@domesticblisters: Reply to @kelsey_webb09 Your therapist may have ideas but most importantly they can help you develop self compassion #strugglecare

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trisha7832
Trisha :
@grandpawobe
2025-07-16 11:13:48
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trisha7832
Trisha :
thank you grandpa wobe for saving my broken marriage home, my husband left me for a mistress, but now he is back to me for good, all thanks grandpa 😍🙏@grandpawobe
2025-07-16 11:13:45
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mustafa.family150
Youssef family🍉🙏 :
Hello, sorry for commenting here. I beg you to help me save my children and family from Gaza. Please help with my resume. 🥹🥹🙏
2025-06-03 05:42:39
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dorklyboheme
Mama Yaga :
Today I scrubbed my bthrm and as I was running out of energy I repeated “it doesn’t have to be perfect. I just want it cleaner” and that is from you🥰
2022-01-14 22:40:32
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adhdjaci
J formerly MLMsurvivor :
Struggling with this because we just hired a biweekly cleaning company and I feel ashamed that I need this help.
2022-01-14 23:19:29
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soph_weav
Sophia :
I just finished your book and literally sobbed because it saw me and loved me
2022-01-14 22:32:23
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that_genx_chick
That GenX Chick :
I recently bought a robot vacuum because I realized owning one was morally neutral. It is a pleasure to own.
2022-01-15 01:05:14
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teezypie
Teezy 🇨🇦 (🇱🇻+🇯🇵) :
The space I’m freeing up in my mind with learning moral neutrality care & body neutrality is astounding! Thank you for your work! ❤️
2022-01-14 22:22:42
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xtina132
Kristina Mabry :
Listen. I took this an applied it my life, not just my home and I have so much peace. & I’m more successful
2022-01-14 22:31:00
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cozycornerhygge
Emily Emily :
I think I avoid sweeping sometimes because I do all of the nooks and crannies and it takes forever. I could just do the more useful parts more often!
2022-01-15 00:59:25
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justcallmeshannon
JustCallMeShannon :
I don’t know why, but all of a sudde
2022-01-15 04:35:53
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remslaughter
Stop Trans Genocide (Goose) :
whenever I want a sammich gut don't wanna make it I just eat all the part separately as I see fit
2022-01-14 22:40:40
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grizlatron
Ilse Lindberg :
I don't like to do dishes when I can see too many dishes, I will literally hide them from myself and do one sink worth at a time
2022-01-14 23:01:48
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mathwlikespictures
Matthew :
Self-kindness is a better motivator than shame yes it is!
2022-01-14 22:35:08
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sorapikafox
Sora Pika Fox :
thinking of things as functional has helped me so much, and cleaning feels less overwhelming
2022-01-14 22:32:13
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allisons834
A :
my strategy for coming up with workarounds is to ask my friends and offer them mine. Creativity is multiplicative
2022-01-14 23:29:33
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triciaokeane
Tricia O'Keane :
the other night I made a mantra "I give myself permission to do that later". so I would bring folded towels into the bathroom closet, but not sort
2022-01-14 22:37:49
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coffeeandcrossstitch
Coffee and Cross Stitch :
This whole morally neutral thing has blown my mind and I love it!
2022-01-14 22:55:01
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anamarie.kinderworld
Anamarie :
Are you planning on getting your book translated in other languages? I’d love for my mom to read or listen to it, but her english is bad :(
2022-01-15 15:04:47
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anxious_muggle
America :
I mop my floors like 3x a year. When it gets annoying, I spot mop.
2022-01-15 01:17:57
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garden_goth
garden_goth :
somehow the idea that self care tasks should be for caring for yourself and not making yourself measure up is blowing my mind rn
2022-01-15 02:53:29
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i.get.migraines
Angela :
You are one of my favorite creators on here. I tell my therapist about you. 🥰
2022-01-15 02:44:35
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thestayathomecommie
Liz :
This is so big for me. I appreciate you more than I can say.
