@choosingtherapy: Retroactive is different from regular jealousy because it is focused on the past, rather than things happening in the present. For example, it is jealousy over a person’s previous relationship, rather than them flirting with a coworker. This often makes things difficult, because it is impossible to change the past. Retroactive jealousy usually does not have anything to do with the partner’s current actions, such as behaving in a way that warrants suspicion. It is often due to one’s insecurity about themselves or the current relationship. Focusing on the past reinforces the insecurity that they already feel, and can make them feel like they are not good enough for their partner. Article: Retroactive Jealousy: What It Is & How to Overcome Written by: Kaytee Gillis LCSW-BACS Medically Reviewed by: Heidi Moawad MD Published: 05/03/2023 #retroactivejealousy #jealousyissues #jealousy #relationshiptiktok #relationshipstruggles😑 #relationshipproblems💔

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emilyafrew
Emily Harding Frew :
didn’t even realize i had this until now😅 def thought this was normal
2023-12-11 02:29:43
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liv2wavyy
liv⋆˚꩜。 :
this is me how do i fix it please
2023-11-08 18:16:24
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carazwicker
Cara Zwicker :
Mostly i dont want to hear about his past but he is a man of nothing but oversharing bc he wants to be open but KNOWING IS THE ISSUE. I dont want to.
2023-11-18 15:40:43
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cosmicfriend
Cosmic Rafiki :
I've know about this for a while, tried everything in therapy, journalism, avoid social media, but even after months of forgetting, it resurfaced
2023-08-05 17:27:24
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dxub1edav3d
Beep beep :
When he talks about a romantic thing his ex did with a smile…..
2023-11-19 17:35:47
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_emlbndr
emlbndr on IG :
wow this is SOOO me, may term pala dun, and this is so sad cause I cant help it :(((
2024-11-01 10:57:41
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abigail_15
Abby :
i don’t mind if he mentions his ex but something about his most recent one just drives me insane??
2024-03-15 01:33:06
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iafwiw
iafwiw :
It’s hard to know where these insecurities come from but, man, they can be fierce
2023-05-26 23:31:37
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ladycydonia
LadyC :
I used to be like this but honestly I had a reason. He kept checking up on his ex on fb or hunting down any sort of social media presence she had just to see how she was doing…. And that relationship
2024-08-01 13:39:55
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miss.faby.88
miss.faby.88 :
mm I never knew this was a thing! I've done this with my ex.
2025-05-03 22:17:04
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sexxy.lexxi28
$EXY LEX! :
How do I stop this
2025-04-30 16:29:53
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0dinthenut
mayura :
so doesn't that just means I'm insecure
2025-04-23 10:37:12
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blazeth3c4t0
𝐵𝓁𝒶𝓏𝑒 ☸️ :
I had that before , at the start of my relationship, than u realised that I had more experience than him (he didn’t have his first kiss) and after all he loves me for who I am right now and not who I
2025-03-09 19:05:02
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bleed4.u
xtcy :
it's almost as if we live in a generation where having high body counts before you're out of high school is normalized. So ofc, people with genuine intentions are looked at as "jealous" or "insecure"
2025-04-15 22:08:39
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lime.lit
crazy :
i wouldnt have minded if he had exes from his past but the fact is that he lied about his past and i cant help but wonder what else he's lied to me about
2025-05-07 12:38:00
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leon_von_
Leon :
These are all healthy things. I don’t see jealousy just curiosity in finding a partner
2025-01-27 13:44:16
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munjee.nome
munjee :
well, how about he keep mentioning about the exes without me asking anything? is it a reverse retroactive jealousy? 🙃
2025-07-13 08:45:54
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rangatang7893
jawjuh :
Me
2025-01-29 23:47:20
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fk.arnd
Fk.arnd :
Okay what if this is happening, but only because he started flirting with your friends and you caught him saving photos of other women?
2023-11-27 08:17:45
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ysvrl
yuh :
For me its disgust not insecurity . My relationship will end soon sadly i have to
2023-12-15 03:21:01
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shielamarie.do
s🎀 :
guilty haha
2025-02-23 15:24:55
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perrygreena
Ms Greena😊 :
the fact that i did all of these is wild
2025-01-27 21:37:51
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syemerc
syemerc :
how do i stop feeling this way 😇😇
2024-04-06 02:17:13
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