🤣🤣 It's selfish because they lose what they were gaining. Selfish is them period.
2025-07-02 03:22:18
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AuthenticAnd Rare :
You are right!! You have to have balance. Truth is Truth
2025-07-02 10:03:30
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es5o4 :
singing it girl
2025-07-18 07:58:35
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Huggypooh :
Nobody is coming to save u from u has been my motto amen
2025-07-02 14:49:52
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Sheila :
oh girl you ain't lying we can't lay ourselves wayside and think we're going to help others when we're drowning💕💕💕
2025-07-02 17:01:52
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LifeLongTokens :
STAMPED ❣️SEALED ❣️DELIVERED ❣️🥰
2025-07-02 17:34:16
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jolly :
peace and love to you
2025-07-08 04:29:42
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Natasha :
And sadly they don’t even realize they are abandoning themselves -odds are because they started that in childhood. Which is why we need to heal. Look in the mirror and ask yourself what you need. And make a list and take it day by day. And by the time you know it. They’ll realize they have been making themselves priority. Make yourself a priority. You as an individual are important. Believe it. Achieve it babbyyyy !
2025-07-12 17:32:31
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The one who chosen :
Yes I’m here for it. All that you have to say here to listen because you’re telling the truth and there’s some things that I had to figure out that it was coming from a poverty mindset, unfortunately💯❤️
2025-07-02 05:05:55
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sol.e26 :
yes I completely agree!!! I tell myself "I gotta put me first lucious" as a mantra
2025-07-02 05:22:03
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Yahfa אין סוף :
You have told no lies, we are taught this as part of social, familial, school religious institutions You spoke 💯🔥its not for those who want to continue to bump their heads until they are able to comprehend that frequecy of knowledge you are spitting
2025-07-02 18:16:12
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Green Girl | Herbs & Skin Care :
Yep I tell ppl all the time to be selfish
2025-07-02 02:43:15
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GrowingPains&Gains :
I’m still going to be selfish even if it’s not to help people later.
2025-07-19 17:28:03
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thehibiscuslady :
They literally tell you to put your mask on FIRST before trying to save anyone else in a plane crash - same exact concept 💯
2025-07-02 05:14:48
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Trava Training :
👍👍👍 We have to be selfish to be generous.
2025-07-08 09:08:22
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REG_1986 :
Yes sis!!!
2025-07-02 04:23:28
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Emily :
Yes, this is it. Good for you for speaking this. Yt women specifically struggle with this at a deep level, so when we see this come up, we easily get triggered. It’s not you, it’s us. We need to hear this.
Yes!!! ❤️❤️You cant pour from an empty cup!!! I learned that the hard way. Is okay to be selfish because you need to be 💯 before trying to help anyone else!
2025-07-02 13:48:25
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Ma6dJaCk The Seer 🐦🔥 :
Exactly! People live being people pleasers
2025-07-05 10:58:34
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goddessspeaksabundance :
This is correct💯‼️
2025-07-02 16:17:41
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blaque_onyx :
Facts. You can’t pour from an empty cup.
2025-07-03 02:56:33
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