@iamkillakenz: Could y’all believe I forgave her for this? I chose not to run to the internet because we were “working on our relationship” as you can see I was being fed lies. There was never gonna be any work, it would always be the same.
When I was young, I perceived a lot of the things that I went through as personal. Even the things that were no fault of my own. You were the child and it’s important that adults provide a stable environment for children to grow and thrive. For most of us, not all, but a lot of us experience this and as you grow older, your anger will turn into sympathy and possibly forgiveness one day. You will have your own challenges in life that will enhance your perspective. You will grow to understand that your mom has her own unhealed trauma that has not been dealt with and it’s coming out in a form of abuse. Now, this doesn’t excuse her actions but it does paint a bigger picture that a lot of things that we experience in childhood is because some of them didn’t always have what we needed in order to thrive and survive. So sometimes it’s hard to give kids the life they deserve when the inner child in you never got healed. As life continued on and they got older they never took the steps to heal the parts of them that are broken. So you become stuck….even in an adult body. There’s always lessons to be learned and no matter how old you get, you never reach a point of perfection. Growth is essential. It is constant work . As you trail blaze your own path, make a conscious decision that the cycle will stop with you. Don’t allow anyone to convince you that there’s something wrong because you need love and care and concern for your well-being. And even when you don’t get it from the people you deserve it from, God will provide. It is still your responsibility to do better despite your circumstances because one day you’re going to witness to somebody just like you and you need to be able to tell them how you overcame. I’m praying for your strength and that God turns it around for you.
2025-07-18 00:09:53
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Tammi Thomas :
It sounds as if she may have been renting the townhouse and subleasing it to you and possibly charging you what the rent was for the townhouse and also up charging you so she can pocket money on the backend.
2025-07-19 19:37:40
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big fayb0 :
hey baby,, lemme hold yo hand. you dont owe her nothing. let God handle her.
2025-07-15 17:29:31
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Riah🌊 :
Is she a Taurus 💔
2025-07-15 17:30:44
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Hells Bunny :
My heart hurts so much for you.
2025-07-15 13:00:02
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Sheenbean :
I’m convinced at this point yall both on the entertainment together. I’m not mad at yall get that bag!
2025-07-15 18:59:16
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lissathealchemist_ :
Call the police opening your mail is a federal crime
2025-07-15 15:31:39
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Angela Sykes :
YES THEY OUT THERE KNOW SOME
2025-07-20 03:51:44
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shalena :
I’m currently going this pregnant.
2025-07-15 22:54:18
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prett3heja :
Parents really didn't leave us shyt!
2025-07-15 14:03:02
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Sal :
Oct 4?
2025-07-16 05:47:22
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Krista :
It's a federal crime to open someone's else's mail just fyi
2025-07-15 12:59:43
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Asanda M :
Isn’t illegal to open someone else’s mail
2025-07-20 09:13:26
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K D :
$1900??? Geesh! I guess I don’t understand because no one on my family had to get it out of the mud. My cousins, myself, or our children have NEVER had to give our parents/or us a dime. As young adults if we/or they fell short, the parents or aunts would handle it
2025-07-18 19:26:47
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JayTheDoll :
money is one hell of a drug and it has plagued our community so much that ppl value the dollar more than their own family!!! and i see it all the time. it’s sick and im proud of you for taking the initiative toward your healing cause that is not easy at all. praying for you 🙏🏾
2025-07-15 13:53:37
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zah.zah29 :
Keep speaking your truth my love we know you not lying
2025-07-15 15:09:40
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symiacochran1 :
Man mamas can be deadbeat and still be in ya life
2025-07-15 14:49:29
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DuVall Rafiq :
I pray to Allah that you never need her for anything for as long as you live and I also pray that you get what you need to make your life better for all the days of your life.
2025-07-19 07:54:45
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MrzQueenK11 :
They are though.. I went from being the best mom ever to ain’t shit back to trying to be the best!!! Things happen. We are all human but I pray you will have so much success, blessings on blessings to wealth for you!!
2025-07-18 18:40:56
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Divas of Distinction :
It’s time to stop playing and start holding her accountable. You did not consent to anyone opening your mail so for her to take it upon herself to do this, press charges against her and the friend!
2025-07-19 03:12:15
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cameroonpepper :
This so scary wow! Thank you for speaking up about it. It’s nuts!
2025-07-20 07:47:18
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Christ believer 😌 :
The book of James chapter 1 verses 1-4❤️❤️
2025-07-20 08:58:50
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Cookie :
I guess not answering yes or no, to her, meant open the mail. Truth is she just wanted to see how much the check was so she could hit you up for some of it. She’s the type of mother I would never speak to ever again and how did your check go to her house anyway? Anytime I look at one of your videos I dislike her more and more.
2025-07-16 04:12:06
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Angelwings :
yes same with my mom learned all that at 33 now at 51 same shot I'm over it🤷🏽♀️
2025-07-19 03:12:34
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