@idgaf.livv: The two never mix well #fyp #relatable #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #MentalHealth

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mayaa_writes
Mayaa•writing is my therapy :
This is how I sounded when I found out I had avoidant attachment and realized I couldn’t love him the way I deeply wanted too..
2025-10-19 01:41:03
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brooklynn_r0se
Brooklynn Crane :
girl never let that friend go she’s a real one
2025-10-12 22:02:07
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knownasqueen__
knownasqueen__ :
I would give my soul for him…but he just runs away
2025-10-11 00:11:01
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beelessbeehives
Nameless :
Wait but he’s holding you though? 😔
2025-10-10 00:28:21
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adieelinnee
addie𖣂 :
as a avoidant myself i just know he is crying himself to sleep like this too
2025-10-12 00:41:49
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kcms.1
kacie :
yall do realize this shit develops in CHILDHOOD! it is the fault of one’s environment and caretakers, NOT THEM!
2025-10-27 03:28:47
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itsyoshiaki
yoshiaki :
i hate having bpd, i hate seeing myself beg for the person to stay.
2025-10-11 21:18:30
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delulu_340
Aleena <3 :
as a girl with BPD i have anxious attachment and i’ve been with avoidment and it just hurts.. i feel your pain i hope you feel better soon ❤
2025-10-22 22:34:01
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....bellyboo
IZZY<3333 :
Avoidant attachment means their scared to commit. Find someone that is normal and not scared of you. I promise it’s worth it when you find that person that regulates your anxiety.
2025-10-27 02:20:47
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ella.skye_
ella.skye :
he left me literally because he couldn’t handle the fact of someone looking after n caring for him because he wanted to deal with it on his own
2025-10-24 11:23:59
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melina100102
santas helperrr :
ya’ll gotta truly learn how an avoidant works.
2025-10-26 18:58:32
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so.tilly
StrawberryGirl :
You definitely the bestest of best friends. Some of us thought that was your bf. They hold you so sweetly omg.
2025-10-29 03:41:18
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c0rps3bunnyx3
Luna :
Everyone is telling her to leave him but he’s literally actively trying his best to be there for her, yeah it hurts, but if she didnt want to be with him she wouldn’t be with him.
2025-11-13 13:03:16
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andirxmeda
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It's torture. You work harder to be loved by them or get some crumbs of love by them, thinking it will fix the relationship someday with your efforts and it will work out, but it only pulls them away further because it doesn't work like that for them and they get very overwhelmed. You try to get used to the avoidance but it's so physically and psychologically painful and debilitating. The worst thing is having to accept that you have to let go. But it's for the best of both.
2025-10-11 11:32:25
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veronikagilmour
Veronika Gilmour :
Girl, atleast he’s not running away and he’s trying to somewhat comfort you. My avoidant will literally let me lay there and cry w a blank look on his face, no touch, no comfort, no emotion, just coldness. Or he’ll leave
2025-11-15 10:49:22
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diusfiduss
Benjamin Cruz1775 :
I always wondered why some people heal fast after heartbreak while others stay stuck. I was one of the stuck ones… until I read the book called Celestial Soulmate by Veniverse. The way it changed my feelings in a few days didn’t even feel real.
2025-11-28 17:39:09
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lil_catlover04
Lils 🌊🌸🌾 :
Girl, he’s not the one if he leaves you crying like this in your best friend’s arms, doesn’t matter if he’s avoidant attachment or not… you deserve better. His kind of attachment style isn’t an excuse to treat someone like rubbish and have them crying their heart out every night :/
2025-10-12 08:22:55
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.mads150
✨Madi✨ :
Stop. I love him, hes literally the best thing I've ever had. He is the first one to not cheat or ghost me but this is us. this is me. actively, currently me.
2025-10-10 00:51:20
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hartisrotten
hartisrotten :
anxious attached so hard that i switched to avoidant attachment to protect myself and both eat you up inside tbh
2025-10-26 11:34:19
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lexislosesit
Lexio :
Been there, sweet girl. You have to let go. Get rest, recharge, find your center, and decide whether you can keep doing this.
2025-10-09 02:26:14
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userr._inayaaa
ℐ𝓃𝒶𝓎𝒶´愛 :
Il se passe quoi ?
2025-10-12 11:00:16
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angelaaa2642
angelaaa2642 :
I am on a thread in Holding on to him… while he is pushing me away… I know he‘ll hurt me again and again… discovered his avoidance 3 years ago and let him pull and push me so many Times… I can‘t Seem to let him go 😒
2025-10-10 19:55:37
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r._yxx
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Literally was just crying abt this today.
2025-12-07 04:41:41
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suzuki..rf600r
Jani :
Im german and i am sorry but i dont get it can someone please explane?😅
2025-10-12 12:27:18
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ma_vie61
IG: mavies_shop.ng :
My anxious attachment is killing me 😭😭😭 I’m sooo scared
2025-11-12 17:13:12
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