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PandaStpmp :
no, she made it very obvious that she did not want contact with him until she needed something. It could be very damaging mentally for him.
2022-04-29 15:18:38
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jengancsu :
I don’t know. He is still referring to her as his daughter soooo….
2022-04-29 15:13:12
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Lexxus :
I think he could have used it as a chance to salvage the relationship. She probably was SO confused/had some misplaced resentment
2022-04-29 16:06:03
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Nia :
She didn't even APOLOGIZE tho
2022-04-29 15:22:27
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Pepper23 :
Nah he’s right
2022-04-29 15:14:05
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Jess Tinley :
I think he should sit down and have a convo with her. 20 is young, and I can't imagine being that age and navigating that situation from her side
2022-04-29 15:30:14
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Hand Crafted :
He set a solid boundary when an adult disrespected him and everything he did do for her growing up. She went years w/o speaking and
2022-04-29 15:31:09
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Mad :
I don't think so. I mean, yeah he still calls her his daughter, but its probably lack of a better term. he's not obligated to do what she's asking.
2022-04-29 16:20:23
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Rousey :
This sorry is complex to me because this writer is talking from their pov and I want to know what’s going on with the daughter.
2022-04-29 15:24:57
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Netters17 :
He definitely handled it poorly when she was a teenager and into early adulthood but at this point she is fully an adult and she should have repaired
2022-04-29 15:26:58
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💗💞 :
I don’t get why she’s blaming him for something her mom did. Mom was the one who made this all come to fruition.
2022-04-29 15:44:51
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Patricia Cardinal :
The update to this was very satisfying. I'm glad he took care of his peace.
2022-04-29 15:34:50
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sunflower22195 :
Nah…. She is.
2022-04-29 15:22:28
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Audrey Troupe :
Update goes on to say that he had a conversation and she admitted that she only asked because her dad was dead and had he not died she wouldn’t have
2022-05-03 09:26:15
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sassysillylilly :
nah. he isn't thats sad
2022-04-29 15:30:00
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Rogier Kr :
NTA, she didn't apologize or anything. She's just using him because her real dad died
2022-04-29 20:23:16
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Christi :
Imagine raising & loving a child, & they only reach out to you as a 2nd option 💔
2022-04-29 15:56:53
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PZ :
@Dusty Thunder
2024-09-26 01:15:45
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Julie :
He is her 2nd choice. Imagine how much that hurts him. His feelings are valid in this & he is nta. Her mother is 😏
2022-04-29 15:25:08
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Pondie :
She was 20, a full adult, when she said he wasn't her real dad and wanted nothing to do with him. He's NTA b/c he listened to her.
2022-04-29 15:25:26
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Bobbie Jo :
I think they should sit down and talk, maybe include a family therapist.
2022-04-29 15:20:08
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Lee coco shanel :
The issues wasn't that she wanted to know her father it's how she went about it. people have feelings..even parents
2022-04-29 15:35:01
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🇨🇦 ShadowHorizon 🇨🇦 :
NTA because when he said no she didn’t say she wanted him in her life again, just that he was ruining HER day. It was making it all her, not their…
2022-04-29 22:01:42
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Nikki :
NTA. She made their relationship what it is and now has to live with that.
2022-04-29 15:33:53
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Midnight-Ostara💫 :
NTA. She made it obviously clear she didn't want anything to do with him. She only reached out because she needed something from Op.
2022-04-29 18:29:27
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Wall-e :
no not the ah. she left the relationship behind. can't come back just because it's now convenient
2022-04-29 15:23:41
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MamabearNC :
Hold up!! Her bio dad died in 2019, she gets engaged and all of a sudden needs a dad. Where has she been???
2022-04-29 15:17:37
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Esmeralda R. Escaler :
This one has been done before by @Two Hot Takes
2022-04-29 15:23:42
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Earth_Empress_ :
This is a hard situation, but if what he says is true about he’s reaching out and her not talking (my dad lies about our relationship) then he’s NTA
2022-04-29 15:24:58
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Jay🇨🇦 :
not sure if anyone wants an update, but OP and the daughter are trying to reconcile
2022-04-29 17:19:13
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Coraline💙🥴 :
Honestly I don’t feel like he’s in the wrong, she made it very clear abt what she was thinkin/feelin he has to protect his mental/emotional health aw
2022-04-29 15:35:37
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Michelle Heegaard :
the fact that she said "you're not my real dad" is one thing. but she has up until this point seemingly not shown interest in him whatsoever. tbc
2022-04-30 04:51:09
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Georgia Baronio :
complicado, ele está certo em respeitar os próprios sentimentos pois deve ter sido muito difícil lidar com esse afastamento. mas no futuro
2022-05-01 13:51:59
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Jennyfer Rivera Rios :
NTA. She chose to not have him as part of her life. It wasn't a tantrum or anything like that. She made a conscious decision to alienate him from her.
2022-04-29 15:38:37
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Ames :
NTA - She made it clear she didn’t see him as her father. So she needs to live with her choice
2022-04-29 15:31:58
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UT Kindness :
Boundaries - he’s keeping his for his mental health. I support his decision
2022-04-29 15:26:58
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TrickSorcery :
The daughter cut him off then wants him back when she needs something 😒 she’s the AH. She didn’t even apologize.
2022-04-29 15:24:32
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mo :
they would need to have a long talk before he could even consider to agree. no love should be unconditional
2022-04-29 15:30:16
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katttoks :
Kinda. Try not to judge ‘your’ kid permanently from their actions in the 15-25 year old ages
2022-05-01 00:12:31
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lapinchemari :
no, no, no, no, no. its the man that raises you who is your father.
2022-04-29 15:22:07
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Jacqueline Swan :
I think only people with experience of estrangement should be qualified to answer this. I think your actions are valid. Don’t be part of the wedding.
2022-04-29 17:56:11
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PattSche :
If she only wants a "dad" for having a perfect wedding, which seems to be THE reason as everyone is blaming him for ruining it, then that's very sad
2022-04-29 18:16:19
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AlexThe1&Only💀🔪😈 :
No
2022-04-29 15:30:23
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changing_case🍄🟫🌿 :
NTA
2022-04-29 15:26:37
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Kingjess :
How entitled, she was old enough to say thicker things then choose to not Siena to him anymore. Now suddenly 🙄🙄
2022-04-29 15:25:56
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Kattlord501 :
Nope I don’t think so.
2022-04-29 15:33:38
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George Sable :
so he was depressed and didnt recognize agknowledge it with her dépression. instead He said go to work.. he's the Ah, a marriage is Not a lecture time
2022-04-29 15:30:14
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HannahBumbleBee :
Her "real dad" who hoed with her mom and didn't take responsibility...gurl
2022-04-29 23:47:12
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