@sensible_amber: #stitch with @Rachel Elizabeth Tell me if I nailed it. Also tell me if I didn’t. #psychology #psychologist #therapy #enotionallyimmatureparents
What if small talk is boring and repetitive and a shield from my deeper self getting to play with your deeper self? I like talking about you and me too. Just not the weather…AGAIN. Can we drop the script and have some fun? Explore? Adventure? Expand? Get curious? Play?
2025-07-19 06:06:25
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WolfeHall :
Oh my God. Oh. My. God. *calls therapist*
2025-07-13 21:01:43
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The Speech Prof :
Mine was just that I found out I was autistic. But this also checks my boxes. So things are great 😅
2025-07-13 22:31:50
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Krysti Adams :
I figured it was because I’m neurodivergent and small talk feels empty. Tell me about your favorite music or the last time you went down a rabbit hole of research. If it’s something I didn’t know, I’ll be blown away and it will probably lead me down my own rabbit hole of research.
2025-07-14 00:46:27
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Crimson_Vision :
To me small talk is just a waste of time. Its conveying information neither the talker or listener cares about.
2025-07-14 06:35:21
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K C :
… is it the tism?
2025-07-14 09:57:45
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Bethany M :
And this is why I am a therapist. 😳
2025-07-14 01:24:13
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Meghan L. Dowling :
Amber, it’s bad enough when the fyp stays on my neck 😂
2025-07-14 01:23:54
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alo.of.the.kin :
mine is because ADHD, but ya know, some people love boring, surface level conversations and that's fine 😅
2025-07-18 22:21:23
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Azenith :
Small talk is too much of a neurotypical societal expectation for me to care about it. Give me something interesting to interact with and not mundane social cues that feels disingenuous and empty most of the time
2025-07-14 17:21:52
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Joules :
I LOVE this explanation!
2025-07-13 21:24:11
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FemaleKale🍉 :
Learn something new about myself every day 😅
2025-07-13 21:30:44
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PurpleBallroomGirl :
Me going 3 for 3 as the parentified, eldest daughter of a narcissist 🫠
2025-07-13 21:26:12
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Pixie 🧚🏻♀️ :
I HATE IT HERE 😂🥴🫣
2025-07-14 02:33:29
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✨NewMoonMagick✨ :
I knew you’d have the answer lol
2025-07-13 22:07:42
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KrazyLyss🍉🏳️🌈 :
So it’s not just my autism but it’s also my cptsd from my narc mother… good times
2025-07-14 00:22:10
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Mercedes Andrews :
You know what Amber?!? It’s already the Sundays Scaries!
2025-07-13 21:33:26
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Miranda :
Ahhhh, yes. That’s my mother in a nutshell. 😳
2025-07-13 21:16:40
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Susie :
Yeah you’re right. I hate it. Why am I so VISCERALLY resistant to any criticism of my parents though? Like even if I internally think of a criticism that criticizes them as a parent, there’s an immediate pushback from somewhere deep in my brain telling me I’m ungratefu- yeah nevermind, I see it now. 😑
2025-07-13 23:47:30
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AEB :
Listen, we just met & youre already talking about me…
2025-07-14 04:33:14
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Astara :
Hey! You didn't even hold my hand! Tsssk....
2025-07-14 20:40:10
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Scorpio.mama :
I feel attacked or number 4 all of the above……😂😩🤦🏼♀️😂🤷🏼♀️
2025-07-14 06:12:56
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b_ran :
🥴🥴 I’m so done🤦🏻♀️
2025-07-13 21:17:01
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Wendy 🇵🇸🕊️ :
Parents remember. You can’t turn your child into your therapist. Your problems shouldn’t be theirs.
2025-07-14 20:29:08
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Samantha 🌻✨ :
I went to Morocco for a month and showed no one in my family the pictures because I knew they wouldn’t care
2025-07-15 11:24:46
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