@alayaxharmon: dont go share hate but could someone lmk if im crazy or did i clock him bc i feel like im going crazy 😭

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justgimmiemymoneyyy
👁️ :
Stop fooling w white men that’s the problem
2025-07-19 15:37:41
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m4ddyx0n
🍃☆🏳️‍⚧️Maddyx🇨🇦☆🍃 :
the fact that yall have only been together for like 3 weeks and he's already not wanting to do the bare minimum like calling you pretty or giving basic reassurance is crazy ive been with my fiancé for 2 and half years and they still compliment me daily and always provide me with reassurance when I need it. You definitely deserve better
2025-07-19 19:51:31
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xoxo._lly
Aly💋 :
What’s his @
2025-07-19 07:05:56
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sillybrazi
່ :
You can pull anyone fuck him
2025-07-19 13:07:44
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mrssrager
mimi :
maybe you should’ve asked your friends😭 and not have posted this😩 now he’s gonna see ur actual reaction and prob get mad that you posted this
2025-07-19 08:44:11
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shadowmina
shadowmina :
babe just get a new one
2025-07-19 10:30:57
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amali404_
amali 🇦🇺 :
as a girly w bpd. ur man should not be acting this way 😭😭 its so unhealthy to be dating someone like that ommgggg. my bf learnt in the 1st month how to take care of me w the bpd involved. always asked what I needed or wanted from him and always reassured me even over the dumbest shit. go find urself a real man girl. u deserve sm better ur gorgeous 😭😭
2025-07-19 16:41:32
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reihaspiss
Sylvie :
Is it just me or is it to fast to understand anything your saying
2025-07-19 19:20:35
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0mkoka
0mkoka :
WHY DO PEOPLE ALWAYS BEEF YOU MAMA WHYYY 💔💔💔💔
2025-07-19 17:22:39
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michelle.pandebono.51
Michu :
„i‘ll call you pretty but thats MAX“ theres men buying islands for women!!!😨
2025-07-19 11:17:19
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dollincombat
Lalalala :
"I’ll call you pretty but that’s MAX" ew girl break up with him he’s so lame
2025-07-19 09:14:58
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xxbbyyyyy1
xxbbyyyyy :
Once someone says “you deserve better” believe it.
2025-07-19 06:51:16
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fiji.milk
Bunni :
You’re love language sound like words of affirmation so you’re feelings are absolutely valid when wanting little things like reassurance from your partner. And a partner that truly wants to be with you would AT LEAST compromise & meet in the middle instead of trying to invalidate your feelings. Relationships aren’t perfect but if you truly want to build with that person you will work through the flaws instead of making your partner feel inferior when they express how they feel. hope this helps love u girlie stay positive 🫂🌸✨💕
2025-07-19 14:08:52
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ughhh6039
ughhh :
3 weeks and he’s already acting like this? Girl run
2025-07-19 18:29:49
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q.uintonnn
q.uintonnn :
leave him come with me fine shyt✌️🥹
2025-07-19 10:08:32
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notreal_lyher
notreal_lyher :
sounds like a narcissist to me that was res flags of my ex
2025-07-19 15:04:24
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camienguyenss
˚ ༘ ೀ⋆。˚Cams𐙚⋆°. :
so sick of mid men pulling all these gorgeous Women[disdain]
2025-07-19 11:44:54
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nataliaxjoy
natalia 🤍 :
not even half way done but it’s not worth it. the moment the stop validating you it’s over
2025-07-19 16:11:01
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altaxczl1
altaxczl1 :
girl he already deleted y’all’s videos , forget him he didn’t love you
2025-07-19 04:43:30
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vhasband
𝓐✧⋆ :
Ok babe so let me stop him there, he chose to let all of “these things” that you apparently have done bubble up, just to blow up on you and say you’re pushing boundaries. He’s allowed to feel how he feels because he’s human, but at the end of the day for him to let all of these “reasons” implode your relationship. Is crazy. He obviously should’ve talk about these to you before letting them explode. It’s good that you took accountability though but he needs to take accountability on his part for not addressing the situation right away. Or how he felt about it. He clearly can’t communicate, and don’t take that in a bad way because I get he’s still your boyfriend but at the end of the day what HE is doing is wrong as well. You’re not crazy, you’re valid to feel this way. It’s ok to want to feel wanted. We are women. It is completely ok. Maybe he doesn’t understand that. AND it is completely ok to want to feel known by your significant other that you are beautiful. Sometimes we just need reassurance and that’s ok. It seems like you are more taking this relationship seriously and he is not. You are gorgeous! You are pretty. You are a Devine feminine, and I mean that respectfully as a follower and viewer. Like I said it’s ok to want to be complimented. You are literally putting effort into things he wants to do. Hes honestly just making excuses. I hope you feel better. Honestly and genuinely. I’m going through almost the same thing. I hope you feel better. I was happy to listen. Good luck 💖
2025-07-19 04:48:58
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allyschaff
°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・°❀ :
babe unfortunately i think all the attention and compliments was love bombing and he’s just expecting you to stay around and not have to do those things for you anymore which isn’t ok. you are completely in the right and better off without him
2025-07-19 17:45:36
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helokiki_
Helokiki :
Pls slow it down 💔💔💔
2025-07-19 08:32:02
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bluntzhortty
bluntzhortty :
bae switch side trust
2025-07-20 01:35:49
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moverye
M💤 :
know ur worth.
2025-07-20 00:15:41
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ascendedviolet
Zim :
Congratulations on your divorce 🖤
2025-07-19 10:21:08
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