Rini Spencer
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Tuesday 29 November 2022 04:06:11 GMT
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Whitney Hope :
PSA: Parents shouldn’t try to buy their love for their child. Hang in there❤️
2022-11-29 04:27:05
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Natalie :
Absolutely! The gifts are a manipulation tactic that we’ve already seen in the past with ourselves and others. We know their games. Not about to play!
2022-11-29 04:26:23
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Morgsi :
People who say that clearly don't have parents like us 😬 That package had manipulation written all over it
2022-11-29 04:47:01
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Mia Bryn :
This is something my mom would do for show. So she can say “I always send a giant box and then I hear nothing.” It would be used to make me look bad.
2022-11-29 04:23:30
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Hbern :
My mom uses gifts as a means to guilt us to talk to her.
2022-11-29 06:12:36
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Casandra Rider :
going on year 4 of no contact with my dad. holidays are tough but my sanity is worth it! 💕
2022-11-29 05:05:25
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Gabrielle :
My mother sent a necklace with my kids names on it, then told me to send it back if I wasnt going to wear it so she can wear it🙃
2022-11-29 05:52:11
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Cyndygorham :
I feel you. Anything from my dad or my MIL … instantly gets donated.
2022-11-29 04:08:07
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Sabrina Rose :
Felt this to my core 😅
2022-11-29 04:36:40
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kennybabylovesu :
it’s v calculated ppl it’s not love lmao
2022-11-29 05:01:40
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Melissa Head :
I feel you! I’ve been waiting on mine to change my whole life.
2022-11-29 04:08:05
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Megan :
In my mind it proves she can be thoughtful and considerate, but chooses not to be those in the ways that REALLY matter and count. 🤷♀️
2022-11-30 18:32:56
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Gery 🌈❤️ :
The people who are saying that have never been in a abusive relationship with a family member . The gifts are 100% manipulation.
2022-11-29 05:46:14
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Carly 💖 :
Listening to their child’s pain, taking accountability and trying to make changes in their behavior to regain their kids trust are better than gifts!
2022-11-29 04:40:29
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Arielle :
My dad would send me images of us as kids and say "remember the good times" after extremely abusive sessions. Ya... NOPE!
2022-12-09 23:08:54
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bowena87 :
Completely get it. I have so many letters from my parent. But at the end of the day narcissists don’t change. Thank you for being vulnerable.
2022-11-29 04:14:02
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Beth ☾ :
People who don’t understand narcissistic parents or who don’t have them will always say “she’s trying tho :(“ 🙄
2022-11-29 18:25:37
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Audra💜 :
THE CAPTION 🎯
2022-11-29 05:08:59
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Courtney Lange :
It’s a way for them to feel like they have power over you. To make themselves the victim when you don’t respond to their “kind gestures”.
2022-11-29 13:38:33
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Alyssa 😎 :
Am I the only one who doesn’t know what her mom did??
2022-11-29 14:05:43
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elisajaynee :
Literally just got free birds boots today after NC for for 11 months. My mind is blown.
2022-11-29 04:33:58
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Kristen White :
True growth would be to accept the boundaries that you set. But they won't do that
2022-11-29 21:13:18
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Harley :
They use these "gifts" to try to get you to break the boundary and let them back in. It's a manipulation tactic
2022-12-05 10:19:53
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Bec Baker :
Friends mean well but you know your mum.
2022-11-29 07:36:52
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Valley James :
👏👏👏👏
2022-11-29 05:44:43
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Alicia Harris :
People who haven’t been there don’t get it. Not every gift is given from a place of love.
2022-11-29 15:36:34
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Laura Carrier :
Most people don’t understand unless they went through it, and I wouldn’t wish that pain on anybody
2022-11-29 15:17:25
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sam :
people don’t change because they send gifts!!! it’s further manipulation. hope ur feeling ok <3
2022-11-29 04:16:18
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MissLiberatedLogic :
“Oh your mums really trying” 🤦🏻♀️
2022-12-07 04:37:12
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444h_x :
Literally just got one in the mail, A LACK OF SOAPS ISNT WHY I CUT CONTACT MOMMMMM😂
2022-11-29 10:30:05
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MamaG :
They send gifts, and then hold them over your head for the rest of your life🤦♀️
2022-12-09 22:20:48
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Rebekah Bender :
Literally. Just because they’re doing nice things now doesn’t mean that all the past toxic goes away. And they’re only being “nice” now to prove that
2022-11-29 12:13:01
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Daiz :
Forgiveness feels great sweetheart. God bless you.
2022-11-30 01:04:23
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Cierra Edwards :
Literally my in laws with my children. I’ve started sending them back before my kids see them
2022-11-29 15:41:57
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Julia’s 🎈 & Party Studio :
Those people just don’t understand what they don’t know trust me I get them here and there sent to my bfs jobs office bc she didn’t know my address
2022-12-16 02:11:29
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S :
I start to cry out of frustration when mine sends me gifts or flowers 😔 I asked her to stop doing that
2022-11-29 09:28:38
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Babylivicecream :
THIS ONE! Only ones who go through it know exactly how manipulative it is 😭
2022-11-29 07:31:32
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Classic 😌 :
I’m actually hella nosey and wanna know what else she sent you lol. Btw don’t listen to anyone on tiktok you know what’s best for YOU! No one else
2022-11-29 05:43:40
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Dee :
My MIL asked to help us get out of a bad neighborhood when my husband was first starting his career. We accepted and now every single time
2022-12-13 15:59:37
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Char_xo 🧸 :
I cut my mum off 3 years ago due to generational curses, it hurts sometimes but I won’t do the same to my kids that she done to me. ✌️
2022-11-29 10:06:04
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mdln__ahn :
I just realized that mostly only people with abusive parents could tell the the hidden motive
2022-12-10 18:58:58
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Jenni🌈 :
Been there.
2022-11-29 04:51:13
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gracie 🤍 :
Absolutely!!!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻
2022-11-29 04:59:10
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carlacampos628 :
My MIL sent my DH a bday card that said “I hope you are living the life you want to - YOLO” after being NC for 2 yrs 🤮🗑
2022-11-29 04:29:02
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mmmdogs :
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2022-11-29 20:23:11
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