@eleanorconway: Penetration is overrated when it comes to female pleasure, most women know that. It's all about the clit... That's it's only job... Pleasure. Straight women have the lowest rate of orgasm when it comes to partnered sex... And no, it's not because we're 'complex' or need an emotional attachment in order to climax. It's just we don't get the correct form of stimulation to get us there. Which is why I LOVE Lelo- They totally understand this and have come up with a personal massager called Lily 3. It knows the rhythms I already know for myself. They've articulated female pleasure into a chargable, pocket sized, work of art. It's my go to toy now. Check out the link in my bio and go see for yourself. #wellwithLELO #Lelolily3