Amanda Bouldin
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Thursday 06 May 2021 20:40:59 GMT
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Tara :
The whole “don’t talk to strangers” followed by “say hi to this stranger or it’s rude” dynamic is so confusing for kids, thank you for breaking that
2021-05-06 22:00:58
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Totesmagotes :
Yes! Validating how they feel!
2021-05-06 20:42:26
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Melissa Cartier :
As someone who struggled to set boundaries in my 20’s so I wouldn’t appear rude or upset others, I love this
2021-05-06 20:45:04
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Morgan Lempfert :
I work a children’s clothing store, so if I say hi and they seem shy, I always say “it’s okay, you don’t need to say hi to me, I’m a stranger” 🥰
2021-05-07 02:10:43
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Kayla :
Cant wait to start parenting like you when I have kids 🥰
2021-05-06 20:42:24
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Jemma Taylor :
Bold to assume guys actually ask to dance 😂
2021-05-07 01:06:43
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Grayson Bearden :
Wow. As a step dad to a shy 7 year old, this helped me so much!
2021-05-07 18:19:42
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Becca :
I’m a cashier. I say hi to kids and it makes ME uncomfortable when the parents keep telling them to say hi 😳
2021-05-07 00:21:57
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[this account is deleted] :
I love how you call then tiny humans it’s so cute 🥰
2021-05-06 20:44:00
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djddj :
my daughter says hi to everyone. my son hates people. I let her say hi and I just explain he's very shy
2021-05-06 20:58:38
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Liv Alexa 🏃🏾♀️ :
I loveeee parents like this! This is how you teach consent!
2021-05-07 15:24:58
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BUNNY 🐰 :
Meanwhile I can’t get my son to STOP saying hi to literally every person.
2021-05-12 02:07:35
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Kayla Sereno :
I always say to my kids “you can say hi if you feel comfortable.” If they don’t then I’ll reply for them in a polite way to the stranger.
2021-05-06 21:21:13
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Abby Armer :
heck ya! teaching the tiny queens that "no" can be a full sentence - consent is 🔑
2021-05-06 20:44:56
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Kaley Litzinger :
I’ve already decided my small humans will not be forced to hug or say hi to anyone.
2021-05-07 00:37:24
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Blossom :
Do you have Botox?
2021-05-10 16:30:48
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Elafross :
Hahahahaha because, you know, clubs are open again 😂😂😂
2021-05-07 00:30:59
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Zarah Taylor :
YES!!! this is something i struggle with now as an adult. i find it so hard to say no when i’m uncomfortable. i know it sounds dramatic but sometimes
2021-05-06 23:54:48
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babycakes_01012 :
i work in a store and i say hi to children who come in my lane - no expectation of them saying it back, i want them to know i’m and other employees
2021-05-06 21:38:42
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Ell :
I work in retail, and if I greet the tiny human with them? And that human is shy or doesn’t want to speak? I say “I’m a stranger and it’s okay”
2021-05-06 21:38:48
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Evelyn 🌟 :
Yet another awesome tip I need to write down ✍🏻
2021-05-06 21:03:03
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Ev :
Yes this amazing!! Can we normalize it’s not rude to say no
2021-05-06 20:44:00
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Summersunshine☀️ :
But is it just me I get aggravated when my toddler says hey to someone and they don’t even acknowledge her😅 I know double standard but my princess is
2021-05-07 00:43:47
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becca <3 :
I love this! a lot of young girls are taught early that they have to be polite to strangers which can actually be pretty harmful later on 🥺
2021-05-06 20:45:58
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Sadie :
Hi just checking in, when will you be putting a book out? :)
2021-05-08 17:37:13
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Bri :
Yes! I get major anxiety just feeling/thinking I should say hi to someone in the room but really not wanting to because I’m an introvert and really
2021-05-07 21:36:38
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mddesigns16 :
I love this!
2021-05-06 21:19:50
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karlee curtis :
this is so true even if they aren’t strangers! i’m a teacher and some days my kiddos have a rough time saying hi to the class - always a choice!!
2021-05-08 07:44:50
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mack_sterner :
OH MY GOSH. THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE NOW
2021-05-07 00:33:13
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Just Jully :
saving this for when i have kids
2021-05-07 02:34:04
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Marlene ⚡️ :
I agree!!! I started doing this with my little ones too! Not only with strangers but with family too. Growing up Latin you are force to hug a kiss
2021-05-08 02:52:53
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celeste :
I struggled a lot setting boundaries with people because of the way I was brought up. Been trying to find ways to teach my daughter so ty for this!
2021-05-06 21:46:11
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Ada_ :
I’m early!! Yay
2021-05-06 20:43:37
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probablyaileen :
Same! I usually ask if to want to say hi and if they don’t I just smile and say that’s ok. And move on. But explaining is a good idea.
2021-05-06 22:30:21
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Salma L. :
I love this! It’s always been so awkward when my parents made me do this, I’m glad parents are trying to teach choice!🥳🧡
2021-05-06 23:04:05
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Connie :
@jbbysxo @bottlecloudjacket__ @treefruitleaf @anidarlene
2021-05-18 09:56:28
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HashtagStacy :
Yes! I see myself as strong and in charge of myself but a few years ago I agreed to dance with someone at a wedding when I didn’t want to. I am still
2021-05-06 21:22:35
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Haley Ivers :
I love this!! Thanks for teaching this lesson 🥰
2021-05-10 04:35:32
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Adriana💛 :
This is great advice, I’m excited to use your advice when I finally have kids 🥰💕love you!
2021-05-06 20:42:48
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Shana :
@laurennicholefern send this to EVERYONE who hated on the Starbucks video 😂😂
2021-05-07 01:07:20
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alexis :
so smart
2021-05-07 04:35:00
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makenziebergeron :
YESSSSS
2021-05-06 20:42:44
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Elizabeth Dugan :
Yessss this is how we raise our baby
2021-05-07 16:04:29
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Madi :
Yes! I also like just waving back too 🥰
2021-05-06 20:44:55
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shakasarah :
@taylorlowrey I 👏🏽LOVE👏🏽 HER
2021-05-06 23:30:16
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Mae Harris :
@sofiedoyle1 @jemjar1234 good shit
2021-05-07 13:10:59
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crys :
Hmm, never thought of it like this @loopsmedina @jennydee24
2021-05-10 05:11:26
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