@greyncay: At the end of the day, I might lose my patience, drop the ball, compare when I shouldn’t, and forget about self-care completely. But every laugh, every hug, every small victory reminds me that struggling doesn’t mean failing — it means I’m still showing up. And if showing up every single day for my kid is what struggle looks like, then I’ll wear that badge proudly. 💙💛 #SpecialNeedsParenting #DisabilityAwareness #parentingunfiltered #downsyndrome #ParentLife

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blueplanetpets
Zeb | BluePlanetPets 🦜 :
It’s hard as hell. I miss the baby days, because this keeps getting MUCH harder.
2025-10-14 13:05:20
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cateholding
cateholding :
Relatable to every point! I try to tell myself that Jamie “can’t do that…. yet”. Gotta throw the “yet” at the end of it because they’ll get there!
2025-10-01 13:16:19
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abbydrav
The Faith Edit :
You CANNOT compare. Daughters is now 20 and it’s such a rollercoaster but ALL kids drain us.
2025-10-20 04:02:24
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riseupandpray777
Allie :
Single parent here exhausting
2025-10-12 17:29:57
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dannierenay
Dannie :
SAME…every single point, I feel you !
2025-10-01 12:44:41
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big_mama1434
bigmama :
I so relate to this 100%. And being a single mom it’s so hard
2025-10-01 17:00:38
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highest_self333
Highest_self :
You are doing amazing just remember that!
2025-10-01 18:35:16
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elizabeth.cameron15
Elizabeth Cameron Rodgers :
I have a child with autism and I feel this.
2025-10-02 01:23:05
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theluckyfewtimestwo
theluckyfewtimestwo :
I will say I do compare my two older ones to each other sometimes (both DS). I constantly have to remind myself that one is much more medically complex with an autism diagnosis, so it makes sense that she's further behind than he was at the same age.
2025-10-04 16:36:12
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vu1canf0rce
Andrew :
yes sir. same.
2025-10-01 17:34:46
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ms.cheesepickle
Cheese Pickle :
Why can't we wear a spiderman glove to school? I don't see the problem unless it shoots webs and socks in the freezer, actually sounds like it would feel good... Also, I promise you will miss these days ... Lastly this was me when Bella was 10.. 9 years later you know what I look like now. I still donate to a gym membership tho 🤣😂🤣😂.. You got this... You and your wife are doing amazing
2025-10-01 13:24:32
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mandocan
mandocan :
Yall are doing a great job!!
2025-10-02 02:27:06
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ceve12345
Mama + CAL :
my sister has down syndrome and I have a son with level 3 autism. I totally agree with you. ❤💙
2025-10-01 21:36:08
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felinafox
Felina :
I sooo feel you. Fitness was my life. I never get enough sleep to have the energy. Partially it’s over 40 life. The other part is having 3 special needs kids 😂the counter table knock off. So relatable. The fall stims.
2025-10-01 14:31:01
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blackvelvetsalon.ashley
Ashley F. :
The gym donation 😂 100%
2025-10-01 19:02:01
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amandaalmanza0
Amanda Almanza :
Hit me right in the feels this morning. I feel all this 💛💙💛💙
2025-10-01 13:51:46
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sandyalthoff
Sandy Althoff :
i was the opposite, nonstop running, muscular and thin. never got to sit down. now im overweight, but so happy things are so much easier. shes doing g
2025-10-01 22:51:15
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robinrena1208
Robin Blankenship232 :
As a DS mom, this is so well said! I love my Evan with all my heart, but the struggle is real!
2025-10-10 21:07:51
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farwickfamily
Farwick Family :
Lack of impulse control. Exhaustion. No internal monolog. Damn we are proud. All of the above!
2025-10-02 22:51:28
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trsaiz
TanHer :
Exactly 💯 but wouldn't trade it for the world!! 💙💛
2025-10-01 16:16:58
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21_nuggets
SamanthaMichelle1621 :
Extra chromosomes parent here. My son is 9. Everything you said is FACTS! #2 is every single day! Somehow hearing other special needs patients are having the same thoughts and struggles as me helps. Thank you for this video!
2025-10-10 15:33:42
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specialisgreat
Dakota and Arriyan :
Agree. It can be hard, I’m glad to have family around that help when they can and I got a few little cousin with Autism tooz 🥺
2025-10-04 06:35:00
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provokeimports
ashkii🪶🪶 :
spot on brother
2025-10-01 16:32:00
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vickiepski
Vickie Pod sumthin :
I’m lucky I get to stay home with my son because my husband works. I mean we still struggle money wise. I’m working on my masters online too but Mikey is a full time job!! I couldn’t imagine working, school, and all the doctors/therapists. I agree it is hard to not compare and be a little sad but also sooo proud.
2025-10-01 15:20:14
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jjvilla02
jessicavillarrea3 :
I feel everything you just said
2025-10-09 13:53:25
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