@bensooi: #foryoupage

⋰˚☆ ✮⋆˙⭒ :

I do not know how to communicate properly, also I think talking about ur feelings makes u a “dramatic person” thatʼs why I just avoid, no explanation, I just disappear

wawayut :

I really dunno how to communicate, especially when there is something wrong. I always choose to keep it and stay silent

cAilu 🫧🫧 :

maaf.. sebenarnya gamau, i am trying my best to disappear it but its too hard for me.. trust me, aku gamau orang sekitar aku capek sama aku karena kekecewaan yg aku luapkan.. soo.. i decided to fix it alone without some explanation and make it clear alone..

raaaaa🧃🌎 :

respon mereka bikin ak jadi avoid, udh mls ngmg ke org lain, mkny sering mendem smuanya:)

dunkin :

DULU AKU GA GINIIIIIIIIII

sasha :

tbh, gamau kaya gini terus..

𝓐 :

i always had this bad habit

assyyaa :

naa🐙 :

my biggest toxic trait is avoidance. i don't talk when something's wrong, i just distance my self, let the anger fade and then act like nothing happened. even when i want to speak and i talk my self out of it

panggil istri sean :

Sifat toksik terbesar saya adalah penghindaran. Saya tidak bicara ketika ada yang salah. Saya hanya menjauhkan diri, membiarkan amarah mereda, lalu bersikap seolah tidak terjadi apa-apa. Bahkan ketika saya ingin bicara, saya membujuk diri saya sendiri untuk tidak melakukannya.

ajely :

tbh, ga pengen kaya gini terus-terusan.. cuma bingung.. aku tau ini tuh bukan hal yang baik cuma aku juga bingung harus diperbaiki dari mana... sedih.. semakin dipaksa untuk coba komunikasiin justru semakin meledak rasanya bukan semakin membaik..

🩰 :

people say "communication is important", but what if after we express it, we are blamed or thought to be overreacting?

bell :

aku juga gini, ktnya avo ya?

shan :

really hate avoidant, but fall in love...

zii :

sebenernya apa yang kalian liat itu ga apa yang kalian pikirin, kalian pasti mikirnya aku cuek, gabisa ngehargain, judes trs juga ga asik, ga pedulian, percayalah aku juga sebenrnya gamau kaya begini tp gatau tiba tiba otak ak malah bekerja kaya begitu:(

🌙 el :

@⋰˚☆ ✮⋆˙⭒:I do not know how to communicate properly, also I think talking about ur feelings makes u a “dramatic person” thatʼs why I just avoid, no explanation, I just disappear

🍓 :

too crispy to repost

m :

The bad habit I want to change is that sometimes after I avoid that person, I end up feeling guilty. It makes me so sad because my emotions get all mixed up😔

r :

be the silent treatment when there is a problem.

Reyykyoshi ⸆⸉ :

and the guilt afterwards is a sin

ame :

fr😭

varsha :

@wawayut:I really dunno how to communicate, especially when there is something wrong. I always choose to keep it and stay silent

galaxy :

I always end up choosing my peace n space over anything when everything gets tough 😔

K. :

cape bngst

Awls034 :

As a anxious person, i hate avoidant. But cant really put the blame on one side, in MY CASE. Im the one who compromised a lot and the other part dont even try.suggesting a few healthy way of doing things for both of us, researching how to be a better person with all of my imperfections. It hurts but i do it anyway cause i thought its just a few bumps on the road and we’ll someday be just fine. Turns out i was the bumps, the obstacle in someone else love story. Im the guy she cheated on, and after finding out i got dumped, and she got married 😁