who needs enemies when you have friends and family like this
2025-07-15 09:34:35
528
Joey Arbel :
The sister asking why OP wasn’t able to come and help her while in the hospital while OP was literally picking up the pieces of her life, having to become a single parent, learning that her husband cheated on her with a woman half their age, dealing with toxic people, and dealing with a divorce. Then the sister has the gull to say that the affair partner was there for her when the affair partner literally destroyed her sister’s life
2025-07-15 17:40:13
65
Verlyn :
How about the YEARS where OP was always there for her sister until the ex broke her. Ex was the reason OP was not mentally capable of being there. Ex was there for the sister cause he wasn't hurt at all and was not picking up pieces like OP was.
2025-07-15 14:04:41
362
《♡its mee♡》 :
YTA. his wife was the only one to visit her sister when her soster thought she was going to die amd you didnt even text you own sister she connected with his wife because she knew the wife was reliable and you werent yeah you xsn pay for her college but that doesn't necessarily make you reliable and that fact that im not even 13 and I can see this and a 43 year old cant is a little concerning
2025-07-15 12:38:37
7
Appsolute :
The fact the friends and the sister chose the ex’s side shows that OP has left a lot out of this
2025-07-15 10:09:48
173
derpz16 :
Honestly ngl NTA, OP went through literal hell through her divorce and she was clearly not in a good state or emotionally available for her little sister. It was extremely nice for ex husband and his new wife to step up and look after OP’S little sister but she shouldn’t need to keep a relationship with them over that? I don’t know I completely agree with what OP is saying.
2025-07-15 10:02:53
662
kimberly owens :
so the parents weren't there when the younger sister was little but op thought they were caring for her 🥴 seems ops ex is better family to the sister than anyone else is.
2025-07-15 12:31:30
30
ZeoSpectar :
after the hospital stuff I cant blame the sister. op never even showed up but they were there for her
2025-07-15 11:14:46
24
ayeayechuu :
ESH. It was slimy that sister took OP money, however as OP says her parents were but parents and she too ghosted her sister when she almost died 😹 “I assumed” her sister assumed OP didn’t want to know about her friendships either
2025-07-15 10:46:06
42
Lilith Love ❤💋 :
NTA, Yes her sister was in a accident, but OP also had just found out her husband was cheating, became a single parent, had to work etc , OP sister says "you didnt check on me they did" but her not checking on you didnt seem to matter when she was sending money
2025-07-15 11:15:04
183
Dylan :
Idk I can see how every single person agrees with the husband… idk feels iffy
2025-07-15 10:19:49
84
Dom :
If it was “no big deal” they she would have told her
2025-07-15 14:18:26
21
lhaiy_89 :
just cut them off.. for the sake of your mental health, people around you chose the cheaters.. it's disheartening but u gotta accept the reality.. maybe just focus on urself, go out, have fun, enjoy life.. u deserve it,too..
2025-07-15 12:31:00
34
Saint Pablo :
NTA but I would try to visit my sister if she was in the hospital but yk that's just me then she never checked up
2025-07-15 10:56:53
30
urlove.iry :
The way fades would’ve been caught like crazy idc 😭
2025-07-15 11:27:18
46
Rio :
who needs enemies am I right?
2025-07-15 18:17:16
27
Chickennuggetsyum :
I honestly think OP should move to another town/city/whatever to get a fresh start and make new connections. She’s surrounded by betrayal, and I think she’ll have better luck getting to know other people. Obviously it’s not easy to just up and leave, but I think it should be a new possible goal for her and her child.
2025-07-15 21:21:43
7
pinkjadeangel :
Nta
2025-07-15 10:51:37
6
Cava :
Why's people acting like OP had nothing to do at that time? XD
2025-07-15 20:26:39
5
Hallow_Time :
Nta also if youre worried about someone making you choose and you still do it youve already chose.
she chose his new wife and just elected not to tell you so you'd still help her.
2025-07-16 01:11:25
3
willstreker :
I don't think anyone intense situations is the ah, there both adults who because of circumstance had to go there separate ways. could thinks have separated more amicably shur but people have boundaries and its not on others ro questions just respect them.
2025-07-15 14:24:37
2
- :
OP don’t owe her sister SHIT the same way her sister don’t owe OP loyalty 🤷🏽♀️hope the little sister is content knowing that not only did her parents not want her but now her sister don’t either and it was all for money
2025-07-16 01:08:07
5
avocado4life00 :
It is literally no siblings job to pay for their siblings school. While you can’t control others and their actions you can choose to drop people who are close with those who hurt you.
2025-07-16 16:11:36
1
Qwintob :
I can see your sisters point of view on all this and I think you should have showed up and helped her out, but NTAH
2025-07-15 14:48:36
1
Jessica_Anderson3714 :
the new wife can pay for the sisters college
2025-07-16 12:25:30
0
To see more videos from user @thereddithero, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.