@drbeckyatgoodinside: When my kid says, "I’m not going to school today," I remind myself: this is resistance talking. As adults, we’ve learned how to manage that part of us. That "I don’t want to get out of bed, but I know I’ll feel better once I do," part. Kids don’t yet have that regulation or perspective. So their resistance comes out raw and loud. Our job isn’t to demand emotional maturity they don’t yet have - it’s to recognize the part that’s speaking and help them move through it. For more of my thoughts on back-to-school stress, tune into the Good Inside podcast wherever you like to listen!
Yes! People tend to make a big deal out of these moments, trying to convince the kid of the positive aspects of the planned activity - that always backfires. I just softly resonate with my child and move on. 99% of the time, in 5 minutes she forgot that resistance altogether.
2025-08-25 20:33:38
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Shelby :
❤️I love that you remind us to think about how we would feel in that situation rather than what we want our kid to do
2025-09-03 20:49:48
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🇨🇦MadameRolfe Mme_Rolfe🇨🇦 :
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2025-08-25 19:11:22
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Adri :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-09-18 06:34:56
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Neven_brand_Manager :
You have a presence that leaves a soft and unforgettable impression. 🤍 We would love to share something simple with you. If you would like, send us a private message. 💗
2025-08-26 15:02:39
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Mingzybaby :
What about a 9 year old kid who always says he’s stupid and can’t learn … what can we do to encourage him
2025-08-25 17:27:37
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Melissa :
my daughter adhd she a handful
2025-08-30 03:04:51
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