@toriphantom: You can break the cycle #makeup #makeuppeptalk #parenting

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cardozaashley
Ashley 🦋✨ :
My mother constantly comparing my childhood to hers was super toxic and damaging. Like my experience wasn’t valid because it wasn’t as “bad” as hers.
2022-08-16 21:41:20
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sapphiresheart
River Bailey :
I love this color combination on you
2022-08-16 21:32:57
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cyntheanichol
Cynthea Nichol❤️ :
did you tear up when she said it? my kids do that and it brings me tears to my eyes 🥺❤
2022-08-16 22:41:22
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callieshelby
Callie Shelby :
I only ever heard “if you only knew how good you had it,” it was almost always have enduring emotional abuse instead of physical
2022-08-16 21:38:46
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jdawgthepirate
J-Dawg The Pirate :
Tori. Our parents were generous enough to give us a reason to cry
2022-08-16 22:17:15
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therealmelindastrauss
Melinda Strauss ✡️ :
I looooooove this perspective!
2022-08-16 22:35:23
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.mercury_blossom
Mercury :
Sometimes I wish other people knew what it was like with my parents and I want someone to understand but I don’t want them to feel that.
2022-08-16 21:34:10
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sierra_not_ciara
sierra_not_ciara :
I love this so so much
2022-08-16 21:44:26
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maritzabermudez657
lizzy_momo :
wow that's real love ❤️
2022-08-16 21:32:37
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renduh
Renae :
I love you so much. You’re the best human. 🥺❤️
2022-08-16 22:10:47
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tommiesm
Tommy :
HEYYY😍 😻
2022-08-17 05:46:15
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alisonsaidno
What~is~Normal :
💖💛💜
2022-08-17 01:09:23
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cesarspawn
notaspicegirl :
I'm so happy when parents are actually glad their kids have it good, my mom would say that to invalidate my sadness a lot
2022-08-16 21:50:37
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mypie81
Mypie :
last night my 15 year old son came up to me and gave me a hug and he sat in my lap and I rub his back and it was just like when he was little.
2022-08-16 21:40:47
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itsz.teddy
Teddy :
Hi
2022-08-16 21:32:00
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rubberduck712
Duckie :
Usually when parents tell you “how good you have it” it means they are gaslighting you into believing you have it good.
2022-08-17 01:59:04
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aniyah_sanders
Aniyah<3 :
1st and hi
2022-08-16 21:32:25
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beingmisty
Misty :
“I didn’t know things could be different” I literally just told my husband “you are the father that I never knew was possible for our kids”
2022-08-16 22:27:14
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skyteaa
(The)SkyTeaa🌟 :
This made me cry.
2022-08-17 15:05:33
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fairybeautifulnails
Nyx :
This makes me cry because even to this day my parents sometimes think that I have it so much better even though that’s not helpful at all. I’m 26…
2022-08-16 21:34:34
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02tjqe
J :
I wish i had that😔 my parents forget I exist 🤧
2022-08-16 21:53:45
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support.the.t
Liam 🏳️‍⚧️ Support the T :
I feel this. I can’t wait to provide this for my future kids someday. I’ve learned so much about great parenting on this app thanks to people like you
2022-08-17 03:27:50
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secretlifeofmckenna
Mckenna :
I have it better than my parents did but they make me feel bad for it and rub it in my face:(
2022-08-16 21:40:12
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elliotisgae
Elliot the idiot :
I was horrified of the dark but my mom was scarier
2022-08-17 17:36:42
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basil.dewdrop
basil.dewdrop :
That’s huge!
2022-08-16 22:28:13
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kaylee.skeens
Kaylee Skeens :
i’m 14 and have no intention of having kids anytime soon but i always watch every one of these videos every time!!
2022-08-16 22:04:40
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incncvable_buttercup19
incncvable_buttercup19 :
"you don't know how good you have it" gave me a lifetime of guilt for not "appreciating" emotional neglect
2022-08-16 21:50:49
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toastykiitensalt
Your Stepdad • following :
Not me sitting here at 8 in the afternoon boutta cry rn, honestly with you where my parent 🥹
2022-08-17 01:00:30
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cosmic_collective_
Cosmic Collective 🌌 :
Same. We were always told that as well. Now we have CPTSD and DID…
2022-08-31 05:46:29
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live.laugh.prozac
ellie… :
My parents rub it in my face that we have it good. (I’m very humble and I’m not a brat) They make me feel like i don’t know what work is..
2022-08-16 21:49:40
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celinaelise12
Celina Elise :
@Some College Student @Stephanie @Sam 🦋 bro I wish our parents thought like this
2022-08-18 02:10:10
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senkoa
Senko :
The feeling of being utterly safe. 💝
2022-08-16 21:42:39
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un.goth
ungoth :
this made me cry thinking about how I wish I could have had the upbringing you're providing your kids. you're adding so much good to the world
2022-08-17 02:46:44
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jllamarre
Jessica :
here's to breaking the cycle, one household at a time! my kids talk to me and trust me, and that's the best feeling!
2022-08-16 21:39:21
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queer_garbage_rat_69
pen :
"why do my children trust me, are nice to eachother, and love me so much?"
2022-08-17 23:05:28
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crochet9440
crochet :
when your kids get older, late teens or early adult years, do you think you'll talk to them about your childhood? just curious
2022-08-16 21:48:35
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glutenfree.frybread
Rachel🪶 :
loving the colors 🥰
2022-08-16 22:19:47
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kilofa02
Kira :
its painful for my inner child but very beautiful to know that kids like yours will grow up with so much emotional love and support ❤
2022-08-17 06:03:17
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bunnyburrowsys
Bunny🐰🎗️🚦🍉 :
I’m not crying, there’s just something in my eyes…someone remind me to stitch this tomorrow/in the morning morning-
2022-08-17 05:20:55
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mothmanatemyassatdennys
IAteMothman'sAssAtDennys :
I aspire to be you to my own kids when I adopt
2022-08-17 06:07:41
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lilly58782
Lilly Taylor :
Good Parenting Skills.. 🥰..
2022-08-16 22:11:30
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borderlinepink
pinkie :
"you've never had a bad day in your life" - my dad months after my psych ward stay at 17 & 4th attempt. I disowned him Oct. 2020 & am happier without.
2022-08-17 01:56:45
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apocalyps3productions
Kit 🏛️☢️🎬 :
I never realized how bad things were for me at home because I never knew anything different. When I got to high school, I was so baffled that my
2022-08-16 23:31:03
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partystillgetsmewetter
Glogirl⭐️ :
ADOPT ME! When I was younger I always thought “if this is “good” what the hell is bad?”
2022-08-16 21:33:46
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deadlynocturne
𝓐𝓷𝓭𝔂🦇 :
That is all I want out of this life for my future kids ❤️❤️❤️
2022-08-16 21:45:38
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zizifoxx
Zizi Foxx :
I learned my parents moods and emotions based off of their footsteps and the sound they made. My therapist told me that is normal (not exact words)
2022-08-17 23:58:46
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