@whitneylynallen: Get more inconsiderate🫠The epitome of if you don’t laugh, you’ll cry and using dark humor to get through the deepest pain I’ve ever felt. For tangible guidance on how to learn to carry some really heavy sh*t and still live a big, beautiful life after loss, DM "Carried" to get my second book. For so long, I asked myself WHY this had to happen in such a profoundly tragic way. Why me, why him, why us? The unfairness and injustice were suffocating. I kept trying to make sense of things that made no rational sense and looking for answers that could never be answered. I was trying to create control in a story that had already been written. I was denying my reality and giving away the power and control I actually had in the present moment over my destiny. I was focusing on the wrong things, and it caused unnecessary suffering. I wrote my book, “What Must Be Carried,” because I know what it is like to feel powerless and lost in a life you never asked for. To have to carry compounding traumas, grief, and heartbreak (more than anyone should ever have to bear) and learn how to absorb and integrate them so you can feel like you’re truly living. I wrote this book because everyone who has been through a life-altering loss deserves to find a way to live a good life even after the unimaginable but you just don't know how. This book will change your life because it is the guide I needed going through the worst days of my life, and offers intentional steps to take in the aftermath of loss. . . . . 💌DM "Retreat" for my widow's retreat 💌DM "Support" for 1:1 grief support 💌DM "Carried" to order my 2nd book 💌DM "Running " for my book 💌DM "Email" to sign up for my list . . . #grievingprocess #griefcoach #griefjourney #youngwidow #youngwidows #widowedandyoung #widow #widows #widowhood #widowlife #widowed #widowedmom #anaphylaxis #anaphylacticshock #anoxia #anoxicbraininjury #anoxic #death #griefandloss #deathanddying . . . Grief coach for widows. Helping widows lost in grief find joy and purpose after loss.

Whitney Allen | Grief Coach 🖤
Whitney Allen | Grief Coach 🖤
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beentheredonethat588
BeenThereDoneThat :
I'm so sorry you had to make that choice but agree 💯💯💯 you did what he would have wanted ❤❤❤
2025-07-15 01:42:14
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randallsmith598
randallsmith598 :
@randallsmith598: I had nightmares that I would have to make that choice when my wife had a stroke 4 years ago. We were in that place. Our careers were going well, we had 3 kids. I was blessed that she made it. I’m sorry for your loss
2025-07-15 14:04:52
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Maureen McKenna Krantz :
Sorry about your horrible loss.Still grieving our loss after my husbands TBI. Ambiguous grief hurts. Following.
2025-07-15 17:57:03
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