@abbiechatfield: DAN SAVAGE ON @It’s A Lot PODCAST YAY. Comment thoughts on Dan’s theory!

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lukemckellar5
Luke Mckellar :
In theory that makes sense. However, breaking your partners trust does things to people. If you lie to me, it’s hard for me to want to be around you.
2023-05-16 03:09:54
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messedupworld_07
Nerdy_Adventurer :
nah it's not about them physically cheating, it's about the lack of respect you had for me in that moment, and how i can no longer trust you.
2023-05-18 14:28:05
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je.rod84
J-man :
If you date someone for a year thats 365 days. If you cheat once a week thats 52 times. Youre 85% loyal Passing grade. 😂
2023-07-08 21:36:42
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mandaco0
Mandaco :
Dan savage icon!!!
2023-05-16 08:10:59
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Nah i judge cheaters hard
2023-05-16 04:25:00
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notmenonotyou
BPhil 🇦🇺 🏳️‍🌈 :
I think most have sad it but a drunk kiss and admitting it is one thing but hiding/lying is knowing you did bad but don’t want repercussions
2023-05-16 06:13:18
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killer_loves_revenge
Cece :
*loudest juiciest fart sound ever* ... and that's what I think of that.
2023-07-08 01:36:18
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chloeleag
Chloe Lea :
I am monogamous and I hard agree with Dan Savage here
2023-05-16 00:43:23
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ifthemoonbloomed
GeorgiaLilliC :
No cheating is bad. Having a consenting non-monogamous relationship is perfectly fine. Cheating shows lack of respect for your partner
2023-05-16 08:17:11
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therealcrystaljane
Crystal Jane :
the "wowww" had me cackling
2023-05-16 00:55:13
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beccaboombox
BeckaBoo :
Cheating is less about whether they love their SO, it’s the deception/lack of honesty for years which eats away the trust more than anything
2023-05-16 00:52:10
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arachelllk
A :
interested to see the rest of this, because cheating is more than just a contravention of monogamy-it’s a breakdown in trust and communication
2023-05-16 01:50:05
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nico.d.trafalgar
Jasnah Sedai :
I kind of agree but it’s a fine line between being open to forgive and being a doormat
2023-05-17 22:16:19
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friendofthebroken
Friend of the Broken🫀 :
If I only kill once or twice, I’m good at not being a murderer😇
2023-06-30 08:28:13
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ejm33aus
EJM :
A lot more people should listen to Dan!
2023-05-16 09:57:14
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k547md
krobmd :
Yes!!!
2023-07-08 03:51:10
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blinking990
klee :
Dan Savage is great!
2023-05-16 11:20:06
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lovehellokittybruh
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they weren’t bad at Monogamy the times they didn’t cheat, but they are bad at monogamy when they do cheat….
2023-05-16 03:37:00
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halfbraincellhannah
hannah rose :
There needs to be a shift around placing so much pressure on perfect monogamy and focus on the unique trust and commitment each relationship has.
2023-06-03 01:31:45
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splattdaddy69
splattdaddy69 :
What about everything they do that isn’t physical cheating? A lot of bad behaviour before something physical happens.
2023-06-29 10:41:42
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haelsford
Hael :
no, we accept that partners may want to sleep with or have feelings for others, that's natural, it's the choice not too that makes it monogamous
2023-06-16 23:26:07
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natashaskye
Tash :
It’s not the cheating that breaks people, it’s the lying and lack of trust when you find out they’ve kept something so big from you.
2023-05-21 23:55:03
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katie_faulkner
katie_faulkner :
I love Sir Ssvage
2023-05-16 14:04:21
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oooooooop221
user4915277356286 :
We’re not wild animals. We have a prefrontal cortex that can control our impulses.
2023-07-08 20:09:13
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linenlis
linenlis :
I have never and will never cheat on anyone. I think it’s valid to expect my partner to match that, so I will not stay with a cheater, idc ab 50 years
2023-07-08 02:46:23
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