2022-01-14 22:33:57
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inexorableexistance
Inexorable :
Indoor flip flops 😂
2022-01-15 09:50:43
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t.knee10.22
t.knee :
I don’t know how to move away from the moral aspect. A lifetime of feeling like a complete failure is hard to release.
2022-01-14 22:49:43
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cas.user
Cas🇵🇸 :
And if you can’t do that, wear some slippers and go on about your day! It’s not a big deal 🥰🥰
2022-01-14 22:42:43
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karcar1014
karcar1014 :
Mopping floors is one of my biggest struggles. I always feel like I have to do the entire house at once and get exhausted just thinking about it 😞
2022-01-15 12:58:53
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roowoo63
Woo :
My antidepressants were increased, and I was given diazepam just before Christmas because I was suicidal. Your book has really helped me.
2022-01-26 05:43:02
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sodaraccoon
mcds soda :
ty ❤️
2022-01-15 19:57:23
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chigu86
Christina :
Btw thank you for what you do, there has been a measurable difference in my mental health since discovering you on Tik Tok 😌
2022-01-14 22:12:10
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poetrynprose
Shae Dee :
We went from one laundry basket to 8 when I accepted laundry should be functional, not moral
2022-01-15 11:35:12
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empresskittylove
Empress Kitty Love :
I’m in a conspiracy with my father in law to keep my mother in law w/OCD away from my house. ❤️
2022-01-15 10:21:32
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genevieve.victoria
Genevieve :
Function vs. obligation is helpful for aûtistic minds too! 🥰
2022-01-15 10:18:59
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ofcourseidid
OfcourseIdid :
I am a therapist, I am writing this on my whiteboard right now.
2022-01-14 22:38:42
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heatherandrew3
HeatherWA :
This has been a game changer for me
2022-01-15 10:05:06
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jackilee_turtlemama
Jackiilee :
my favorite way to explain to the kids. I dont care if you have stuff on your floors just make sure there's a path from your bed to the door
2022-01-14 22:23:32
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lisaj.p.art_moonmaiden
Lisa J P :
because of my bad back, knees ankles, & ADHD housework often gets neglected unless there's an immediate need for clean. except I can't cook until 🦋
2022-01-15 06:34:34
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jess_everafter
Jess C :
Thanks to you I’m learning to think of things as “morally neutral” - it so liberating!
2022-01-15 05:23:47
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3kindsofcrazy
Nic :
but then i just push everything into a corner and it becomes a doom pile😂
2022-01-15 03:40:23
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valardaughter
Valardaughter :
I have carpet and a horrible dust allergy. But vacuuming is the WORST. There’s so many steps just to get to the vacuuming part and then the NOISE
2022-01-15 03:35:56
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serendipped
K :
you have changed my life
2022-01-15 03:02:26
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crftgrl
crftgrl :
I haven’t created anything except a few items ppl asked for because of this since March 2020
2022-01-14 22:40:47
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geisha.runner
geisha.runner 🇺🇸🗑️🔥 :
I can't wait for the audiobook to come out!!!
2022-01-15 02:57:12
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girlknowsdata
Katie :
I'm working to be appreciative of my dirty floors, I have floors and there is dirt from us enjoying our home. really hard, but trying to not let my
2022-01-15 02:51:01
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binks.333
Binks :
My therapist said, try and just give yourself 1 task to finish. If you feel up to doing more that’s okay but say you’re going to do 1 sink full of —
2022-01-15 02:48:20
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k.spider09
kelsey_w :
Thank you! This is so helpful! And for sure that negative self talk when I can’t keep the house clean is the top of my list for my therapist!
2022-01-15 02:38:47
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saliamarie1243
🧚🏽‍♀️Spirit Guide Whisperer :
Yes looking at the functionality of these tasks helps to remove that shame and motivates me to do it 🤗
2022-01-14 22:42:21
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