@gemini_mama_97: 4 years ago my sister passed away I also had a baby a month before her passing. during all of it my mom was using..... and got my other sister taken away. My mom got sober , fucked up again. Both my brother and sister went to live with my supposed to be stepdad, still married to my mom but has a fiance and another child now 😵💫 they rarely speak to me and or see there nephews. They're loss I guess. They say it's my fault because I took my moms side. I didn't take anyone's side I tried to be there as much as I could be.