Having a hard time dating, doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong
2023-01-02 15:20:13
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Julia :
You’re the best Nick. I think of dating like applying to jobs! Sometimes you get an interview, other times an offer, rejection, etc.
2023-01-02 21:42:01
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Taylor Michele :
This is great advice it really does help take the pressure off
2023-01-02 16:48:59
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nellybean93 :
Needed this reminder
2023-01-02 15:51:54
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Sunshine | OC creative 🌊✨ :
It’s the “no one ever said it was going to be fun” for me 😂🤣
2023-01-02 21:18:14
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Erica Shorr :
No expectations. This has been a game changer for me. I’m 55, single only 2 years after a 15 yr relationship. Dating apps . I’m having fun !
2023-01-02 15:57:09
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user532580358417 Amy :
I stopped dating takes up too much time and chose to improve myself and work on achieving financial freedom . I no longer have to work
2023-01-02 17:09:33
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flamenco911 :
Honestly just continue some of the pandemic processes and do FaceTime calls for a while before you actually do a date.
2023-01-02 19:35:23
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M Velch :
Facts dude and actually give people a chance if they seem genuinely good…sparks aren’t always gonna fly on the first date or two doesn’t mean there isn’t a good connection with a few more
2023-01-03 04:18:33
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🦋 :
We work SO hard in other areas of our lives, dating definitely does require some work! ❤️
2023-01-02 18:02:12
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Ines :
good point
2023-01-02 16:30:13
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Tami :
Loved ur book!
2023-01-02 16:08:27
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kayknight_28 :
Amazing advice!
2023-01-02 18:02:39
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Jess 🧡 | fangirl & corgi mom :
Does anyone else think he looks like Cameron from white lotus ?
2023-01-02 17:07:01
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carolina_pizano :
Yesssss i go into dates excited to meet someone new, get to know a new personality. Their characteristic. New convos etc. that’s it! I love it
2023-01-03 00:37:50
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NancyRose :
there’s dream/big goals (being in a healthy and happy relationship) but it’ll take small sub goals (going on dates) to get there ♥️
2023-01-02 15:36:03
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Roxanne Kammerer :
well maybe I should try again. it's been over 6 yrs. so exhausting. harder as an older wimen.
2023-01-02 16:55:07
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Karla Gomez :
Also it’s about seeing other peoples views and opinions even if it doesn’t work out
2023-01-02 17:46:37
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Jen :
The problem with that advice is men never go on dates expecting or wanting to make a friend
2023-01-03 01:12:19
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C123 :
ya know, you pleasantly surprised me @nickviall you are very insightful and always have great advice!
2023-01-02 17:52:50
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carrrrlz :
I think for a lot of women we realize we’re not working towards something that will be rewarding when we’ve only had energy-sucking relationships
2023-01-02 17:56:41
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Rizzie Marie :
omg in 2022 I dated a lot ..But just thinking it's just friendly.. Because it doesn't clickmNo pressure at all. then.
2023-01-03 15:13:03
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Summer :
I have lowered my standards, still no luck
2023-01-03 09:37:40
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Britt Welch :
How do you feel about dating apps?
2023-01-02 18:19:06
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Elvisa :
I love this advice! It’s been a lot more fun to date when you sit back and just think of it as making a new friend!!
2023-01-03 13:37:50
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Stephen ☘️ :
Dating creates certain expectations right away. Like Nick says, just get to know them without setting expectations. Don’t let hope take over.
2023-01-04 03:46:03
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Spidey 🕷️ :
@lmiklas :)
2023-01-04 18:59:33
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damsel_in_distress13 :
@nosam1309
2023-01-06 17:02:54
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Jennifer :
absolutely exhausting
2023-01-02 19:41:00
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summer🌻 :
Needed this. 😅
2023-01-02 16:24:54
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KT :
@sammurd
2023-01-21 14:39:17
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Erin Gagne :
I like this viewpoint
2023-01-03 01:35:39
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suitcaselife :
this, so much this!
2023-01-03 09:52:32
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Sarah :
this is some flawed logic though 🫠
2023-01-02 20:59:11
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Pannenkoekbum :
People also need to step out of their comfort zones.
2023-01-02 20:40:38
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Tierney :
Really good comparisons
2023-01-02 21:50:00
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maristelamsalazar :
this.
2023-01-02 21:57:54
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BUCATINI SUPREMECY :
I hate arguing through metaphor
2023-01-02 22:14:31
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Anabel :
Needed this thank you 🥰
2023-01-02 22:17:14
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GailsaMimi :
I love this! Good way to look at it. It can be so exhausting and sometimes makes you want to get up on it all!
2023-01-02 20:13:23
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Nic :
i love this man
2023-01-02 23:10:29
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kag739 :
Good one 👏 💥
2023-01-02 23:22:51
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gabriella regina :
Beautifully said
2023-01-02 23:28:35
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Carly :
i never treated dating as a # game & only went out w/ guys i really vibed with. that will change it for her.
2023-01-02 19:42:36
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Kjzimjosefs :
Great advice!
2023-01-03 00:44:45
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tayyymarieee :
The mindset of meeting new friends is key!!!
2023-01-02 19:40:39
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Wren :
I’ve done this for a decade @nickviall. Any type of dating? I’ve done it. I’ve never had unrealistic expectations. Never had an “expectation”
2023-01-03 01:33:19
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