@jigsawmars: male gaze the tism away #auadhd #actuallyautustic #neurodivergent

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maisiemoo063
maisiemoo063 :
hyperfixation on your looks as a form of survival ✅
2025-11-04 18:38:09
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matchaluvrr03
kitty :
literally Holly Madison
2025-11-04 02:27:39
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ltsholley
Holley :
If I look cute I can keep being me.
2025-11-09 23:38:03
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mcbrutalface
🦇🩸🧛🏻 𝕭𝖗𝖎 🪦🕷️🥀 :
Literally what my teens and early 20s consisted of doing and I hadn’t even been diagnosed at that point nor did I have any concept of what masking was 💀 I just knew that if I fawned and presented a certain type of hyper femininity people were less mean to me, and suddenly my “quirkiness” was considered cute instead of weird 😭
2025-11-06 03:19:26
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r3trostuff
Retro Stuff :
masking through beauty is such a hack
2025-11-03 12:51:03
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audreyelise6
Audrey🐸 :
I’m blonde and autistic and ended up just being hated by every girl I’ve tried to get along with bc they get insecure since I’m conventionally attractive and they realize I don’t pick up on the sly hateful remarks they make 🥲🥲
2025-11-03 14:52:42
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andnow_theweather
dog with knife :
the easiest autism hack I learned growing up was being physically appealing. People dont care if youre weird when you look conventionally attractive. masking becomes part of the 'attractive' get up, and honestly is easier to maintain when paired.
2025-11-03 05:04:38
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totaldramanerds
tibbles :
AND IT LWK WORKS💔
2025-11-04 13:33:58
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losoliel
thelosoliel :
The hotter I got and the meaner I got the more left alone I became. So now I’m obsessed with my looks and quick to go off on somebody 😭
2025-11-03 19:14:13
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wires4veins
vaude :
You met me at a very neurotypical-seeming time in my life
2025-11-04 21:43:17
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loeybuiskool
Loey Buiskool :
the better I look the less people notice I'm weird
2025-11-04 12:49:59
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cloudsandlemonade27
Clouds & Lemonade :
pretty privilege as an autistic was both a blessing & a curse
2025-11-03 23:19:49
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niatoks
nia chi :
My method has been discovered
2025-11-04 12:56:48
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sab.liviaswift
kj 🦝 :
literally holly madison
2025-11-04 17:13:00
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itslucydts
𝓛𝓾𝓬𝔂⚢ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :
As soon as I went back to blonde and dressing basic people stopped caring that I have scars 💀
2025-11-04 15:03:52
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bb911738
bb :
fr 10 years later i’m the prettiest girl in town but still can’t hold a normal conversation 😍😍
2025-11-02 17:30:18
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allyally012
Insomnia :
People found my unmasked self charming enough when I was skinny and wore clothes and did my hair according to what is conventionally attractive. I could get away with anything back then
2025-11-03 07:10:31
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ninaruud
Nina 🦋 :
I started getting fake lashes and it literally changed my life how people talk to me now 😭
2025-11-04 08:58:28
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gretakaterina
Greta :
Ppl laugh when I say I’m autistic they think I’m joking 😭
2025-11-04 21:26:11
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catdarlingdarling
CatDarlingDarling :
My mom was asking me why I was putting on make up and a cute outfit to go to the airport when I was 19 and I just responded “people are nicer to me when I look pretty and I’m worried about this flight getting cancelled and needing to rebook 🤷🏻‍♀️“ 😅
2025-11-04 13:57:06
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cuntz101
Cunt :
gotta love our dystopian society😍😍
2025-11-08 16:29:06
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mieggdedegg
Esther 🙃 :
Dude, Im 36, married, with a kid - that mask slips and life gets wayyy different.
2025-11-03 15:47:39
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xosheru
Your Name :
I call it my “costume”
2025-11-03 16:20:01
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caticablack
Catica Black :
I did the opposite and found real friends. I have three real friends and I’m 38. Idc what people think of me I double down on my neurodivergence.
2025-11-03 16:27:58
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user5181757954021
cher :
If I don’t look “homely” I’m better received…hate it
2025-11-03 14:56:15
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