@anxiouslyalej: 🔑 WHY YOUR SILENCE IMPACTS AN AVOIDANT MAN MORE THAN WORDS EVER COULD 🔑 🌟 Signals High Self-Worth: When you demonstrate emotional discipline through silence, you're signaling that your boundaries and self-respect come first. Avoidant men subconsciously interpret emotional detachment as high value because it reveals you act based on your self-worth, not your immediate feelings. This rarity and scarcity skyrocket your perceived value in his eyes. 🌟 Shatters His Ego: Avoidant men often take forgiveness and emotional generosity for granted. They see it as confirmation they're entitled to your affection without effort. Your silence interrupts this entitlement, forcing him to face the uncomfortable truth—your presence was a privilege, not a guaranteed right. This ego check is profoundly unsettling for avoidants who rely on emotional control. 🌟 Forces Confrontation with Himself: Avoidants typically distract themselves with temporary relationships and superficial connections. But when your silence persists, these distractions eventually fade. He's left alone, forced to confront his emotions, insecurities, and the emptiness left behind. He obsesses, creating sad playlists, reliving moments, and monitoring your online presence desperately. The peace he once felt from your predictable warmth now turns into anxiety because he's lost control. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #datinginyour30s #datingcoachforwomen #dismissiveavoidant #breakups #powerdynamics

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io_me_io
Io :
It works only if he is interessed
2025-08-04 23:47:23
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camille_daisy
camille_daisy :
if he ghosted you first, he doesnt care about your absence
2025-08-05 09:21:18
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bumbledisasters
DatingDisasters :
Always listen to the intuition, your guts never wrong! 😅
2025-10-17 16:42:00
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xxcelinee
Celine :
"Your presence was a privilege“ !!!!!
2025-08-04 23:36:14
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icantthinkofone51
britt :
I’ve blocked him off everything today im done
2025-08-05 06:22:04
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curvy_redhead
curvy_redhead :
I hope I live in his head rent free lol
2025-08-06 20:24:54
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mamajama15
🫒 :
Be strict girls. 💕
2025-08-05 10:15:02
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johannecorbin792
Raggamuffinjojo :
So ghosting is the answer to everything?
2025-08-05 16:19:10
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brokentobrave0
Broken To Brave :
This is much better advice than hiding in the bushes just outside his house🥺
2025-10-27 15:46:27
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mich.1180
Mich :
Silence is golden ✨
2025-08-05 02:24:08
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matcha_latteyyy
matcha_latteyyy :
I left, no drama, didnt cry, didn’t reachout, no post about it, I just acted normal to remind him that his absence didn’t matter
2025-08-16 20:30:29
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anncy1111
Anncy1111 :
I went silent for ME . He does not care , never did . He has no heart no empathy nothing.
2025-08-05 00:24:27
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meetvarsha
Travelsoul :
What if the man has very low emotional intelligence? He wouldn’t get affected by silence coz he doesn’t realize or feel anything. Can you answer this?
2025-08-05 04:56:05
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unbothered4271
Unbothered :
Exactly, he will never ever find another me. His loss not mine.
2025-08-05 04:06:16
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iona____
iona :
Say it louder!!!! “You demonstrate your value by what you’re willing to walk away from!!!!” “Your presence is a privilege and not a birthright!!” Girl speak!!!!!Trying to search for the peace that only your presence can provide!!!” Hmph!!!
2025-08-05 05:26:12
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_niknaksnack
Nik :
Even if I’m blocked everywhere?
2025-08-05 00:06:23
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scl_s39
Keeks :
even if he got a girl 2 weeks after I walked away?
2025-08-05 03:09:43
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soyourechelsea
Chelsss :
I was just about to text that fool! Thank you girl 😩
2025-08-10 09:23:40
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lordglaster0
Lord Glaster🖤 :
I know it has become a cliche to recommend a book and say 'it changed my life', but if you ever decide to read abook based on a random comment, let it be this one. Please, girls, listen to me and find The Silent Feminine Power by Lana Cressel. You'll be shocked with techniques inside.
2025-08-25 15:59:58
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ytmeloniepeppers
Petrossian Beluga :
Started being silent. he's crumbling
2025-08-05 22:11:22
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simpleevalentina
ᴠᴇᴇ :
This is much better advice than hiding in the bushes just outside his house
2025-08-05 03:06:29
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rosalyvaldez
Rosaly :
Why are you all dating people that you “need” to be silent to?
2025-08-05 00:24:12
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inesayi.yt
Inès 🐥 :
If he didn't care from the beginning and was just faking it, silence won't do anything to him anyway..
2025-08-05 01:43:49
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calamityelaine1
CalamityJane :
the person in control of a relationship is the one who cares the LEAST
2025-08-06 20:03:08
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