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ASPERA :
my wokeness ends at polyamory ❤
2025-10-27 12:27:14
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Mai :
My biggest question is: how do they manage to find several people who are first of all polyamorous, secondly all fall in love with each other, and thirdly get in a relationship with each other? Probability wise this is wild.
2025-11-17 21:15:55
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Tiffany Wade :
I’m solo poly. I was married for 15 years and it was abusive. I lost myself. Different people bring out different aspects of you. Being able to explore this to figure out what versions you love versus which versions you don’t has been extremely helpful in my healing journey. Being ethically non monogamous is about being honest. It’s not for everyone and it may not be my forever; but I have learned more in these last 3 years about myself, power dynamics, relationships, and communication than I have in all the combined years of my life before that. I’m 42.
2025-12-02 02:53:07
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Arty Crow 21 :
Poly for 20 and 18 years respectively. We’ve had a trio “marriage” commitment ceremony, we’re all on the mortgage, and we all share a bank account. Deep love and commitment between the three of us since high school. Ask me anything, I’ll gladly explain anything you’re confused about. 🥰
2025-12-01 03:27:23
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The Bad Catholic :
As a poly person, y'all are exhausting.
2025-10-30 03:27:15
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mary 🍉 | lazyarcana on twitch :
i’m not poly, but i’ve never once been inconvenienced or harmed by poly couples in my entire life. it’s a non issue. there are more important things to care about than who others decide to date.
2025-11-30 17:02:38
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🥩📼 J 🌈♾️ :
I’ve never heard a monogamous person explain their relationship without sounding like one member is being held hostage
2025-10-28 18:32:24
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he lio :
They’re just cheaters who found weak people with no boundaries
2025-10-31 02:30:04
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Bider-Man :
Poly relationships just sound like quantity over quality 🤷🏻♂
2025-10-31 02:38:05
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Kk🩷 :
to me it just sounds like a bunch of people who are scared of commitment 🤷🏻♀️that’s just me tho
2025-11-30 09:59:45
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Yana 🌝 ~ Lectrice :
But to them, our relationships must sound like prison or something ! It’s okay not to understand as long as we don’t discriminate! I’m monogamous I don’t need to « get it » just to respect them and be glad that they are happy 😊 !
2025-10-27 08:27:33
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Eider Engineering :
these comments are so regressive, I thought we all wanted more wokeness in the rise of conservatism
2025-11-30 19:32:44
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piranhasandwich :
Like why would you want to spend the rest of your life third wheeling in your own relationship??? Like wdym you want to be your partner’s 2nd, 3rd etc favourite partner?
2025-10-27 01:59:54
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joannadealmeida :
every single one i've ever talked to had insane commitment issues & relationship drama 24/7
2025-10-27 16:39:36
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Golden :
Maybe i’d be open to listening to their explanation if every single one didnt have “well we as humans arent ACTUALLY monogamous creatures, we just do it cause societal pressure” in it somewhere. So what am i? A monogamous crab??
2025-11-30 07:23:44
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CheyanneLillian :
I always end with the same question.. what happened to make you like this?
2025-12-02 02:14:03
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kelsey :
Everytime it just ends up sounding like an open relationship where it’s one main couple with each their own additional partners who just know about each other
2025-10-28 02:11:33
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wyrmbat :
i’m starting to think a lot of you just cherry pick which poly people you listen to lol
2025-10-28 06:24:18
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_anagram_girll :
I dated a poly person just to try out the lifestyle and felt like their affection and time wasn’t enough for me because of all their other relationships even after communicating that I felt like I wasn’t spending a lot of time with him. I also saw others but doing that made me feel emotionally distant from the one I was dating. All this made me lose feelings for him. I can only have romantic feelings for one person at a time and prefer the same back. I like all the attention on me and I like all mine on one person in that way. My boyfriend now and I are monogamous. We both have friends, family, and hobbies that meet our needs for socialization/identity outside of our relationship. We pour a lot of love into each other and love each other deeply to where we cannot fathom anyone else. I feel like a lot of poly folks are commitment-phobic or have a great deal of trauma that makes it so that they always have someone when they get dumped/abandonment issues or they just have issues with dopamine where one person isn’t stimulating enough for them. That’s just what I think though.
2025-12-01 13:49:56
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Petruta :
nicest way possible to they vote people out like among us when they break up or what 😭 (no hate to u guys it just confuses me)
2025-12-01 18:42:49
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Jo :
I absolutely believe polyamory can work but I think it takes a really secure unique personality to do it right and I just don’t think most poly relationships have that. (Same could be said about monogamy I suppose)
2025-11-03 04:05:44
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Fine Fin :
Okay I’ll try— I’m in a commited non-monogamous relationship (basically just looks like open relationship, but we talk about stuff all the time); I love my girlfriend very deeply, and when I’m with her I feel that she loves me the same. Sometimes though, I’m not with her, and I’ll be with someone else, and I’ll think “hey, they’re cool, I’d be intimate with them” and she does the same💀 I really don’t get how this difficult to understand, and if polyamory was more common/accepted then so many monogamous relationships would end better😪😪😪
2025-11-30 22:25:51
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Jen :
It’s always a power imbalance - just an absolutely absurd concept I will die on this hill
2025-10-28 07:46:31
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mollywood :
I actually just don’t think it’s our business girl 😭 with love
2025-10-27 06:51:50
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sia_jade :
Like someone said, skill issue - I’m a poly person, and I’m also a person that is so deeply in love with my partner. She is the sun and the moon and she makes my everyday brighter than I ever thought possible and I’m lowkey obsessed with her but I also feel that way about other partners when I have them
2025-10-28 18:44:41
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