@theholisticpsychologist: Many parents put their children in the middle of adult arguments & unknowingly traumatize them.

Dr. Nicole LePera
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Friday 19 August 2022 16:43:31 GMT
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cruisincatlady
cruisincatlady :
Stole from my life! Lol. My mom told us we were the reason they were divorcing. My mom had us call dad to tell him we were scared of him at age 5.
2022-08-19 16:52:45
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goodgirlatgunpoint
Goodgirlatgunpoint :
“It seems you don’t understand I’m still learning math” is a line I wish I learned when my parents were getting divorced 😂
2022-08-19 17:12:03
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hogboss10
hog boss :
It is indeed disheartening to observe that a majority of the comments attribute primary responsibility to the father. The judicial system often appears to endorse such troubling behavior.
2025-02-21 03:01:28
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amand4.mari3
AmandaMarie :
Divorced happened when I was 3 and my brother wasn't even a year. Our whole life was this. "He doesn't love you" "He wants nothing to do with you" etc
2022-08-19 16:58:37
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kittensmittens88
kittensmittens88 :
My mom keeps saying that my dad and his family doesn’t love me, because they forgot about my bday:/ idk what to think
2022-08-20 10:34:17
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michitimeluv
Michi :
I sincerely wish my parents had gotten a divorce as a child. "Stay together for the children" is just as damaging as splitting.
2022-08-20 12:46:46
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mzkimty
Miz Kin :
Children and parents should all get some basic therapy during and after the divorce, to avoid traumatising the child :(
2022-08-20 08:22:49
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kalinikamikova
𝒦𝒶𝓁𝒾 :
I had to choose when i was 5
2022-08-23 21:13:00
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hogboss10
hog boss :
It is important to remember that we each make a conscious choice regarding the individual with whom we decide to have a child.
2025-02-21 03:03:08
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salcantspel
salcantspel :
I remember when my mom yelled at me for eating dinner with my dad and not her (i have 7sinlings who ate with her) and told me I didn’t love her💀
2022-08-20 06:24:27
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hhhhhhhhhbbh
hhhhhhhhhbbh :
My mom kept everything from me other then that they were separated until I was 9 she didnt want to ruin my relationship with my father (1)
2022-08-24 22:06:56
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lilkikikara
lilkikikara :
My therapist and me have been talking about the emotional Parentification my mom did. She told me all of her problems and in the future I didn’t
2022-08-19 21:06:41
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christina.existing
Christina 🇨🇦 :
So thankful that my parents got divorced when I was an adult. I mean, still got similar trauma as an adult but better than being a kid
2022-08-19 18:47:02
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sorrowful.sol
Sol’s world (nerdy advocate) :
I feel bad for my bio dad since he never ever spoke bad of my mom (even if she was abusive asf) and then she would alienate the f out of me saying 1)
2022-08-20 10:23:01
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thesandycarrot
thesandycarrot :
I did everything in my power to shield my children from my wife's affair...they have no clue to this day
2022-08-19 21:49:54
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niclolo6
niclolo6 :
This hurt so much to watch but this was so great ! God bless you for this amazing video ! 🤍
2022-08-19 22:19:13
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yumemiru_5
f~ :
they made me choose not only for me but for my siblings two and they didn’t get a divorce ✨
2022-08-20 01:06:43
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mischievousraccoonboy
tommy :
this is so spot on. the whole “im being used as a way for you both to unconsciously get revenge on eachother” was so exact to my situation at age 6-10
2022-08-19 22:00:13
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lanaalanaaa123
Lanaa :
1)my mother told me that my dad said that im the real reason why they are getting a divorce and i loved my dad more than anyone but now he doesnt even
2022-09-22 17:26:07
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straywolf7
straywolf7 :
This legit just made me cry… I’ve been through this exact thing my whole childhood 🥺
2022-09-18 21:02:39
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live.4.naps
💙Emms💙 :
I’m 28 and my parents still do this the complain about the othe parent talking down about them. I just listen and tun in and out till It’s over.
2022-08-19 17:28:29
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graceknotgracie
gracie :
Where did you get the carebear shirt?
2022-08-19 18:28:56
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dragonfirework
Dragonfirework :
This is brilliant that you’re bringing language to the unconscious or subconscious and helping people with their languaging
2022-08-20 03:34:42
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tracyywashington
Tracy Y Washington :
Your content is helping a lot of people. Thank you for being the guide to the conversations often going on in our heads.
2022-08-26 21:56:59
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archierascano
Ar Artchie :
hello lovely folks found my people
2022-08-28 15:39:17
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