@ourbravehearts: WHAT IS MATRESCENCE? Oooohhh…questions like this have me pulling up a chair and settling in for some great conversations! Matrescence is the name given to the transition a woman goes through when becoming a mother. It doesn’t just happen once, it happens every time you have a child and according to Dr. Aurelie Athan, “arguable lasts a lifetime”. Makes sense to me - I’ll always be growing into my constantly evolving motherhood. Learning about Matrescence has helped me understand that the identify shifts I went through (but felt so alone in) are a huge part of what needed to happen as I became a mother. There is such power in knowledge and when mothers can learn and understand that what they are going through is as hard as it feels, that it’s not all in their heads, that there are real physical, social, spiritual, hormonal and cultural changes that occur as we move from being the woman we were to the mothers we’re becoming. If you want to explore the concept of Matrescence a little deeper, you’ll find the recording of my workshop ‘Introduction to Matrescence’ in the link in my bio 💌 #matrescence #matrescencecoach #mamarisingmovement #mamarising #imeverymum #reelmom #momreels #transitiontomotherhood #notjustamom #identitycrisis #motherhood #motherhoodishard #matrescencematters
Jacqueline | Mum Coach
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Wednesday 14 June 2023 09:07:31 GMT
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Oshie Dot :
This means so much to me. I knew I was always destined to become a Mother. I'm nowhere near the mum I thought I'd be & now my children are young adults & teens. My heart is breaking as I'm nothing else. But I'm not what I thought I'd be either and now it's too late 💔💛
2025-07-17 20:08:34
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Dollshead96 :
so I will never feel like me again 😭
2025-07-17 22:14:28
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Sophie Thom :
Is it supposed to hurt? I’m eleven months postpartum and I’m really unwell today surviving on maternity pay has been hard because we’ve had a cluster of things that have got us behind I don’t want to wake up anymore I’ve been praying that when I fall asleep it’s final I know there’s people in worst positions than me because I sort of have my health but maybe there’s some other hormonal things going on that’s not helping me deal with things well x
2025-07-17 12:05:05
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Kaassap :
Do we know why this happens?
2025-07-18 10:12:13
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Sashi :
I’d never heard of this before … such as shame I’ve only just found out
2025-07-17 16:27:42
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Sarah Lewin :
Comparing it to adolescence actually makes so much sense
2025-07-17 23:29:35
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just_iina :
yes! it's huge change especially when it feels like mom shouldn't have any regrets or doubts or desires besides what motherhood involves. your whole life should magically revolve around being mom & you're nothing more unless it's something your spouse needs/wants. and if u want or need something for yourself you are selfish. that might be hormones & endless quilt speaking too.. 🤔 but that was what I felt. I was destined to serve & take care of others but nobody took care of me.
2025-07-17 19:39:32
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Claire-ly Speaking :
It was a massive transition but everyone only tells you how blessed you are that you feel uncomfortable questioning the transition.
2023-06-15 05:52:06
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Roses :
This is vital to understand, also I think the sudden reversion that occurs with stillbirth or miscarriage if it's your first baby.
2023-06-14 23:29:48
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Jacqueline | Mum Coach :
Let me know if you’d like me to share some more of my understandings of this concept and what it has done for me ❤️
2023-06-14 09:07:45
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Dolly Cahill :
maiden to mother. very powerful.
2023-06-14 22:23:54
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Kiwi :
Are matresence and second puberty in any way related?
2025-07-17 21:29:52
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Rhonda | Celtic Seer (Shaman) :
It’s such a huge transition - thanks for talking about it 🥰
2023-06-14 12:22:37
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NikiCottonArtist :
Oh I love this word!!! I do a lot of my work on the fracturing of self that happens in motherhood. Thanks for this 💖✨
2023-06-14 17:47:34
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sirladyemrose :
I told people this constantly after my first born. I called it second puberty.
2023-06-15 12:49:44
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Dr Sally C. Reynolds :
this is excellent. thanks for sharing 😎
2025-07-17 20:32:59
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👑🔥IDFWU🔥👑 :
I needed to watch this 😳
2025-05-06 16:54:12
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MotherooHQ :
Okay yes 🙌
2025-05-04 14:22:27
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Monster Mart :
First time I’ve heard this term! Explains the massive change so well. It’s not just being tired!
2024-10-01 06:13:44
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sarahjanelovett :
More people neeeeed to know about it, keep the awareness spreading going ✊
2024-12-07 07:38:19
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Jessica Quigley :
this video has too few views for more than a year later ❤️
2024-09-23 15:19:23
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spiritualhipster_zara_x :
💕💕I hope my mothering friends see this
2024-08-06 04:51:21
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Kayleigh Swart :
😁
2025-07-18 19:23:31
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Shannon :
🤤
2025-07-18 14:39:06
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Anick :
🥰
2025-07-18 11:50:55
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