@nickviall: If you don’t care about them, don’t care about their reaction to you not caring 🤔🎧 Ep 326 link in bio #breakup
Nick Viall
Region: US
Monday 11 October 2021 23:50:47 GMT
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🍄✨ :
Y'all.... IT TRULY IS ✨OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND✨ MAKE THAT MAN DISAPPEAR UNTIL HE IS NO LONGER RELEVANT!!!
2021-10-12 05:29:10
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.Just_living_life :
Should I remove his family too ?
2021-10-12 09:18:12
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ferdinandandmae :
There is no such thing as closure from another person, closure comes from within.
2021-10-12 00:51:16
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lmaooooatmen :
Nick is the older brother we all need
2021-10-12 00:36:13
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Tiffany TD :
Yes!!! They need to NOT EXIST until they don’t matter anymore.
2021-10-11 23:56:24
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Kristyn Marzilli :
✨Closer to indifference than being triggered✨ 🙌🏼
2021-10-12 00:41:49
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eldritcheyes :
this is EXTREMELY good advice. he's completely right. regardless of how it feels in the moment, it won't matter in the slightest when you're healed
2021-10-12 01:30:53
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allie :
For me, I figured out my ex does not deserve casual access to me. Social media made his perception stay a part of my life after he broke my heart.
2021-10-12 00:48:10
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Sabrina Burch :
Exactly!! I thought keeping him unblocked showed I didnt care but it actually gave him access to my life still and he didn’t deserve that. BLOCKED.
2021-10-12 03:05:49
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e_adelina_3 :
This is why I do NOT remain friends. Immediately take them off socials and part ways. Accept that it is going to hurt, and heal.
2021-10-18 17:09:27
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novababy :
i was indifferent when he came back, i followed through mirroring back indifference. but i was triggered anyway🥺
2021-10-12 13:55:45
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Boitumelo :
“Get closer to indifference than being triggered” 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I heard that! 🗣🗣🗣
2021-10-12 05:05:46
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Jess ✨ :
This was such a good episode and the part about not caring what the ex thinks was like a 💡 for me!
2021-10-12 00:52:17
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Kat :
No contact is the best
2021-10-12 02:19:51
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Alicia :
There is so much power in allowing people to be wrong about you. We don’t 👏🏻 care 👏🏻 what 👏🏻 he 👏🏻 thinks
2021-10-12 01:20:44
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Savannah! Dutton! :
Yesss! Say it louder Nick! 👏🏼
2021-10-11 23:54:30
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Barb :
Perfect sense. “Have the ability to feel indifference”
2021-10-12 04:35:21
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Livin4LA :
Enough w/competing with exes. Focus on healing and making changes that will lead to your happiness instead.
2021-10-12 01:23:03
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Mikey Barreneche :
Blocking is the best feature on a phone
2021-10-12 06:25:12
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Jessica Lyn :
My ex & I broke up after 11 years of being on &being off & I wish I found your videos sooner. I struggle every single day but these reminders help🙏🏻
2021-10-12 01:45:48
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Alyse :
Healing isn’t about winning a game against another person. 🤦♀️
2021-10-12 08:57:27
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SandyAndBella :
Really good advice.
2021-10-12 00:32:06
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NickyBe💫 :
So true! You have to see that person as nothing to do with you anymore & therefore nothing they think or do is relevant to your life (like a stranger)
2021-10-13 04:13:08
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Tik Toker :
I’m so glad I learned this lesson
2021-10-12 04:09:51
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user7308251627749 :
I SAY this, every time. Then he contacts me, and in pulled right back in 🥺🤦♀️
2021-10-12 00:40:02
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Esther Garcia :
Nick, seriously you’re advise is on point… we always care about what the other thinks while we are hurting ourselves more.
2021-10-12 05:32:35
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GardenChica :
Best background sound! Yes stability over yourself is better than worrying about what someone who left you. You take care of you!
2021-10-12 04:52:24
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meg_rae_ :
I used to say “I just don’t want him to win” after we broke up. My son’s father is actually the person that told me “he has to wake up and live a
2021-10-12 18:57:41
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Renee :
Texting and phones and social media have made everything so hard. Blocking is not mean. It’s survival for you and whatever new comes.
2021-10-12 10:46:53
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user7263065419188 :
Preach. I difference is better for you than hate. Hatred corrodes the container it’s carried in.
2021-10-12 10:40:44
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_baaanannie_ :
Yes!! I’m so sick of this power narrative!!
2021-10-12 00:27:26
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Heather :
I hope you’re a girl dad one day, you would kill it! 🙂
2021-10-12 00:37:32
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Linda :
It’s just moving on and living your life
2021-10-12 07:34:00
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Ashley Best :
How do you heal from a narcissist and physically abusive relationship? There’s such a strong trauma bond after 2.5 years together. I need help.
2021-11-03 07:23:03
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mia? :
i need you on speed dial to help me w this break up 🥲
2021-10-12 00:45:10
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karen :
Wow. I wish I came across this a long time ago but I’m happy I did 🙏🏻
2021-10-13 00:46:57
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GardeningIsLife :
I blocked him on everything. He’s a toxic narcasist
2021-10-12 00:20:33
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Tatumbaileyyxx :
@Kelsey.ann @jessiebrindle
2021-10-12 04:50:06
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Ctryka :
“We don’t care anymore” is something to continue to keep saying to yourself. It’s a journey.
2021-10-12 01:16:11
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Laura R :
@Stefeliza yes !!!! 🥰
2021-10-12 02:10:20
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ash :
spitting fax
2021-10-12 00:47:36
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Payal :
💯 I told him I cannot stay friends & blocked him on social media, stopped location sharing. You won’t have access to my life. It’s about MY healing.
2021-10-12 00:38:11
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emily :
yup this is so true. block even if it’s for a short time is just necessary to the healing process
2021-10-12 03:59:33
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user3370240037630 :
“We don’t care if we think he has power” I needed this! My ex husband continues to think he knows my life and who I am by writing me PR emails!
2021-10-12 15:26:58
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Allison Cleary :
This is potentially the best thing I’ve ever heard
2021-10-12 03:07:05
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pfef1022 :
You don't have to block, when they don't even try to talk to you 🥺
2021-10-12 02:40:49
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Roz Chambers :
My aunt taught me:
1. Military Silence
2. Never give him the satisfaction of knowing you cared
3. Don't look back
2021-11-09 05:13:44
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Beans :
Nick has had ENOUGH
2021-10-17 18:20:27
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