@drsolafolaalade: Sometimes, a man delays proposing not because he’s unsure but because he’s already getting the benefits of marriage without the commitment. Ladies, guard your hearts. Don’t settle for ‘wife treatment’ without the ring. Let the commitment come before the privileges.
While this is valid, I don't think it's 90% of the time. it is way lesser than that. Character art times is a deal breaker
2025-06-08 00:21:51
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prettybernie_ :
Thank you sir… so proud of my self..🥰🥰🥰 celibate till marriage
2025-06-07 19:12:01
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CK :
A man who wants you wants you
2025-06-10 07:06:59
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LAUREN-CIA :
Why pay for it if he gets the perks for free?
2025-06-07 15:42:11
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❤️Nonny❤️🔥🔥 :
his opinion though.. marriage is more than that.
2025-06-07 08:49:54
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ToneywizikidyGuyguy :
She taught me this lesson and left🥺,I’m ashamed of myself now but GOD knows best. Hasta La Vista !!!💯
2025-07-18 20:12:40
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larhosa :
Not judging but life has different formulas, as someone who got stuck in school, I met someone who respect,loves and adores me… I did live with him and we now 1
2025-06-08 20:16:00
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nastick :
and even if he married you, he will not respect
2025-06-07 19:57:53
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BigMeech002 :
being celibate or not cohabiting doesn't guarantee marriage.
2025-06-08 00:15:58
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Hardeybusy :
hmmmm
Getting wife benefits without commitment
2025-06-07 11:55:55
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Thatidomagirl :
A man goes for what he wants and he knows just when and with whom, so it doesn't matter if he's been intimate or not. To each, their own.
2025-06-08 17:56:18
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30Sparks :
Intimacy is accessible these days. Even if the couples were intimate. After 2 years or so. Character change. I don’t believe in the haste of living together.
2025-06-17 02:31:42
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com4t Ajibade :
thank you
2025-06-07 09:12:54
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Claire✝️ :
This is very true ladies ! 🥰❤️Don’t settle. I’ve seen men who are ready to wait until marriage 🥰I have one & I receive all the gifts& acts of service I need. We’ll first walk down that aisle for him to receive wifey duties from me
2025-06-10 22:53:53
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💮M¤ut○🪷 :
My fellow women...my advice would be to always speak in advance about what your relationship goals are, if you see yourself getting married in 3/5 years time make sure to tell him that. If he doesn't respect that timeline do not HESITATE to cut him out! And most importantly, DO NOT ABSOLUTELY GIVE HIM A CHILD BEFORE MARRIAGE!
2025-07-13 13:58:28
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nnena :
very true
2025-06-07 10:20:44
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gastronlinawilso5 :
God richly bless you
this the same thing Pastor Elvis Agyeman said in his book
titled
Seven stages into a Godly Marriage
2025-06-11 02:19:52
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Henrydave👩🚒👮♀️ :
What about husband benefits without commitment?? Everything regarding benefits to a woman is okay but to a man he should wait after marriage??
2025-06-08 11:24:39
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C.J :
the truth is not sweet.that is Why people are running away from it
2025-06-21 00:32:27
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Ijojo Julius :
I love this teaching oooh because I have been living a celibate life untill my pride price is paid🥰
2025-06-22 23:56:35
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AroBillion_22 :
until we marry i nor dey press money since we should wait till we marry before opueh
2025-06-08 20:30:48
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Woos :
Do what works for you. Your life cannot be a yardstick for others because you don't know their story.
2025-06-09 08:56:37
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