11 00:12:41
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SirRakofDos :
This does not track with me personally. In my predominantly black and Latino spaces, looking fresh is paramount
2025-05-29 14:06:05
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alex :
I'd love to be more stylish but im fat and live in Florida, no flattering jackets or hoodies. I do look good in suits but it's not an everyday thing for me.
2025-07-05 18:55:46
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Sora Nomura :
involving men into cosmetic products sales is crazy tbh
2025-06-19 00:28:20
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Shane Kelly188 :
if your confident in yourself you shouldn't fell the need to wear make up. if you dont feel like the best version of yourself without it, thats your life. dont expect others to feel the same way
2025-06-04 21:26:11
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HakumeiTenshi :
For what?
2025-07-06 07:00:31
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Daniel :
functional is an esthetic
2025-05-28 21:52:19
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fuuuuuuuuum778 :
that works if you have the face and height
2025-07-06 00:25:07
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The Bearded Loki Variant :
I dress in a way that's comfortable. I dont care about aesthetic and I never will.
2025-06-12 00:05:32
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bb10 :
Here’s the thing. We don’t care enough for that
2025-05-29 01:32:21
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Sinistershitter :
You’re not getting me to not wear bandshirts
2025-06-16 06:00:11
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Jeff :
I've put a dab of makeup over a red mark a few times. No way I'd put on any more than that
2025-06-10 18:49:43
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Mr Night 🇧🇼 :
I can fit all my clothes in one bag
and I like it that way🙂
2025-06-24 13:30:04
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MiaToStl :
Nah this is VERY true. And it’s not about “dressing for women” - it’s that men overwhelmingly don’t seem to care about their appearance. And while an argument can be made for character, nobody walked up to you because of your personality
2025-05-29 18:57:18
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¥en :
had me until the makeup part. Even then though, I still want to be comfortable.
2025-05-29 22:11:40
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Colombiano :
Black t shirt and jeans. Take it or leave it
2025-05-29 11:27:00
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gil1 :
how about NO
2025-06-04 13:39:01
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C: :
Comfort is the key, not aesthetic my dear.
2025-07-05 17:49:48
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Zach (Getter of Buckets) :
Here’s the reality: no one is forcing you to do any of this. But if you’re trying to attract women, you should prob listen to what they tell you they like to see
2025-05-29 10:33:40
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Rökkir :
It would help if men had good clothing options available for sane amounts of money, but they don’t.
2025-05-31 18:03:08
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Justin :
Disagree completely I dress well because I know women like men who dress well and I appreciate the compliments.
2025-06-12 14:58:33
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Kylafornia :
I was told having an asthetic was “doing too much” and she felt insecure
2025-07-06 14:30:50
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Angela :
No, as a woman, I don't want a man that looks for an astetic, that's my role
2025-06-10 16:12:58
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Z4t3k :
nah.. i want a woman to love me for me and same for her.. all this fake behavior is why the relationship fails.. yes it may take longer to find someone but its better for both
2025-05-29 16:30:21
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