@_cartiear: My son and I… That feels weird to type, let alone saying it out loud. He’s growing closer to me but he’s still WAYYY closer to his mom and I’m making peace with that lol The closer he moves in my direction, the closer I need to be moving towards the man that I want to be. There is a lot that we will be learning together, which will come with plenty of apologies from me…but I will be there. Rooting for you. Whatever you do.