@nickviall: If you don’t care about them, don’t care about their reaction to you not caring 🤔🎧 Ep 326 link in bio #breakup

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_avw212
🍄✨ :
Y'all.... IT TRULY IS ✨OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND✨ MAKE THAT MAN DISAPPEAR UNTIL HE IS NO LONGER RELEVANT!!!
2021-10-12 05:29:10
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.just_living_life
.Just_living_life :
Should I remove his family too ?
2021-10-12 09:18:12
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ferdinandandmae
ferdinandandmae :
There is no such thing as closure from another person, closure comes from within.
2021-10-12 00:51:16
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lmaooooatmen
lmaooooatmen :
Nick is the older brother we all need
2021-10-12 00:36:13
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tiffanytd6
Tiffany TD :
Yes!!! They need to NOT EXIST until they don’t matter anymore.
2021-10-11 23:56:24
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k.marzzz
Kristyn Marzilli :
✨Closer to indifference than being triggered✨ 🙌🏼
2021-10-12 00:41:49
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eldritcheyes
eldritcheyes :
this is EXTREMELY good advice. he's completely right. regardless of how it feels in the moment, it won't matter in the slightest when you're healed
2021-10-12 01:30:53
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allisonoftroy
allie :
For me, I figured out my ex does not deserve casual access to me. Social media made his perception stay a part of my life after he broke my heart.
2021-10-12 00:48:10
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sabrinaburch
Sabrina Burch :
Exactly!! I thought keeping him unblocked showed I didnt care but it actually gave him access to my life still and he didn’t deserve that. BLOCKED.
2021-10-12 03:05:49
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e_adelina_3
e_adelina_3 :
This is why I do NOT remain friends. Immediately take them off socials and part ways. Accept that it is going to hurt, and heal.
2021-10-18 17:09:27
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aqua.nymphe
novababy :
i was indifferent when he came back, i followed through mirroring back indifference. but i was triggered anyway🥺
2021-10-12 13:55:45
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boitumelo_myza
Boitumelo :
“Get closer to indifference than being triggered” 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I heard that! 🗣🗣🗣
2021-10-12 05:05:46
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psj_designer
Jess ✨ :
This was such a good episode and the part about not caring what the ex thinks was like a 💡 for me!
2021-10-12 00:52:17
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katebn
Kat :
No contact is the best
2021-10-12 02:19:51
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howdoyoupronouncealicia
Alicia :
There is so much power in allowing people to be wrong about you. We don’t 👏🏻 care 👏🏻 what 👏🏻 he 👏🏻 thinks
2021-10-12 01:20:44
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savannnaahh__
Savannah! Dutton! :
Yesss! Say it louder Nick! 👏🏼
2021-10-11 23:54:30
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barborbarbie
Barb :
Perfect sense. “Have the ability to feel indifference”
2021-10-12 04:35:21
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livin4la
Livin4LA :
Enough w/competing with exes. Focus on healing and making changes that will lead to your happiness instead.
2021-10-12 01:23:03
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mikeybarreneche
Mikey Barreneche :
Blocking is the best feature on a phone
2021-10-12 06:25:12
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jessicalyn125
Jessica Lyn :
My ex & I broke up after 11 years of being on &being off & I wish I found your videos sooner. I struggle every single day but these reminders help🙏🏻
2021-10-12 01:45:48
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alyse_ak
Alyse :
Healing isn’t about winning a game against another person. 🤦‍♀️
2021-10-12 08:57:27
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sandyandbella11
SandyAndBella :
Really good advice.
2021-10-12 00:32:06
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nickybe.com
NickyBe💫 :
So true! You have to see that person as nothing to do with you anymore & therefore nothing they think or do is relevant to your life (like a stranger)
2021-10-13 04:13:08
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grayski3s
Tik Toker :
I’m so glad I learned this lesson
2021-10-12 04:09:51
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jamief121
user7308251627749 :
I SAY this, every time. Then he contacts me, and in pulled right back in 🥺🤦‍♀️
2021-10-12 00:40:02
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tesha83megm
Esther Garcia :
Nick, seriously you’re advise is on point… we always care about what the other thinks while we are hurting ourselves more.
2021-10-12 05:32:35
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garden_chica
GardenChica :
Best background sound! Yes stability over yourself is better than worrying about what someone who left you. You take care of you!
2021-10-12 04:52:24
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maegan_rae
meg_rae_ :
I used to say “I just don’t want him to win” after we broke up. My son’s father is actually the person that told me “he has to wake up and live a
2021-10-12 18:57:41
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restart470
Renee :
Texting and phones and social media have made everything so hard. Blocking is not mean. It’s survival for you and whatever new comes.
2021-10-12 10:46:53
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walkingonsunshine686
user7263065419188 :
Preach. I difference is better for you than hate. Hatred corrodes the container it’s carried in.
2021-10-12 10:40:44
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annies_plumerias
_baaanannie_ :
Yes!! I’m so sick of this power narrative!!
2021-10-12 00:27:26
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hrogers1288
Heather :
I hope you’re a girl dad one day, you would kill it! 🙂
2021-10-12 00:37:32
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linda_thegoodwitch
Linda :
It’s just moving on and living your life
2021-10-12 07:34:00
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ashleybest01
Ashley Best :
How do you heal from a narcissist and physically abusive relationship? There’s such a strong trauma bond after 2.5 years together. I need help.
2021-11-03 07:23:03
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flaminghotlayspotatochip
mia? :
i need you on speed dial to help me w this break up 🥲
2021-10-12 00:45:10
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leyva.karen
karen :
Wow. I wish I came across this a long time ago but I’m happy I did 🙏🏻
2021-10-13 00:46:57
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gardeningislife23
GardeningIsLife :
I blocked him on everything. He’s a toxic narcasist
2021-10-12 00:20:33
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tatumbaileyyxx
Tatumbaileyyxx :
@Kelsey.ann @jessiebrindle
2021-10-12 04:50:06
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ctryka
Ctryka :
“We don’t care anymore” is something to continue to keep saying to yourself. It’s a journey.
2021-10-12 01:16:11
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ljreber
Laura R :
@Stefeliza yes !!!! 🥰
2021-10-12 02:10:20
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ashh0123
ash :
spitting fax
2021-10-12 00:47:36
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xpayalx10
Payal :
💯 I told him I cannot stay friends & blocked him on social media, stopped location sharing. You won’t have access to my life. It’s about MY healing.
2021-10-12 00:38:11
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emilybanaitis
emily :
yup this is so true. block even if it’s for a short time is just necessary to the healing process
2021-10-12 03:59:33
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dblackw6b
user3370240037630 :
“We don’t care if we think he has power” I needed this! My ex husband continues to think he knows my life and who I am by writing me PR emails!
2021-10-12 15:26:58
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allisonclearyy
Allison Cleary :
This is potentially the best thing I’ve ever heard
2021-10-12 03:07:05
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oxxthemisxxo
pfef1022 :
You don't have to block, when they don't even try to talk to you 🥺
2021-10-12 02:40:49
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mzroztherealtor
Roz Chambers :
My aunt taught me: 1. Military Silence 2. Never give him the satisfaction of knowing you cared 3. Don't look back
2021-11-09 05:13:44
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thesleepybeans
Beans :
Nick has had ENOUGH
2021-10-17 18:20:27
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