@elizabreaksthecycle: Reply to @mikahsmomma When I don't succeed in staying calm, the goal is to return to my "thinking brain" as quickly as I can and turn my attention to validating their feelings & making things right. Bonus if I succeed in not hating myself for the next 3 days. 🥺🫂❤️#CycleBreaker #IntergenerationalTrauma #StopHittingYourKids #ConnectionBeforeCorrection #ResponsiveParenting #AttachmentParenting #ConsciousParenting #RespectfulParenting #PeacefulParenting #GentleParenting

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jayde_alexis01
🇵🇸🇺🇸🇵🇸Jayde🇵🇸🇺🇸🇵🇸 :
He’s going to remember you apologizing more than the incident itself 🥺🥺🥺 great job momma
2022-04-09 10:57:21
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wohyfb
wohyfb :
And now he’s successfully gone to the victim making you forget that he just did a bad thing
2022-04-09 12:13:47
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jepawsbo
Sika 🇨🇦 :
💙 thank you for sharing.
2022-05-03 03:38:19
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nicoleannindy
NicoleAnn :
Thank you for sharing. We’re not perfect but it’s up to us to reconnect with our children and apologize for our actions. ♥️
2022-05-03 01:39:18
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darlinndallie
Allie D :
Why is mom sorry? He did something wrong it won’t happen again. We all deserve kindness but what was kind about him throwing that? Now everytime he thinks all I’ll be upset & she will be sorry cause I did something wrong and get away with it. He even tried to be how he should have & say sorry and you didn’t let him cut him off so you could be sorry. You didn’t whoop him what did you do wrong? I saw what he did and if you didn’t do anything played nice now him & the rest no they can do it all she is gonna do is “talk” to us.
2025-10-13 12:12:47
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bzawistowski
B. Zawistowski 🥀 :
This is so raw and honest. I hope the comments stay kind. Parents are also growing as our children are growing
2022-04-09 11:00:14
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theo.deal5
Theo Deal :
this made me wanna cry
2025-09-23 07:24:44
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djshelleyd
dj shelley :
he wasn't going to have a meltdown untill mom's guilt kicked in...I do not agree with this. parents are suppose to be firm and show right from wrong! her reaction was not going to ruin his life!
2025-04-29 16:31:01
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tacymaycouchman
tacymaycouchman :
We’ve all been there. We’ve all felt absolutely helpless, broken and terribly for our behavior. You handled this beautifully. Love is all that matters in this life. You are doing great! God bless you and your precious family❤️
2025-08-31 19:40:39
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lizguerrero773
Liz/creations :
This is something I needed to see cuz the few times I do yell at my daughter when I see her start crying I feel so bad and apologize and giver hugs to make sure she knows I’m sorry and I love her. But the guilt eats me up inside. ❤️❤️
2025-09-02 14:43:51
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caseylee_16
Casey Hoffman :
Breaking the cycle is HARD. You are doing an amazing job and these moments are educational for us all. Thank you so much for being willing to share
2022-04-09 07:30:19
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marissvxo
𝑀𝒶𝓇𝒾𝓈𝓈𝒶 ✝️ :
Where was the discipline though? He knew better than to throw a cup of water right ?
2022-04-10 08:45:40
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justbre_ezzy
justblorena :
Serious question! How do we also teach them to not use their tears as exaggeration once they fully understand it changes our reaction ?
2022-04-13 11:32:54
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keith.irizarry.ta
Keith Irizarry Taco Bell vs we :
Boy Wants Taco Bell
2025-08-27 00:19:13
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crazy.4judy
♠️🃏Judy🃏♦️ :
your such a good mom.
2025-10-02 03:40:24
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icee._.pawz
icee._.pawz :
I literally get yelled at like that all the time . Even when I was young. He needs to learn not to be so sensitive
2025-08-24 07:05:41
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little_t3acupp
ིྀ∘✰teacuppp❀˚✧ :
See mom, was it that hard?
2025-09-06 07:36:20
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mariinaka
Miia | 🪼🪸 :
it's so hard. I'm in tears of guilt rn. my girl is only 13 months old & I already yelled at her so many times. just as my mom did everyday 😥
2022-04-09 13:21:25
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angel_love2174
👻🌑🕷️Angel 🐾🧋👾 :
I wishers my Mom was like that.
2025-06-25 03:46:03
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danideeann
DeeDee :
I love the phrase “you deserve kindness”. Will definitely be using that!
2022-04-09 17:35:00
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mkthepa
MK Lunce :
could you model the response you wish you would've had initially without yelling?
2022-04-11 23:02:40
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learnwithcharz
LearnwithCharz :
Thank you for sharing! It’s important to have an example like this. People are not perfect. Gentle parenting is not easy.
2022-04-12 02:54:49
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shannleigh112233
shannleigh112233 :
She starts apologizing because at that moment, her yelling at him was more harmful than him throwing the water.
2022-04-25 18:42:07
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blundersoups
Blundersoup :
this isn’t abuse this is accountability, you made a mistake and instead of doubling down u corrected it. thats what a good parent does 👍
2025-08-09 17:23:28
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