@melakayleen: #stitch with @therealdcmadeluther Kindness is an actual character trait. Niceness is a façade. It is literally something you do to win ppl over. Get a personality and focus on being *kind, not *nice. #fyp #foryoupage #culture

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brittanysinterlude
Brittany’s Interlude :
It never feels authentic.
2022-08-11 05:49:32
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baldblonde
Tam 💙 :
Ion know a nice man that isn’t manipulative
2022-08-11 15:46:34
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amazonluva
luva :
men have said I'm too nice. I think when you've been hurt u mistake kindness for niceness n wait for the other shoe to drop
2022-08-11 11:40:54
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kennileee
Kenni Lee | Lifestyle :
prime ex: I dated a guy, he was over the top nice to me & every1. I was drawn in quick! But the moment he didn’t get what he wanted, turned ice cold
2022-08-11 10:08:36
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joe.2coldd
Joe.2coldd :
Fellas, just focus on yourselves. It ain’t worth it anymore. #FreeGame
2022-08-11 11:26:53
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xv.jace1
xv.jace1 :
Anytime someone calls their self “nice” or brags about how “sweet” they are🚩🚩🚩🚩
2022-08-11 20:33:29
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princessberry.19
🌏🆘️🇺🇸 :
literally them "nice guys" aren't so nice once they in the relationship with you
2022-08-11 11:38:45
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michaellerma6
Michael Phillips :
That kind of Nice = ppl pleaser
2022-08-11 10:54:01
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missambiguous809
Brianna :
I dated a older man who was “nice” but after not getting what he wanted he turned into a very mean person.
2022-08-11 11:26:08
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naniamour_
Naniamour 💋 :
ATE !!! Cleared the plate!!
2022-08-11 07:19:59
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_geeech
ogechi :) :
bruh. I be trying to explain to ppl always claiming “they’re nice” nice is performative….so you’re an actor.
2022-08-11 11:22:57
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melakayleen
Mela Kayleen :
Me: I’m not speaking for everybody. Y’all: YOURE TRAUMATIZED. ????? Why are y’all arguing here. Just keep scrolling.
2022-08-13 03:02:10
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laffinghyena
LaffingHyena :
I feel like every time this topic comes up, it just becomes a semantics issue. It's just an argument over what guys think it means vs what girls think
2022-08-11 08:37:42
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dtjvad34
BarryIs :
This!! People doing the “right things” to be perceived as nice or get what they want outta others and rather than being genuine and intentional
2022-08-11 11:37:58
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bykianadenae
Kiana Denae :
Oh you ate that up
2022-08-11 08:25:09
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thor1001a
Anthony Boganey :
Some are manipulative. Some are genuine. The challenge is making the determination. That is done through seeing consistency over time.
2022-08-12 14:04:10
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manestyleblog
Asia 💞 | Mane Style Blog :
So true. I had to learn to be kind myself vs being nice.
2022-08-11 13:36:44
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latanae
LaTanae :
Yess!! Nice = manipulation!!! Kindness comes from Love(self love). I keep saying this, I stopped being nice a long time ago, I wasn’t being genuine.
2022-08-11 12:50:10
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busyabreeze2
RICHDOTCOM :
Thank you
2022-08-11 13:52:03
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butterqueen6619
Butterqueen6619 :
why yall posen as my mama
2024-08-13 19:25:11
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nosorryparts1
sharkythevampire :
you worded this perfectly!
2022-08-11 06:51:15
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deejay404
DeeJay404 :
definitely agree. being kind is genuine but being nice is coercion...in a sense.
2022-08-11 06:55:49
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babyb0697
babyb0697 :
And they usually too friendly too nice to me her and her and her
2022-08-11 11:37:42
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emeraldbluee
Emerald :
Too nice is usually people pleasing
2022-08-11 14:46:10
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ebonez89
Ross the boss :
Exactly!!!
2022-08-11 05:54:20
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s.adxe
Addie :
too much of anything can be a bad thing
2022-08-11 16:34:01
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notreallyhere156
notreallyhere :
"nice" people usually turn nasty the second they don't get their way or what they expected. Which is why I stay away from them.
2022-08-11 16:26:29
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miriamyohannes
Miriam Yohannes :
Perfectly articulated.
2022-08-11 08:19:45
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llow_891
LoLo 🦋 :
I keep saying this! This new guy has been toooooo nice and I don’t trust it. I see no flaws and it bothers me
2022-08-11 11:02:03
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sashamgo
sash :
manipulative, yup.
2022-08-11 17:02:19
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blesshutchersonsworld
BLESS :
Perfectly said
2022-08-11 13:23:26
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minyarn
minyarn :
how I feel talking to yt ppl
2022-08-11 16:09:34
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heyimbrooke_c
Brooke 🦋 | SAHM 🎀 :
no this is absolutely so true. People ACT nice until something doesn’t go there way and then those true colors come right on out! smh
2022-08-11 17:34:18
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girl.named.eisha
Girl.Named.Eisha :
Exactly!!!!!! Like bro what is your Intentions
2022-08-11 09:51:55
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_ashleyk78
Ashley :
The thing is those “nice” men ALWAYS end up exposing themselves as soon as something doesn’t fo their way loll
2022-08-11 07:02:04
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kamilecimone8
kamilecimone8 :
And on that I had to follow. 😁 Well explained.
2022-08-11 10:09:45
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mahoganyrenea
Mahogany :
That’s why i stay away from “nice” guys
2022-08-11 11:02:33
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justnene_2
Keyahfa :
This‼️
2022-08-11 06:46:51
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taylorjer216
Jeremy Taylor8043 :
Lol say those things instead of saying to nice
2022-08-11 11:46:44
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braamcracker
Braaam :
Basically if your overly nice i feel like your doing to much to get me to like you
2022-08-11 13:22:31
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peter.tok_
Velvet BlissQ :
“They think they are owed something because they are nice” YUP! THATS THE ONE GIRLY!!!
2022-08-11 16:04:35
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asantebnni6
Asante Bunny :
THISSSS
2022-08-11 08:33:54
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taurus.doll
Taurus.Doll :
Being too nice could be avoiding conflict at all cost, being a pushover & not speaking up for himself. Not attractive.
2022-08-11 08:28:50
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danilmao
dani :
cassie and maddy are a very good example of nice vs kindness
2022-08-11 18:27:30
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beebeethadon
B🐝🐝 :
Yep. Very agreeable and nice. Always saying “I’m a nice guy”and as soon as I let my guard down the real him came out
2022-08-11 16:13:48
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filmnoirgyalll
💚 :
Nice people are usually people pleasers. They try to please people in hopes that it goes in their favor. That’s not real/ authentic
2022-08-11 07:31:10
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itscaseyjoe
Casey Joe :
YES YES YES!!
2022-08-11 14:40:07
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big.shirlz
Q💋 :
They don't be nice ppl. They be tryna manipulate u to get wut they want.
2022-08-11 14:33:08
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ana.yah__
ana.yah__ :
Thank You Been Trynna Explain This For FOREVER
2022-08-11 13:03:15
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me_doula
Coach Te :
I literally am not nice! I am kind hearted but nice... Not at all
2022-08-11 12:39:35
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