@thedianesantos: Child loss changes your entire world. I honestly feel most comfortable when I’m alone with my thoughts and my grief. Work is a good distraction, it gets me out of the house for 9 hours a day but when it’s over I breathe a sigh of relief that my “people time” is done. Very few understand how it feels to function with part of yourself missing. As grieving moms, we live conflicted. Hearts forever broken but expected to participate in life. Do what feels best for you 💜 #childloss #grievingmom #selfisolation #lifeafterloss #griefawareness #brokenhearted #bereavedmother

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sunflychick
Mylene Rodriguez Leon :
this is so true. this is why grief is a very lonely place....I hope that people understand this... we have to do what we have to do to keep living...to keep the sanity...it is not about them...its all about you. My forever28Ally
2025-07-15 09:52:06
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ellie :
I'm the same. my only child forever 36 July 20th 2024.
2025-07-16 13:52:34
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supremesmomf14
SupremesMomF14 :
I don’t have the support system like this anymore but I’m not sure that I would reach out even if I did. It’s a tough spot to live in
2025-07-16 17:57:16
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anapichardo185
Ana Pichardo185 :
my son die in 2020 I understand you very well nothing is the same after you loss a child that pain never go away sending prayers 🙏
2025-07-19 00:45:48
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chrisandm2
Chris and Me :
Grief is love with no place to go. My deepest condolences. 🙏🌹❤️
2025-07-15 00:00:26
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cat51653
Cat :
Same
2025-07-16 05:26:11
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love2boymom
love2boymom :
I self isolate too! I am just fine with this. I don’t have a family support system. Some friends yes. I just cry silently and am sad quietly!
2025-07-15 15:00:46
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csharee3575
Csharee :
Yes!! 🙌 since losing my son last year, isolation is my peace
2025-07-15 15:17:41
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myangelchildmalcolm
Athena Star :
I'm the same so tired of faking it all day I just have to come home and just isolate and talk with my son Malcolm who passed
2025-07-16 00:13:40
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userlmnop4567890123
LMNOP :
My feelings exactly 😭😭😭 so sorry for you loss too
2025-07-15 01:07:28
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user9179750629355
Keke :
I’m going through the same thing
2025-07-15 15:11:02
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shanna045
Shannon Mic :
I understand this so much . Me too. I talk to Joseph my son all the time.
2025-07-15 21:59:11
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usertammysampson
Tammy :
I appreciate this post. I too choose not to for these reasons. The longer she’s been gone, the less they understand.
2025-07-15 16:16:24
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buttercup2448
buttercup :
I lost my 2 youngest daughters 9 yrs apart the most recent was my youngest in January 2024. I know beyond a shadow that I could have prevented both their deaths if I had just been more present. I isolate because everyone wants to try to convince me that I am wrong. I'll mourn their death until the day I die and carry the this knowledge to my grave.
2025-07-16 05:10:54
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talisaherod
talisaherod :
I totally agree and feel the same way. I been in this 5yrs now but it seems like yesterday everyday
2025-07-15 15:02:50
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mhhigg
Michele 💜💙 :
I do this. I wish others understood. But I often feel like when I need that isolation it’s bc life is too loud and I need that time with my son Noah. He has been gone a year and a half. Grief is hard
2025-07-16 09:48:02
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mypiecesofgrief
Pieces of Grief :
I isolate too. It’s emotionally exhausting to pretend to be ok in a social situation. Plus all the conversations others have can unintentionally hurt so much
2025-07-17 22:17:00
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arlenebrady1
Arlene :
Oh my goodness I lost all 3 of my sons and my Son that just died his name was Mark too and I had always called him Markie too and my Son Luke that was killed by a drunk driver I called him Lukie and My son Matthew died 8 months ago,they all died and I’m grieving so much and I do the same thing but I don’t have anyone and I don’t have a support system I have my daughter but she has her own life with her husband to be and her 3 furry children so and they travel a lot so I am alone . I’m so sorry for your loss of your son Markie too. Thank you for your words they mean a lot to me because I died when my last son Markie was killed by 2 cars 3 months ago and I have to save my entire energy for work. God bless you 💯🙏 I have anxiety attacks on a daily basis 💯
2025-07-15 20:37:22
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valeriearmstrong9745
valerie armstrong978 :
completely relate, I dont fit in anywhere or with anyone any more, and dont want to, being at work takes all the energy I have
2025-07-15 21:51:29
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ginn.e79
ginn.e79 :
I do this now since losing my son. I thought I was alone. Hugs.
2025-07-18 12:53:40
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theresalouise1983
TheresaLouise1983 :
It takes every ounce of my strength to get through work so once I get home I want to be left alone! From one broken mom to another 💔
2025-07-15 18:00:12
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theresabarrera101
Theresa Barrera101 :
😭💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏
2025-07-16 09:48:49
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bettyjeansalazar
Betty Jean Salazar :
😢😢😢
2025-07-15 17:08:07
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ttl.017
ttl.017 :
❤️❤️❤️
2025-07-14 23:46:04
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marycooksmemorabledish
marycooksmemorabledish :
Yep! Its hard...still try and get out... Farmers Market, a nearby beach, and kbow he is with you! Even if its just you! Xoxo! ❤️❤️❤️
2025-07-15 15:55:13
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