Ms Rachel
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Tuesday 29 November 2022 13:32:27 GMT
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LySh🕊️ :
I say you will be ok. It’s ok you can cry.
2022-11-29 13:39:18
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Suzy :
"Mommy has you, you're safe"
2022-11-29 14:26:13
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mvbosslady83 :
Actually I think it contextualises their pain. If it was something serious a parent would let them know.
2022-11-30 03:18:03
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Karen :
I ask "are you more hurt or more scared?"
2022-11-29 14:24:25
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Deborah :
I always ask are you okay? Does it hurt? Was that scary? And I say I’m here ❤️
2022-11-29 13:38:18
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alexandriabydesign :
But they are ok… getting hurt is typically physical pain and emotional shock. The shock can scramble your thoughts and small children do not yet understand if they are ok.
2025-04-07 05:20:04
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MaryBessP :
My 4yo always corrects us and says “I’m not okay. My leg still hurts!”
2022-11-29 13:51:20
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TacoKing :
I usually go with the old "now I gotta cut it off" works like a charm
2022-11-29 21:23:19
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VictoriaS :
I always ask, are you okay? If they say nooo, I say, it’s ok,, I know.. but it’s ok, I got you
2025-04-26 02:33:56
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daisymae♡ :
Ms Rachel you’re a queen
2022-11-29 13:39:17
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Nicole :
I'm trying to change "you're ok" to "it's gonna be ok" but its a tough habit to break
2022-11-29 19:03:50
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brittany102817 :
I seen her video. Showed the husband. We’ve both changed our wording. Never thought of it but it’s true.
2022-11-29 14:33:46
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kaitmyers :
I think when their person tells them they are okay it helps them regulate and realize they are okay! You can feel the feelings but still BE okay. 💙
2022-11-29 20:49:57
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shhredward :
Nah they’re ok
2022-11-29 20:20:19
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Christinaxmccormick :
I just ask are you okay until she knows if she is or isnt.
2022-11-29 13:38:28
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Nicole Matthews :
my mom always asked "are you hurt or did it scare you?" it really helped me to be able to differentiate and ask for what I truly needed
2022-12-27 19:35:24
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Maleficent.Abby :
I always ask are you okay? And usually what would make them feel better. Usually my kid wants a hug
2022-11-29 13:40:33
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Ariel and Michael Tyson :
Yes! My husband told me this early on in marriage because he didn’t love when people did that to him as a child and I learned something new then!
2022-11-29 15:12:55
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Jon_Moore10 :
But they are fine. It teaches them to not freak out over something so small.
2022-11-29 19:01:34
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Ryan Murphy :
i was told its okay and i was never confused. i knew they meant lile not permanent damage just temporary pain.
2022-11-30 02:59:19
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Haley :
Yeah what is a good thing to say? Maybe are you okay? And how can I help you feel better?
2022-11-29 13:37:23
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Sillie Joe :
I disagree, most of the time they are okay and you're reaction plays a big part in how they react. But if they are hurt everything will be okay.
2022-12-31 18:00:01
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Hasan :
I just tell my kids to get up... sorry but I'm not having them grow up, stubbing their toe then crying for hours... no sorry but no
2023-01-03 20:22:00
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Sarah🤍 :
They are okay tho… this is a way of teaching your children the difference between being okay or not. If you choose to let them think they’re not okay
2023-01-05 03:58:29
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Tabitha Annen :
first we say "uh oh" but in a happy way so if they are ok, we are not scaring them. if it's a bigger fall we go are you ok, where is the ouchie.
2022-12-05 18:43:28
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