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eddykainee :
This is such a great perspective! When someone’s actions are loud and clear, what would a conversation do besides hurt your feelings or give them a chance to manipulate you?
2025-12-07 03:49:55
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El__cassandree🇸🇱🇸🇱 :
No communication is communication
2025-12-06 21:14:57
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msarijay :
this is a great perspective, ive stopped doing this.
2025-12-09 18:47:54
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oatiex :
I’d actually argue that not communicating, ghosting, etc is ego as well. I mean it quite literally is. Communication opens the possibility of someone being vulnerable for feeling hurt and it’s threatening to a lot of people’s ego. So they just don’t communicate. I do think that no communication is communication. But I think that is at a very basic level of connection like first few months. If it’s within a year of someone dating or being friends with someone and they just ghost, it’s not emotional intelligence to not communicate. And it’s not ego if the other person wants clarity. Verbal communication is beautiful if both people are respectful of boundaries.
2025-12-09 18:43:09
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betty💋 :
as if “communication” is more important than their actions🤣🤣
2025-12-07 01:26:20
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user4738823883 :
I disagree, I think importance of verbal communication SHOULD be over emphasized in the era of ghosting. Ghosting is cowardly and it should not be glamorized. If you are seeing someone and you decide you no longer want to continue with the relationship, you DO owe that person an explanation. Plus it’s no one’s job to decipher what your actions or lack thereof mean.
2025-12-06 23:08:43
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Kris :
You can’t communicate with someone who makes it clear they don’t respect you.
2025-12-07 23:00:53
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universeprincesss :
this is why I just ghost. Never was an avoidant, just too good at reading the room and social queues
2025-12-07 00:03:15
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Nwamaka / YT • IG: itsnwamakan :
This is why learning social cues and reading the room is needed in your adolescence
2025-12-06 23:01:31
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Jazmyn W :
omg i agree! it's out of insecurity too
2025-12-07 06:40:11
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Addie B. :
While I do agree, nonverbal communication is often left up to perception. People are not always aware of what message their actions sent and that’s why verbal communication is preferred - because it’s clearer.
2025-12-08 09:56:53
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Datcooliegirl :
LIKE WHERE ARE YOUR CONTEXT CLUES!!!
2025-12-06 23:19:37
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nonameuser10138797 :
Communication = expression. A synonym. Not emotionally intelligent, not wise , not mature . Just expressive. Toddlers are expressive too btw
2025-12-06 22:53:52
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Waydaaa🤩 :
Communication opens the door for manipulation
2025-12-08 18:15:29
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tóta :
It’s a control tactic. As if forcing verbal communication will change the outcome
2025-12-07 09:03:41
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michelle :
meet people where they’re at, show up accordingly, and pivot as you need!
2025-12-07 09:40:52
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sexycoolgrl :
nooooo your inability to be able to be honest with not only other people but yourself about why you’re doing the things you’re doing like not being able to tell someone you don’t like them or what they did is not the other person’s burden. thinking you do not owe people communication is emotionally immature, ESPECIALLY when your actions don’t line up w your words. people DO lie which is why hiding behind the sentiment that i owe nobody communication allows cowardly people to push you out of their lives w no apology/accountability instead of admitting to how they were wrong. verbal communication IS important
2025-12-07 05:50:37
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CHANEL :
No. It's common decency. Not about ego.
2025-12-07 15:49:14
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adunkess :
I think there’s a better middle standpoint then both of these opposites
2025-12-07 01:39:36
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Cheese :
And on that note closure isn’t real and if it is you can’t rely on another person for it!!!
2025-12-06 22:19:25
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an overly woke individual :
!!! This is why I hate when people say “oh I just need closure” WHAT DO YOU NEED THEM TO TELL YOU THAT THEY HAVENT ALREADY SHOWN?!?!
2025-12-07 21:57:18
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KeytotheKay :
I always say this, live in your reality. Communication is not only verbal
2025-12-07 16:31:09
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bracababy :
This also goes both ways!!! My bf treats me wonderfully and shows me he cares about me/respects me in a million different ways. He’s just not a man of many words. I still get all up in my head about it and constantly want verbal reassurance from him that he loves/likes me and wants to be with me. It’s my damn ego. I’ve been meditating on this recently cause my ego makes me want to break up with him even though he is really wonderful. Anyways, just wanted to share that it does go both ways. I’ve experienced both ends of this spectrum.
2025-12-08 21:20:03
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foodie :
I don't agree. As someone who has had moments of anxiety and insecurity in my life who responded to even the slightest tone change and interpreted it as negative I need a conversation good or bad. I think making assumptions about why that person did what they did only fuels my overthinking and insecurities 😕. Also, if the relationship had to end due to my actions I want to know and do better.
2025-12-07 11:38:46
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diosa. :
I agree… when I get ghosted i just move on. I think also people tie it to their worth and it’s like… if someone ghosts you y’all are not aligned, and that’s okay. It doesn’t have to be that something’s wrong with you. Why on earth would I beg/chase a man to tell me on why he didn’t like me… like are we okay??? it’s too many people on this earth that would actually choose you why sit and ruminate on ghosting.
2025-12-07 03:33:01
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