@alyssarhoda: Marriage isn’t magic — it’s the choice to show up. Even when you’re tired. Even when it’s hard. This is what being a wife and a husband really looks like. #husband #wife #husbandwife #marriage #couplegoals #wivesoftiktok #husbandsoftiktok #advice #fyp
People work endless hours and still feel broke but make it a priority to pay the mortgage company every month bc they understand the consequences of being “too broke/too exhausted” to pay. Where is this same realization in marriage? The consequence is you are slowing losing your spark and starving connection so eventually it will die
2025-07-15 02:22:46
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Richard R :
wow , what a bright, beautiful and common sense lady, your husband won the lottery with you by his side❤❤❤👏👏👏👏
2025-07-16 03:43:37
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ImYourHuckleberry :
“Victimhood” mindset. They got to get out of it.
2025-07-18 03:01:47
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angelstar511 :
You either fight for your marriage or lose it but it definitely takes both of you wanting it. It’s the best feeling when come out on other side together. 20 yrs of marriage and we choose each either everyday.
2025-07-15 02:23:27
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wishywashyagain :
He’s a full time dad and husband. He would move heaven and earth for the woman he married. Husbands (and relationships) are too often put onto the do later list.
2025-07-14 22:22:17
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Vernon4444 :
One makes time for what matters in one’s life. If he/she wanted to, they would.
2025-07-14 22:34:58
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flup_flupsson :
men are exhausted too after work
2025-07-14 22:18:55
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Mr.DarkKnight :
It’s the little things that make such a big difference.
2025-07-15 00:21:46
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John Koch750 :
You are a smart lady
2025-07-14 22:27:09
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mrmikeljr :
He’s a full time dad too, full time husband, full time friend, he’s tired too, he has struggles as well. Moms don’t have the same stuggles, they have it worse at times! Somethings no one wants to hear.. unpopular opinion… you and your spouse first! Everything else falls into place..
2025-07-14 22:41:40
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Gerry :
if the kitchen at home is constantly closed, every man will look for his dinner outside the house.
2025-07-15 16:36:43
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Kevin :
you are an amazing person. Have you ever given thought about giving seminars?
2025-07-15 04:53:44
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GRPiv :
If you really want it, you will find a way make it happen.
2025-07-15 10:15:51
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spinosaurus :
wish ill ever have woman like this 🙏
2025-07-15 09:34:47
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canucklehead13 :
Thank you
2025-07-16 18:16:20
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Leanna Sizer :
Full time mom with special needs kids and my husband is my partner and we always make time for each other. 25 years married
2025-07-15 17:15:11
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LTD :
Please thank your mom for us men. 💙
2025-07-15 05:59:30
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MGhostey38 :
I can honestly say man do not understand this exhaustion thing you keep talking about. What are you so exhausted from? I’m not sure mental ever understand that although it’s true.
2025-07-15 14:01:35
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tricky 1 :
Why can't there be More ladies like u in Canada
2025-07-16 05:37:59
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Mustang Joe 🇨🇦 :
First thing in the morning then I’m good for the day. It only takes a few minutes, then we get up, do our bathroom routine then make our lunches together and go to work. Every single day
2025-07-15 11:32:08
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dadbot9000 :
it only takes a few seconds. touch his shoulder as you walk by. or crawl in his lap and just be there for a minute. his tension will melt
2025-07-14 22:16:50
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Chris Parsons :
I’m not a priority feels like don’t even feel love
2025-07-15 16:15:10
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Dennis Simpson :
One thing I think is really important, and I think a lot of couples forget, is that your kids are temporary. Yeah you love them and do the best you can for them. At the end of the day, they leave to have their own lives. When they do it’s just the two of you again. Would you rather give that extra while you have them, or have nothing at the end? You can’t have both. That the reality. I want my wife, before we had kids, while we have kids and especially after they are gone. So that extra energy you spend while they are there is probably the most important energy you will ever spend.
2025-07-14 22:14:40
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CoachMurphy9 :
Being tired is not an excuse
2025-07-16 00:19:35
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