@positivelyalix: the #tumor is in the back of his scull, and he only has one lung. Surgery is not possible. He can’t walk stand, or garden. How do I bring him joy?
Alix McDonald
Region: US
Friday 11 June 2021 03:25:47 GMT
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The Cake Lady :
all my tips have already been said. much love to you and yours my dear.❤❤❤
2021-06-11 04:22:33
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✨️🌜Blue_eyed_lady🌛✨️ :
pot. sorry said it. but at this point it will help ease it a bit.
2021-06-11 11:18:30
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Nature Is Wicked :
You can do the things for him and he can supervise? Like, just show up with a bunch of plants?Sending love 🥰
2021-06-11 03:29:19
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Desrée :
take videos of him giving advise on his favorite things. gardening tips and tricks. favorite recipes...even if you know them
2021-06-11 03:33:59
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user7890069240646 :
just be you I'm sure that makes him happier than you know
2021-06-11 03:28:54
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Casey Piazza :
Be present in his sight. Let him see you, let him know he is leaving a significance in your life as his legacy.
2021-06-11 03:40:47
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Life at the Hamptons :
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. 🥺 I will pray for him. Maybe if he likes gardening snd can’t you could get him a small indoor herb garden.
2021-06-11 03:28:58
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Jen :
I’m real sorry about your dad! Can you guys on drives together? I bet spending time outside the house together would be nice! 💙
2021-06-11 03:29:49
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TiaLina🖤🤘 G7 :
...brownies....
2021-06-11 03:51:56
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Periboea H :
Bring him smells if he is stuck in side. Like a sprig of Rosemary, a bunch of lavender, a delicious rose.
2021-06-11 05:05:59
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🦇 :
Does he have any other hobbies? Indoor plants? Can we send him cards?
2021-06-11 07:40:00
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Cola Pop :
whatever his fave hobby is/was. make your new fave and let him teach and guide you. it will make you both happy ❤️
2021-06-11 04:09:22
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TheHairCuttress :
Gotta love Arkansas
2021-06-11 03:29:18
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𝓜𝓪𝔂𝓸𝓷𝓷𝓪𝓲𝓼𝓮 🎯 :
You can’t wait until life isn’t hard anymore, before you decide to be happy, much love and healing vibes coming y’all’s way ❤️
2021-06-11 03:29:04
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🖤🌟SassySatan🌟🖤 :
I'm so sorry to hear this. thoughts and good vibes ya'lls way. 💖✌🏻
2021-06-11 03:27:28
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Heck :
Ask him about his first car, first love, first time he figured out an adult joke.... listen to him. Enjoy, learn about him, giggle with him. ❤️🌈
2021-06-11 03:57:31
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Kamea Thompson :
If he likes to read, you can download axis360 to his phone or computer. I also wanted to say edibles, but ya'll so wholesome.
2021-06-11 10:23:26
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Britt :
I don’t know where you are, but if you’re near Pittsburgh maybe we can do something for him
2021-06-11 03:29:11
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Manda Panda :
My grandma just passed after an 11 month battle with her brain tumor. It was at the base of her skull and inoperable.
2021-06-11 03:44:43
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TiaLina🖤🤘 G7 :
ask his advice more often. you can't ask for much help from his with physical things, but emotional or mental help will make him feel useful. 🥰
2021-06-11 03:52:55
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Elizabeth :
It was so hard for me, but release your expectations. My dad lost his mental facilities from mesothelioma... no one warned me that could happen.
2021-06-11 16:51:40
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Snow :
Don't know about Joy, but from experience you can bring comfort with your presence. sending you lots of hugs.
2021-06-11 03:41:54
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Melinda Skye :
My dad has a rare cancer, I hear you, I am also dealing with the news the same way. Sending you love!
2021-06-11 03:28:55
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Melanie :
No tips but sending lots of love 💜💜💜
2021-06-11 03:36:50
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Hot Broccoli :
Is he able to tell you all the good life stories, and you write them down as he tells them? like writing a book together💜💜
2021-06-11 04:06:24
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Nova Blake. :
just give him love. that's all we can do.
2021-06-11 04:06:26
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Nik The Brat :
I went through similar last year with my dad. For as long as I was allowed, I visited him, brought him whatever food he wanted bc he hated the 1
2021-06-11 04:06:46
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✌️Deb :
if you make him happy be there, spend time, talk to him, share memories, cook? eat? look at home movies? if his memory is good, scrapbook with him?
2021-06-11 03:50:18
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alexandra :
When my mom was in the hospital, I just asked her to tell me stories about her life, about my life. Record them ♥️♥️♥️
2021-06-11 08:41:28
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Kimberly :
Would he like painting? He might not be able to garden but he could make a rock garden. He paints the rocks and you place and photograph for him.
2021-06-11 04:12:42
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Myah the Wonder Dog :
read to him. become educated on the plants he was good at taking care of. then get one or two yourself. ask him how to tend to it, etc
2021-06-11 04:13:42
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sydneylynn300 :
if he has a favorite walking spot or just any trail really, make a treasure hunt for the kids having them find the closest stuff to show grandpa...
2021-06-11 04:17:53
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Fringe(ish) :
When my dad began to have motor skill/mobility issues we’d take him on scenic drives with benches near the parking area and have coffee. Little things
2021-06-11 07:46:36
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nearaheart96 :
so idk if this is a good idea but it sounded good write a poem or story about you both or sing to him ? I'm sorry my idea isn't better
2021-06-11 03:28:29
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Marci :
just have your beautiful joy and positivity around him he probaly would like that more than ever🥰🥰prayers
2021-06-11 04:23:20
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Angel Calypso :
@katnboots138 🥰🥰
2021-06-11 05:41:28
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Amanda Wawrzyniak :
definitely ask him about ANYTHING you don't know about him. just little things that you'll think of when he's gone. luv n hugs
2021-06-11 04:40:54
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Amy Jo Kennedy Irby :
Sending love to y’all.
2021-06-11 16:35:52
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emilyanne :
My grandma fought her brain tumor for seven years, it was very hard for all of us. Sending you love and light! 🥰
2021-06-12 02:12:27
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Tanya Richardson :
Potted plants he can sit on the porch with. O have him record his family history orally
2021-06-11 05:20:09
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Jme Gee :
Maybe a sensory box for helping his motor skills. Worth a try 🤷🏻♀️👍🏼
2021-06-11 05:32:50
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Moon Child :
Surrounding you in love and all my strength 🥺
2021-06-11 05:36:21
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Ashley.Smilez 🍄🍃 :
My mother in law has 2 cancerous tumours in her brain and one in lung . Unfortunately they are inoperable, I feel your pain . 😞
2021-06-11 04:37:32
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Meaghanne Mack :
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad🥺
2021-06-11 05:42:21
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TRSF :
A raised planting bed he can sit at? Can he use his hands? I’m so sorry for both of you. 💞💞
2021-06-11 04:36:18
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alexis42069 :
TRY SEAMOSS GEL
2021-06-11 06:37:04
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amberw :
prayers for your father
2021-06-11 04:26:04
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Ches :
Praying
2021-06-11 04:20:11
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