@boneybodyoverheart: Now I have to make something drastic up, put this feeling into words and project it on white people! Istg white people can’t do anything with other races but black people do it all all the time, we’re reaching for equality not specialism #blackhairstyles
literally it's just self-imposed segregation at this point 😭
2025-10-17 22:00:04
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krystalmalta :
this is literally why I cant compliment anymore. it makes me sad because Im big on letting people know when im digging something. it usually makes people smile, but not everyone.... especially when I say I love their hair.
2025-10-21 07:33:50
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ladeedah2021 :
I compliment if I like something or I feel maybe someone is sad or having a rough day hoping it might bring a smile to their face. If it was ever brought up to my face as a negative thing I’d just explain that the fact a compliment can be labeled “racist” bc it came from a white person is in fact RACISM. I don’t compliment yo make myself look good, like they ain’t nobody paying attention to what you doing. How would that make someone look good anyways? Who the hell cares anyways, I got more important shit to do with my time 🤣
2025-12-05 10:11:40
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lxrh1.is :
because not everyone is being genuine and most people can see it clearly.
2025-10-15 09:51:35
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Mills :
I think this whole discourse has a lot of nuance. At its core it can be considered harmless, but I understand how it can come across as offensive because the topic of black hair is historically such a complicated/sensitive one. Guess it varies from person to person
2025-10-15 07:19:49
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Madi :
People in the comments mad you’re not trying to find something to be negative about every 000.1 milliseconds like them 😭
2025-10-16 11:18:31
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miari :
im black and I genuinely thought it was really sweet
2025-10-16 17:15:26
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️ :
I saw a video that said “a white man complimented my hair on the train” and she was sitting there saying white men only like black girls with bad hair.. like HUH????? All he did was tell you your hair looked good 🥀🥀🥀
2025-10-15 14:24:33
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Unwashed Raccoon hands :
This is genuinely why I never complimented a black girl who’s hair I loved because I thought she might think some of the things these comments are saying 😭
2025-10-17 20:47:09
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⭐9⁹9⭐JAYCE IS UNFORGIVABLE :
Like wdym we just want into the cookout and some approval last time I checked a compliment was meant to be nice and uplifting… 😭😭
2025-10-17 18:21:59
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Brit~🌟💜 :
…This is literally them when we tell them we’re uncomfortable with this trend:
2025-10-17 22:30:56
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Kali Decaire :
but like i understand them because WHY are we using this audio… the audio is literally talking about white people being performative towards black people to benefit themselves which is what black people are saying this trend is. i think some people didn’t mean it in that way but i think as the trend got bigger it did become performative and black people started recognizing that. and under some videos the creator starting being racist when black people said it made them uncomfortable.
2025-10-17 22:00:34
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Bri <3 :
idk they have some valid arguments and as a white person im not gonna just dismiss that
2025-10-17 19:24:56
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Valentine :
Okay the thing is the issue is every single time they want to “just compliment black people” it’s a trend it’s for a period of time and it’s clear people are doing the trend for brownie points. Then the trend ends and a bunch of racist shit is is all across the app and we’re supposed to not care like genuinely it’s so infuriating and I’m tired of being belittled for seeing the stupidity of trends like this
2025-10-16 19:22:30
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Jess See :
So you didn’t listen to one video 😭😭 it’s the fact that once black women said it seems performative everyone started talking shit about bw. 😭😭 which is the exact performative shit we’re talking about.
2025-10-17 21:57:11
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Vellichor*ೃ༄ :
As much as I’d love to listen to black voices who have a problem with the trend, a lot of them don’t seem to really have valid points. They’re just speculating that the videos are “performative” when they have no way of knowing that for sure
2025-10-19 01:43:53
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𝗻𝘆𝗮𝗵. . .⁺˚*❀ :
I don’t believe some blk people are being negative Nancy’s for any reason though😭 I believe some of the blk people not liking this trend don’t like it because they believe its an facade and also its just them keeping their guard up. You can’t blame them though. I’ve seen some incidents with this trend to where yt people had reverted to racism..so it’s not wrong for them to keep their guard up & think its a facade. But I do believe some yt people didn’t intend to mean any harm, and they shouldn’t be attacked. This is just my honest take.😭
2025-10-17 15:05:36
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ELLI ⋆✮⋆. :
Never in a million years would I have thought compliments would be offensive 😭
2025-10-17 14:48:17
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🌸BunnysDen🌸 :
mind you. this song was created to talk about the Black Community. This trend is exactly the issue that she is singing about....
2025-10-20 10:49:11
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Sonia Gaither :
I had to stop myself from telling a woman I loved her nails (yellow long, looked great on her skin tone).
2025-10-17 11:16:11
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M Elise J :
I honestly am worried to compliment black women’s hair in real life now bc people online said it’s an inside joke that when a white person compliments their hair they know they need to get it redone. Like…I just think you look pretty😔
2025-10-18 15:28:03
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Charlie Mason78 :
I don't have a problem with white people but I think I need to start hanging around them more or something because I live in a place where it's mainly black people so whenever I'm in a place where it's mainly white people I get so uncomfortable and it really shouldn't be that deep😭 you know it's bad when I'm the one clenching my purse 💀
2025-10-18 18:08:47
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cailey | sahm life✨🌥️🌀 :
i saw a girl post about how we’re bad for complimenting the hair and how it’s still super bad of white people to say they like their hair for some reason? like i didn’t even understand i just think girly just wants to be miserable 😭 people posting and complaining about it are def the most pessimistic people to be around 🥀 why can’t we just accept love 😔
2025-10-18 13:01:22
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