You deserve to date someone capable of showing up for you
2023-05-22 16:01:39
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Salem :
Maybe talk to him. Maybe help him get therapy. Maybe don’t give up on him.
2023-05-22 19:25:19
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VNess :
i want a partner who can be a caregiver for me and allows me to be a caregiver to them when needed. in sickness and in health. not just when happy
2023-05-22 19:05:52
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Sarah Jo :
I’m in this situation right now and I’d be there for his mental health - but he refuses to go to therapy or work on it without me nagging him to
2023-05-22 19:17:25
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youmaycallmecolleen :
You deserve a partner who recognizes the need for balance of emotional labor in a relationship. Not a one-sided dumping ground for negativity
2023-05-22 16:42:23
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bimbosummit2009 :
in sickness and in health …just not mental health? 👀 😳
2023-05-22 19:12:04
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Ginger :
So true. We can be supportive but we are not therapists or parents. I dated a very depressed man last year and it was excruciating. Drained my soul
2023-05-22 20:53:44
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Rozina :
8 years for me. It’s such a hard struggle especially when they are good people. Just know you have a choice
2023-05-22 19:07:47
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Killerbunny :
depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain, it's not something that can just to be turned off..
2023-05-22 19:38:46
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Kp :
As someone who’s been in a relationship like this, the guilt of being with someone like this is crippling. Get out early, make them own their issues.
2023-05-22 17:00:20
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Carisis Laray :
“Whose making sure I’m ok” ugh that one
2023-05-23 19:56:02
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tweedledoo7 :
Ok guys so this basically translates into if youre not a perfect human being meaning no trauma, mental diagnoses etc you wont ever be good enough
2023-05-23 07:51:43
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Mihusky :
So he’s saying abandon people w mental illness and not help the people you love get professional help.. yikes
2023-05-30 19:00:28
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MAXIT :
I had this exact person as my husband. We’re now going through a divorce. I couldn’t handle the lack of ambition and overall gloom
2023-05-31 01:15:15
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Jealinn Walker :
my husband and I have an understanding that we will always be there for support each other, so long as we are doing our best to help ourselves too.
2023-05-23 20:01:00
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The Real Dirty Dan :
I was that dude here I am . You have to be learn to be happy with yourself and can’t have anyone in that space . I needed therapy .
2023-05-23 17:57:23
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user8572111529037 :
We need to tell people it’s ok to breakup with good people. There doesn’t have to be a fight, just it for you
2023-05-22 19:36:57
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Ray :
I just walked away from my relationship after 9 years of giving and never having what I needed. SELF LOVE is the answer 🖤 fight for what you deserve
2023-05-22 18:17:36
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Melissa :
I think a partner is part caregiver.. everyone is selfish these days. You’re gonna dump someone because they’re depressed?? Uhhh
2023-05-22 20:25:38
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🌜Bella ⭐️ :
I will say you can love someone when you are struggling with yourself.I was dealing withdepression and anxiety,I was still showing up.My partner didnt
2023-05-22 19:38:35
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Ashrow73 :
Thank you! I support him but he’s always “needing me”. It’s a huge burden to be responsible for his happiness. This is a fairly new relationship and he’s constantly upset. And if I have plans he starts talking really dark
2025-05-17 01:25:04
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Jessi :
My relationship just ended bc he is going through a depressive episode and cannot show up in the relationship in the way he and I deserve
2023-05-22 19:19:54
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